April 17 marked the 13th annual "Day of Silence," a gay rights protest event sponsored by GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network) that takes place in schools across the nation. Of course, gay groups can afford to be silent for a day, because they have the mainstream news media to speak for them.
"Day of Silence" is, according to the event's Web site, "a student-led national event that brings attention to anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying and harassment in schools ...the event is designed to illustrate the silencing effect of this bullying and harassment on LGBT students and those perceived to be LGBT."
Predictably, the media covered this year's event in a positive manner, leaving little room for discussions of it as an indoctrination tool pushed on students by gay activists. And they certainly didn't report that the LGBT community and its allies don't have a problem with "name calling, bullying and harassment" when it's directed against people who disagree with them.
"Intrinsically Evil, Objectively Disordered"
This year's "Day of Silence" coincided with the birthday of Carl Walker-Hoover, an 11-year-old boy who committed suicide on April 6 after his schoolmates repeatedly called him "gay" and labeled him "feminine." Walker-Hoover's mother, Sirdeaner Walker, has stated her son was not gay.
Predictably, LGBT groups and the media used the tragedy as a symbol for the harassment of gay teens in school. But there's also an unreported story about harassment of anyone who refuses to embrace the gay agenda.
For instance, no mainstream media outlets covered the story of gay activists directing nasty voicemails and emails toward Karen England, executive director of the California-based Capitol Resource Institute. England encouraged students to counter-protest the "Day of Silence" by walking out of their schools.
For her efforts, she received vitriolic emails that said, ""It's too late for your mother to abort...what a pity for the rest of decent society. In Support of God striking all of you down..." Another person wrote, ""You will return to your next life as a flea on the scrotum of a cockroach."
England also received voicemails that held her personally responsible for the suicide of Walker-Hoover, ""I just wanted to ask you a quick question about uhhh what you stand for and... little 11 year old boys by the name of Carl Walker Hoover killing themselves because of people like you, Karen." Another caller said, "You're a disgrace to the American woman. You're a disgrace to public - And I wish you would just go kill yourself."
Yet in media coverage of the "Day of Silence," it appears bullying only comes from people who disagree with the gay lifestyle.
CNN and ABC both featured segments about LGBT bullying on April 17. Anderson Cooper, host of CNN's "Anderson Cooper 360" included interviews with officials from Walker-Hoover's school and a discussion about bullying with Sirdeaner Walker and activist Mel White, president and co-founder of the gay rights organization, Soulforce.
Cooper teased the segment by asking, "Racial taunts are no longer accepted in schools in America, but why are taunts based on perceived sexual orientation?" which is ironic coming from a news anchor who only three days before felt it proper to speak disparagingly of protesters because of their conservative beliefs.
Walker focused her comments on what parents can do to stop a tragedy such as her son's from happening in their own family. White used the opportunity to blame religion for anti-gay bullying in schools:
Well, one of the things, we have to realize why the hostile climate for people who are perceived as gay or for people who are, that it's just not those kids who are bashing.
When you think about what religion is teaching now about homosexuality, when you hear the Pope say these gross things, intrinsically evil, objectively disordered, when you see Protestant leaders not ordaining and marrying, the word trickles down. It becomes fag when they get into school.
But what has to happen is the church needs to change and say God created you gay or God created you as a human being and loves you exactly as you are.
That message needs to come down from the church so that it'll filter down through congregations and the churches and to individual teachers and finally to the kids.
White also took the opportunity to remind viewers, "young gay guys...are seven times more likely to commit suicide or attempt it. And kids who are in non-accepting homes are nine - nine percent more, could kill themselves."
Earlier in the day CNN's "Newsroom" anchor Heidi Collins interviewed Georgia high school student Cory Phelps, who is also a national student leader for the "Day of Silence," about the event's aim to stop bullying and harassment of students based on sexual orientation.
Phelps told Collins, "what today is really all about is it all comes down to bullying and harassment and name-calling. Students go to school every day and they're bullied and harassed and we really want to be sure that by taking this vow of silence that we are bringing attention to anti-bullying, name calling and things and trying to end it."
While it's hard to blame Collins for not putting a high school student on the hot seat during a live interview on national television, she could have made the point that kids are bullied and harassed for all different reasons. She could have asked Phelps why not expand the "Day of Silence" mission to include any sorts of harassment, whether it be for weight, looks, religious beliefs or sexual slurs.
ABC's "World News with Charles Gibson" featured a segment about bullying that focused on the Walker-Hoover tragedy. Anchor Charles Gibson introduced the segment, "We're going to turn next to a troubling trend in America's schools. It's a form of bullying that can have especially tragic circumstances. Even children in middle schools now are taunting each other with anti-gay epithets. But critics say some schools are reluctant to do anything about it."
Correspondent Dan Harris reported that Walker's "mother says his case illustrates how anti-gay harassment has become a huge part of the overall bullying problem, whether the targets are gay or not."
The report then jumped to a clip of Eliza Byard of GLSEN saying, "The anti-gay content of bullying issue is the one that teachers and administrators are least likely to deal with. Mostly because they are afraid of controversy."
As an example of the controversy, Harris reported, "some Christian groups are organizing school walkouts, arguing this day [Day of Silence] forces acceptance of immoral behavior."
LeAnn Shaw, mother of a student, provided the only counterpoint to Byard's claim. She stated in her brief soundbite, "I don't think that we need the thought police on one day of the school year. And this is what this is."
Beauty Bashing
Gay activists don't limit their bullying to pro-family organizations. In fact, Perez Hilton, a gay celebrity blogger and a judge at the April 19 Miss USA pageant, turned his sights on Miss California Carrie Prejean. During a question and answer segment of the pageant, Hilton asked Prejean's opinion on gay marriage. She stated her belief that "a marriage should be between a man and a woman."
He posted this response to Prejean's statement on his blog:
Hello, okay. So Miss USA literally just finished and I have to make a video blog. Everyone's going to be talking about it. I was the YouTube moment of the show, the pageant, when I asked Miss California her question and when she gave the worst answer in pageant history. She got booed. I think that was the first time in Miss USA ever that a contestant has been booed.
Now, let me explain to you. She lost, not because she doesn't believe in gay marriage. Miss California lost because she's a dumb b----. Okay? This is how a person with half a brain answers the question I posed her, which is, Vermont recently legalized same-sex marriages. Do you think other states should follow suit, why or why not?
Well, if I was Miss California, with half a brain, I would have said, hm, Perez, that's a great question. That's a very hot topic in our country right now and I think that that is a question that each state should decide for themselves because that's how our forefathers designed our government, you know, the states rule themselves and then there's certain laws which are federal. She could have said something along those lines but she didn't. She gave an awful, awful answer which alienated so many people.
And Miss California, Miss USA, she doesn't alienate. She unites. She inspires. I am so disappointed in Miss California representing my country, not because she doesn't believe in gay marriage but because she doesn't inspire and she doesn't unite. And that is what a Miss California and a Miss USA should.
And I could not believe when she became first-runner up. If that girl would have won Miss USA, California, I would've gone up on stage, I s--- you not, I would've gone up on stage, snatched that tiara off her head and run out the door. And then I probably would've been arrested. But you know what? So be it. Ugh. Thank goodness Miss South Carolina won, or North Carolina whichever one won, because she deserved it so much more. Ugh. Okay, I need a cocktail now.
The media failed to cry foul over Hilton's attack on Prejean and instead allowed Hilton to portray himself as a victim.
Hilton told MSNBC's Norah O'Donnell on April 20 that he "was absolutely shocked and incredibly frustrated and hurt and disappointed, because that is not the kind of woman I want to be Miss USA." He continued, "A beauty pageant queen, Miss USA should represent all Americans and with her answer, she instantly was divisive and alienated millions of gays and lesbians, their family, their friends and supporters."
O'Donnell also asked Hilton about the name-calling in his blog rant and affirmed that he "apologized" for it. In response, Hilton took back the apology and confided, "I called her the b word and hey, I was thinking the c word and I didn't say it."
At no point in the interview did O'Donnell question whether Hilton's attack took the political to the personal level or if Prejean should be able to express an honest opinion on a controversial topic.
Later that evening, CNN's Larry King followed the same pattern as O'Donnell and simply gave Hilton time to insist again that Miss USA must be politically correct. He told King:
Do we want a Miss USA that's politically insensitive, that's politically offensive? No. So I didn't disagree with her not believing in the right for gays and lesbians to good evening equal under the law. I disagree with how she answered the question because Miss USA should be all inclusive. She should be my Miss USA and when she answered that question that way, it was instantly divisive and alienating to gays and lesbians and friends and supporters.
King failed to mention the irony of Hilton speaking about inclusion as he was the person who labeled Prejean "a dumb b----."
Hilton said there were boos from the pageant audience following Prejean's response, and there may have been. But there were also cheers. Neither O'Donnell nor King reported that.
And for the left and the media, it's open season on Prejean. "E! News" anchor Giuliana Rancic tweeted on April 21 that Miss California made her "sick to my stomach" and called her a "disgrace."
The Price of Prop 8
Nothing spurred gay activists to the depths of vitriol more than the passage of California's Prop 8. As CMI previously reported, media failed to show any outrage over LBGT harassment of Christians, including an unprovoked altercation in San Francisco's Castro district and a separate protest in which gay activists stormed a Michigan church service and declared, "Jesus is a homo!" while tossing condoms at the congregation.
Maureen Mullarkey detailed her bullying experience at the hands of the LBGT community in her March 16 Weekly Standard article, "The New Blacklist." Mullarkey, an artist who created a series of painted based in the 1990s inspired by the gay pride parade in New York found herself the victim of hate mail and press intimidation after the San Francisco Chronicle published a list of names and addresses of people who financially supported California's Prop 8.
She wrote,
One night in early February, I drove home to find two cars, two men, waiting for me, unannounced, in the dark. Reporters for the Daily News, they were publishing a story on me and Prop 8 the next day and wanted a live quotation. Serious interviews are arranged ahead of time. Besides, I had filed enough newspaper pieces on deadline to know that copy is well into the can at 7 P.M. This was intimidation, not fact-gathering.
After the Daily News story broke, Mullarkey found her "home address and email were repeated in comment sections in which readers egged each other on to ‘make the b---- pay."
Mullarkey's account also cites emails and letters she received from irate gays. One letter said, "Your career is over, you nasty piece of s---. F--- off! WHORE!" Another spewed:
Eat shit and die, c--.
Eat c-- and die, bitch.
You right-wing, heterosupremacist t--.
You are the moral equivalent of a Jewish Nazi. Roast in hell, you filthy c--.
The media's refusal to even consider that bullies might reside in the LGBT community and that harassment is a two-way street offers an incredible disservice to society. We're told we must embrace the gay lifestyle or be subjected to the type of bullying the LGBT community desperately wants to eradicate.
—Colleen Raezler is a research assistant at the Culture and Media Institute




















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It's too bad the media
April 22, 2009 - 10:41 ET by motherbeltIt's too bad the media didn't shut up for the day.
This is from the "Day of Silence" Website:
The event is
designed to illustrate the silencing effect of this bullying and
harassment on LGBT students and those perceived to be LGBT.
The straight community should go around with duct tape on their mouths for the day, to symbolize the muzzling they endure from the PC Police.
But of course, the silencing of those who disagree with the LGBT lifestyle is not a problem, it's a necessity.
And no, I'm not saying that bullying anyone is OK.
They might say "Wow, that sucks!" But at least they'll say "Wow!" -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes
Homosexual rights
April 22, 2009 - 11:19 ET by grumpyoldbAll they say is "we want to be treated like everyone else". Yet they have National Coming Out Day, The Gay Pride Parade (held as often as they can), Gay Prode, Day, The Day of Silence (?!??) and who knows how many other special events to show the world how much better than everyone else they are... If you want to be treated like everyone else, shut the hell up, we don't g around forcint heterosexuality on everyone, stop forcing your point of view on us....
I do not appreciate unnatural behavior being forced on society. If you argue that it is not unnatural, please cite me ONE example in nature, where a totally homosexual species exists.... Just one (and amoebas do not count)...
Agree. Good post.
April 22, 2009 - 12:30 ET by b4m4wyAgree. Good post.
Perez Hilton Screaming / Written Tests considered "racist"
April 22, 2009 - 10:51 ET by krendlerSaw a clip last night of Perez Hilton screaming (during his Today show interview) that Miss CA should have kept her politics to herself. These gay-marriage proponents have come completely unglued. I doubt they're winning many converts and , more likely, turning a lot of people off.
BTW (OT), apparently, written tests - that's right - written tests (no qualifiers necessary) are now considered to be racist. From our buds over at NPR:
http://www.npr.org/t...
This is what I don't get:
April 22, 2009 - 12:30 ET by MrSnugglesThis is what I don't get: This fruitcake blogger attacks her for not leaving her politics out, but it was HE that asked the ridiculously charged political question. He should have kept HIS politics to HIMSELF.
Good point
April 22, 2009 - 12:58 ET by KC MulvilleHilton's argument that she's a dumb b--ch is: How dare she not deflect the politics that I loaded into my question!!?
Kids get "picked in" for
April 22, 2009 - 11:02 ET by SeashellKids get "picked in" for many things. Why not have a day of silence for fat kids, for tall and skinny kids, kids with a lisp, or how about for smart kids?
I have never heard of this "Day of Silence". Glad it doesn't get observed at my child's school.
If homosexuality was normal
April 22, 2009 - 11:20 ET by mattmIf homosexuality was normal nobody would feel the need to force acceptance of it on the rest of society. The louder they scream, the more they demonstrate this fact.
looking forward to days of
April 22, 2009 - 11:28 ET by TruthMongerlooking forward to days of silence for peds, prostitutes, drug dealers, etc, etc...
someone please wake me up when we get back to moral progress
Let's be honest...
April 22, 2009 - 11:30 ET by HeavyChevyThis incident (for lack of a better term) will set the Gay agenda back for those who just want to live their lives and may not even want to get married. Also for a lot of Heterosexuals who was teetering on the fence of supporting gay marriage, their ability to adopt etc... I do believe this moment of madness firmly made up their minds.
Just One DAY?
April 22, 2009 - 11:52 ET by ConcernedOneWhy don't we pass a bill to make it 365 days of silence? That would suit me just fine.
It's unbelievable that this BS is even honored in schools. But, nothing like the gay community shoving their lifestyle onto innocent children (and I had a different sentence here, but it didn't seem appropriate).
How bout just teaching children to respect others? Why does it have to be about accepting someone that is gay? What will be next?
ConcernedOne
Homosexuals like Hilton are a laugh a minute
April 22, 2009 - 11:56 ET by Lord ErondThey are a complete stereotype a la Nathan Lane in the Bird Cage with Robin Williams. These sashaying, feminist pretending, lilted voice homosexuals prance about and then they want us to take anything they have to say seriously. A good movie comes to mind here:
"You look like a woman you Spanish Peacock" - Highlander
"Please get your facts right, then you may distort them as you please" -Mark Twain
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BUT GOD FORBID WE HAVE A MOMENT OF SILENCE IN SCHOOLS!
April 22, 2009 - 11:58 ET by Lord ErondUnbelievable.
"Please get your facts right, then you may distort them as you please" -Mark Twain
"Proud Member of the Vast Right Wing Conspiracy"
Many that are active in the radical gay agenda will do most
April 22, 2009 - 11:58 ET by pahuberanything to get their way.
Not surprising is their tactics of intimidation and hatred for which they accuse others of doing.
Missed April 17th
April 22, 2009 - 12:01 ET by moderncommentaries83I read a lot of blogs and on-line news, but somehow it escaped my notice that April 17th was the "Day of Silence"...funny.
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam
I personally don't care
April 22, 2009 - 12:07 ET by SickofLibsI personally don't care what anyone does in private, but it's the 'T' is LBGT that I really resent having shoved in my face as somehow normal and mainstream.
If I live to be 150, this will still be too weird to me.
Somehow this all reminds me
April 22, 2009 - 12:20 ET by QueenMumSomehow this all reminds me of the media circus over Anna Nicole Smith's death. Lots of gay pals showing up in the media to get their 15 mins. of facetime. Remember Bobby Trendy? He even showed up on "Christina's Court" - in full regalia I might add. Probably how she ended up with the EMMY. ;) Of course, the coverage of Smith's lifestyle was much more sympathetic.
Civilization is the progress toward a society of privacy. The savage's whole existence is public, ruled by the laws of the tribe. Civilization is the process of setting man free from men. - Ayn Rand
referenced your post from Jeremiah Films
April 22, 2009 - 12:53 ET by AtTheWaterCoolerAdded a link and quotations to the collection of articles titled Insatiable desires of the homosexual agenda
Norm Mcdonald
April 22, 2009 - 13:24 ET by just passing byComedian Norm McDonald has a great line about "gay pride"
A father is gleaming about his son. How graduated from medical school at the top of his class, Has a new mercedes, lives in a posh apartment in NYC. etc. and then say's "and you know, the boy loves c*ck"
Gay pride! Really?
http://www.youtube.c...
"Lead, follow or get out of the way!"
Watching Fox's coverage of
April 23, 2009 - 12:38 ET by soulpileWatching Fox's coverage of this last night and one of the commentators (a woman?) said something to the effect that Miss CA went against popular opinion in stating a preference for marriage being defined as between a man and a woman. I didn't realize heterosexual marriage was so unpopular....
Before all this, I could have cared less about this issue. Now, I say just don't give them anything. That is what you do when a child throws a tantrum. You don't give in and let the child have their way because they have a fit.
In the name of fairness...
April 22, 2009 - 13:46 ET by joshuaingramTo be fair to Perez Hilton, his hypothetical answer was pretty well the perfect pageant answer.
Well, if I was Miss California, with half a brain, I would have said,
hm, Perez, that's a great question. That's a very hot topic in our
country right now and I think that that is a question that each state
should decide for themselves because that's how our forefathers
designed our government, you know, the states rule themselves and then
there's certain laws which are federal.
It's PC, it shows that she has a semi-working knowledge of American Government (which is not in any way common), and it is not a loaded answer. However, I have to commend her for answering honestly, and say that this "guy" is every curseword that he threw at her and more for his response.
As for his point, I have to say that I have to agree on the point of legalizing gay marriage. This is America, and we are free to do whatever we want, within the boundaries of the law. States should have a vote on a proposition to decide whether or not gay marriage is legal, however I think there should be strict residency requirements for obtaining a license. As in, must have lived within that particular state for 45 days or so.
I know that some of the people that read this will automatically assume I'm a liberal, or at least liberal-leaning, but that couldn't be further from the truth. I am just one of those conservatives that doesn't assume that because I have the moral high ground means I can dictate how the rest of America can live their lives.
Real Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the presence of justice.
These LGBT Heterophobes
April 22, 2009 - 14:01 ET by NL207These LGBT Heterophobes should reflect on the nature of the term 'homophobe' as they employ it.
Equality? Hardly.
April 22, 2009 - 14:31 ET by deerjerkydaveThe gay agenda makes the false claim that same sex relationships are equal to traditional relationships. This is only true IF you eliminate the miracle of procreation which ONLY occurs between a man and a woman. Two guys cannot make a baby together. Perhaps God knew what He was doing when He made it that way! Society has worked overtime to trivialize sex, procreation, babies (abortion) and marriage. We are now at the edge where society is sufficiently confused that a number of state courts feel like they can cram it down the throats of its citizens without a backlash.
The New Fascistas
April 22, 2009 - 14:32 ET by allanfThe new fascistas revel in freedom of speech, until you say something they disagree with. They use derision, name calling and intimidation to shame the public into submission.
We have rasied a generation that equates "freedom" with left wing causes.
a whole new meaning to "gay bashing"
April 22, 2009 - 15:03 ET by carolina09I honestly, seriously believe that Prejean's civil rights have been violated (not for losing the crown, but for being subjected to abuse by an OFFICIAL judge of the contest) and ought to sue on those grounds.
Does NBC own the Miss USA pageants? Well, sue NBC.
Did Anyone Catch Phil Hendrie Last Night?
April 22, 2009 - 20:53 ET by The7SticksIt was on the subject of Perez Hilton's name-calling of Miss California (he was the loon in the daily Loon Alert spot on the show). He did the How You Like To Hear Them segment with both Hilton and Miss California on the line (as portrayed, as most celebrities on How You Like To Hear Them are, by Hendrie himself.) He depicted Hilton as waiting at a public restroom, if you know what I mean. It was hilarious as usual.
I really wish Perez Hilton would just keep his big yap shut. It's idiots like him that give the gay and lesbian movement such a bad name in the first place. It just makes our side even more hostile-like than what the other side could possibly be. It discredits us, and we don't need anything of it. Of course, I'm not on the other side anyway because there are some, like Perez Hilton on the homosexual side, that make their point mute when they start bringing up Bible verses or that their is a whole homosexual agenda going on. Sure, there's an agenda. It's that they just want equal rights and acceptance in public. Well, the sane majority that isn't outlandish, for the most part. You get loose nuts, like Perez Hilton, that totally discredit the homosexual side, and unfortunately, that's the side that's most vocal in the media. If the media did its job and reported both sides of the story like it should, there would be a more concrete picture of what the issue is here. As far as I can tell, from a straight bachelor's P.O.V., they want the right to be acknowledged by the government that they want to be married and have the same parental rights as straight married couples. That's why the most effective way is by ballot measure or choosing which legislators you want in your state and local government. That's my two cents about it, anyway.
This desire of the LGBT's
April 22, 2009 - 22:05 ET by SvenThis desire of the LGBT's to have their "chosen" lifestyle embraced is quite simple IMHO.
I believe they know this lifestyle--which is a choice--is completely abnormal and against the natural order God put in place.
First they wanted acceptance; this has now evolved into approval. This desire for acceptance and approval is to salve their own conscience...pure and simple.
I believe in their inner souls, these LGBT's know this lifestyle is an abomination. Is it any wonder they are so militant and lash out at any one who questions this lifestyle?
I'll pray that God leads them out of this lifestyle, but I'll never accept or approve of this deviant CHOICE these people have made.
Need not apply
April 22, 2009 - 22:23 ET by wingnut55In the future Christian Conservative Women need not apply for the Miss USA pageant. They can't win and are not welcome.