On Friday's "Good Morning America," various ABC reporters fretted about the political implications of Barack Obama referring to a female reporter as "sweetie." GMA co-host Diane Sawyer nervously asked, "When do 'honey,' 'sweetie,' cross the line?" Guest host David Muir introduced an investigation into "the debate over what words we can use and can't use when we're talking to members of opposite sex."
To further examine the issue, GMA even dug up previous clips of the presidential candidate using what has become the other S-word. So, only two days after "Sweetie-Gate" broke, the morning show had already provided detail and background on the case. This stands in stark contrast to how GMA (and ABC in general) covered a much more serious subject, Obama's relationship with indicted political operative Tony Rezko, a man that raised money for the senator and was also involved in a questionable land deal related to the purchase of Obama's home in Chicago. In 2006 and 2007, ABC only mentioned Rezko once. Apparently Rezko and the senator's dealings don't measure up to the sweetie story.
For the sweetie controversy, however, Harris intoned, "[Using the word], apparently, is a habit. We dug into our tape library and found these moments." He then played old file footage clips of Obama using the offending language: "Sweetie, if I start with a picture, I'll never get out of here. [Cut to second video clip.] Sweetie, If I start doing autographs, I just won't be able to-- I'm really late."
Harris also attempted to explain the rules of using such terms around women: "It's who says it and how they say it, I think is what it comes down to." Sawyer made an effort to defuse the whole issue. "Don't you think it's going too far to care about that stuff," she complained. The ABC host then added that she saw no reason to turn the subject into "a federal issue." However, could this just be a case of defending a liberal politician? After all, GMA, in October of 2007, featured a segment on a similarly superfluous matter, Hillary Clinton's cackle. In that case, correspondent Kate Snow sprung to Clinton's defense. She marveled at the candidate's ability to disarm "her critics with a gleam in her eye and a roar straight from the belly."
A transcript of the segment, which aired at 7:31am on May 16, follows:
7:20am tease
SAWYER: Coming up on "Good Morning America," how do you feel? A presidential candidate says he's sorry for calling a reporter sweetie. When do "honey," "sweetie," cross the line?
7:31am
DAVID MUIR: But first here this morning, the debate over what words we can use and can't use when we're talking to members of opposite sex. The recent flap over Senator Barack Obama calling a reporter sweetie got us thinking about it. And ABC's Dan Harris is here with more. I'll simply say "Dan."
DAN HARRIS: Hey, pal. Good morning. You know, we've consulted the political experts about this. And apparently Sweetie-Gate is not going to pose a mortal threat to Obama's campaign, but it has sparked a heated little national debate. The incriminating moment came at this campaign stop in Detroit, when this reporter, Peggy Agar, posed a question to Barack Obama. Take a listen to her report.
ABC GRAPHIC: The Sweetie Problem: Campaign Faux Pas or Nicety?
PEGGY AGAR: Senator, how are you going to help the American auto worker?
SENATOR BARACK OBAMA: Hold on one second, sweetie. We're going-- We'll do a press avail.
HARRIS: Hours later, Obama left the reporter a voice mail apologizing for not answering her question and for calling her sweetie.
OBAMA: That's a bad habit of mine. I do it sometimes with all kinds of people, meaning no disrespect. And, so, I'm duly chastened on that front.
HARRIS: It, apparently, is a habit. We dug into our tape library and found these moments.
OBAMA: Sweetie, if I start with a picture, I'll never get out of here. [Cut to second video clip.] Sweetie, If I start doing autographs, I just won't be able to-- I'm really late.
HARRIS: Obama's use of the word sweetie has become fodder for chat shows and bloggers.
WHOOPI GOLDBERG [Clip from "The View"]: And what he meant to say, I believe, was with no disrespect, because I call everybody sweetie to if I don't know their name.
HARRIS: In movies like "Nine to Five" or "Anchorman." when men throw out words like "Sweetie" or "honey" or "girl," it's portrayed as supremely condescending.
[Brief "Anchorman" clip]
HARRIS: GMA workplace contributor Tory Johnson says if you don't like someone calling you sweetie, call them on it. But don't assume their intentions are bad.
TORY JOHNSON: I think in general, whether it's in politics or in a workplace, when we start policing spontaneity, we're in trouble. And we should not assume the worst when somebody uses a word like sweetie.
HARRIS: Here's something interesting. As for the reporter herself, Peggy Agar, she did not seem offended about this at all. She said, I felt more offended that he didn't answer my question. Spoken like a true reporter.
MUIR: Yeah. Good sport. She should get the next exclusive with him though. Dan.
HARRIS: She should. She should.
SAWYER: Don't you think it's going too far to care about that stuff? I mean, I understand if you just want say, well, back you to, darling or something like that, but, but to care about it? To make it a federal issue?
HARRIS: It's who says it and how they say it, I think is what it comes down to.
MUIR: But, like Tory said, don't assume bad intentions.
SAWYER: Yeah.
—Scott Whitlock is a news analyst for the Media Research Center.
















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and they say us
May 16, 2008 - 15:37 ET by mister josephand they say us conservatives have too much time on our hands and are avoiding the real issues.
i guess they're looking for an 'out' to dumping their golden-boy. ain't gonna happen, i know, but still...
Trivial
May 16, 2008 - 15:46 ET by MeanderingFunny they spend this much time on a rather trivial matter. I could care if he called me sweetie and I'm a man. Why not look at the tape and see the lady he called sweetie asked him about how he was going to save people's jobs to which we got this response. He ended up not answering her question at all, which is worse than calling her sweetie. Show me GMA covering that!
Furthermore
May 16, 2008 - 15:50 ET by MeanderingNot to comment on my own post, but if you look at how Sawyer and Roberts treat another matter of "importance" how they treat the 20 year old footage of Bill O'Reilly's rant, which was off air. Stick to the real news if you know how to report it.
Hey ABC this is what I
May 16, 2008 - 15:50 ET by taterHey ABC this is what I think of your story.
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"They need to have a course in college called common sense and everyone should take it. Problem is there isn't too many people that could pass or teach it." -my grandfather
This is a ridiculous story,
May 16, 2008 - 17:50 ET by celatorThis is a ridiculous story, I agree.
But wait!!! Could this be an MSM diversion from Obama's "I am NOT an appeaser!" moment?
A Story of Our Time
May 16, 2008 - 16:02 ET by GothampcThe other day I went to eat at a truckstop diner. The server came up to me and said "What'll it be, hon?" At first I was stunned. I burst into tears because I couldn't believe that she was using such hate speech toward me. I thought we as a country were past that. Then I got mad because I realized I had been violated. I stood up and said "This is 2008 and I don't have to be spoken to like that." I have filed a court case against the waitress, the manager, the restaurant chain, the state that licensed the restaurant and the parents of the waitress who taught her to speak like that. Furthermore, I demanded that all of them be required to attend sensitivity training. Part of the training must include mandatory attendance at my performance art piece entitled "Honey Is Nobody's Beeswax." I really think this country needs to have a dialogue about how we speak to one another. It really hurts when people like myself are treated as nothing more than something that is derived from a substance carried around on a bee's legs.
:)
Goth: I feel your pain,
May 16, 2008 - 16:06 ET by QueenMumGoth: I feel your pain, sweetie! :)
I am the exotic Queen Mum, and I approved this message.
I hear ya, Goth
May 16, 2008 - 16:11 ET by Mica the MagnificentI hope you get John Edwards as your attorney.
He'll tell the jury about two Americas.
One that carries nectar in their legs, and the other that does not, like you.
Good luck, Goth.
Edwards Was Taken
May 16, 2008 - 16:16 ET by GothampcActually the waitress got John Edwards as her attorney. He is already channeling the voice of the bee to tell the court about the miracle of honey production.
Goth: OJ trial revisited?
May 16, 2008 - 16:36 ET by Mica the MagnificentBe careful Edwards doesn't make you wear the nectar around your legs.
Remember: If the nectar fits, you must acquit.
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May 16, 2008 - 21:40 ET by dahliatraversSuch insensitivity. You poor dear. (... deer?)
Diane to follow-up on this BIG story!
May 16, 2008 - 16:03 ET by Mica the MagnificentDAN HARRIS: Hey, pal. Good morning.
Pal? What the hell did he mean by THAT??
Hm. Do you think this may
May 16, 2008 - 16:12 ET by QueenMumHm. Do you think this may be an example of "sweetie baiting"?
Well, I for one refuse to be offended.
I am the exotic and sweet Queen Mum, and I approved this message.
I Second that
May 16, 2008 - 16:16 ET by bigtimerI Second that Queen!
"Never murder your opponent when he is committing suicide." ~ W. Churchill
Well, I'll be offended
May 16, 2008 - 16:48 ET by CortillaenWell, I'll be offended enough for the both of you. ;)
www.rhjunior.com Great comics with a hefty dose of Christian and anti-nutjob goodness.
"With your mind as high as Mt. Fuji you can see all things clearly. And you can see all the forces that shape events; not just the things near to you." -Miyamoto Musashi
Wait! Wait!! I'm offended
May 16, 2008 - 17:53 ET by celatorWait! Wait!! I'm offended too!! Count me in.
That is cute QueenMum
May 16, 2008 - 16:21 ET by Dee Bunkcheers!
from the Exotic and Not so Sweet Dee Bunk ; )
P.S. I think it's fine when a male friend or older man or woman that I don't know calls me Sweetie - it doesn't offend me either. It would if it were used in the dismissive way that Obama used it with the reporter though.
must...find...duct tape...
May 16, 2008 - 16:24 ET by candanceI swear, it's like twelve year olds rifling through Tiger Beat to see why an actor dumped his girlfriend.
Ha Ha
May 18, 2008 - 19:30 ET by reasonsjesterTiger Beat - great reference!
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. - Marcus Aurelius
This whole "sweetie" thing is totally over blown.
May 16, 2008 - 16:36 ET by R D HelmI think this whole thing was probably the result of a few hard-core lesbo-feminist Clintonistas who were just looking for something to make Barry-O look bad.
I am sorry, but this country is six months away from what will probably be a make-or-break election for the very future of this republic, and people have their panties all in a wad over the use of the word sweetie.
I mean, it is not like he used the word b*tch or ho.
Good God!
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May 16, 2008 - 21:53 ET by dahliatraversit is not like he used the word b*tch or ho.
Wait a second! Not so fast! He certainly did use the word "ho". Go back and listen to the tape. He says, "Ho'... hold on a second, sweetie ..."
This is a massive conspiracy. The msm have tried to sweep his deliberate use of this far more offensive word under the rug by focusing on the word "sweetie". But we have exposed them!
dahlia,
May 17, 2008 - 21:44 ET by R D HelmLOL.
This was Clinton's
May 16, 2008 - 16:48 ET by SchnikeysThis was Clinton's doing.
Either that, or a stage show by Dems using the MSM to try and earn the hearts of suburban/rural America by saying, "See? We can be politically incorrect too!"
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Correction
May 16, 2008 - 17:26 ET by reasonsjesterThis wasn't Clinton's doing. The infobabe herself objected to being called sweetie.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. - Marcus Aurelius
No offense meant here...but
May 16, 2008 - 17:34 ET by bigtimerNo offense meant here...but if I were that infobabe I would take all the sweeties I could get...and be glad of it.
"Never murder your opponent when he is committing suicide." ~ W. Churchill
"When do "honey,"
May 16, 2008 - 17:43 ET by kg"When do "honey," "sweetie," cross the line?"
When a Republican or "Joe Six Pack" says it.
"Forget change, I want improvement!"
what game?
May 16, 2008 - 17:49 ET by ort777I hope you all see what an Obama presidency will bring. The media knows how shallow this guy really is and will have to find things to report on. Watching the media report on Obama is comparable to having the cameraman at a baseball game focusing on the pitchers in the bullpin the entire game - we're not able to see the real game if you know what I mean.
It’s sad,
May 16, 2008 - 18:27 ET by Joe C.B. Hussein comes from a long line of anti-American terror sympathizers and a racist church, wants to surrender in Iraq, appease terrorists, collapse our economy, and turn over our sovereignty to the UN, but him calling a reporter “Sweetie” is what sparks outrage from the left. Un-effing-believable.
"A man who won't believe in God will believe in anything."
G.K. Chesterton
When will they ever learn?
May 16, 2008 - 19:59 ET by jefflebowskiWhen will the Dims ever learn that these broads don't like being called" sweetie"??
Jeff Lebowski - Angry White Dude
Hey there dude...big
May 16, 2008 - 20:06 ET by bigtimerHey there dude...big difference between broad and sweetie....lol.
"Never murder your opponent when he is committing suicide." ~ W. Churchill
Big, it was a little joke
May 17, 2008 - 00:11 ET by jefflebowskiJeff Lebowski, the Angry White Dude loves women!! And he doesn't refer to them as broads...but has been known to lovingly refer to them as honey and sweetie, himself.
Sweetie
May 16, 2008 - 19:54 ET by lhbarnesIt must have been a really slow day for news when Obama called a reporter "Sweetie." Most of what Obama says is pure fiction, but to chastise him for this is overkill. But it's typical MSM - make mountains out of molehills.
watch
May 16, 2008 - 23:46 ET by mister josephin short time it will soon be forgotten that feminists launched this attack on Obama, and the 'right-wing media' will be labeled the scapegoats.