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CBS Jumps on the Anti-Marriage Bandwagon

By Paul Wilson | October 14, 2011 | 09:13

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One day after NBC's ''Today'' celebrated the ''end of traditional marriage,'' CBS's ''Early Show'' went even further, entertaining the view that marriage is an ''unnatural'' institution and a ''morality cage.''

CBS anchor Erica Hill teased a segment on Oct. 12: ''You know, as much as we all may love a good wedding, more and more women are saying, 'I don't need one!' They're either getting married later in life, or deciding 'I'm not getting married at all.' In fact, according to one poll, nearly half of Americans under the age of 40 think marriage is becoming obsolete.''

The guests CBS brought on to discuss this trend were not shy in expressing their disdain for traditional marriage. CBS invited ''sexologist'' Logan Levkoff (whose work is featured on the liberal Huffington Post) and ''relationship expert'' Matt Titus (who touts himself as ''the nation's top dating coach and an authority on sex love and relationships'') to discuss changing attitudes towards marriage. No mainstream voices were included.

Or, rather, give their completely feminist and left-wing spin against marriage.

Titus opened the discussion with a shot at marriage: ''Marriage is an artificial institution. I mean, it's basically a morality cage for men.''

Titus grew even more scornful: ''Think about it. Men are supposed to run around the forest and propagate the species and do it multiple times a day. Do you think that we're supposed to be with one person for the rest of our lives? It's unnatural, and if it was the case we probably would not be sitting here right now.''

Of course, the institution of marriage has existed for thousands of years, and people are still around. But perhaps Titus doesn't think modern men are capable of committing themselves to one person for life. (Which is odd, considering the fact that Titus is married, and that he acknowledges he hit ''rock bottom'' after committing infidelity.)

And the women on the show agreed. Indeed, the women on the show seemed to argue that men were gradually becoming unnecessary.

Levkoff chimed in: ''There's no question that marriage is a social construct that I think does not apply to everyone these days. And now that women are taking over the world, we don't need you as much.''

Hill picked up on Levkoff's anti-male theme: ''There was a time when women needed a husband. And there are so many places in the world where they do, because otherwise they can't work, they can't support their families, they can't take care of their children. They needed that financial aspect, that financial security. Well now, women take care of themselves.''

So only women stuck in the Dark Ages need marriage for financial support. Liberated modern women don't need it anymore.

Levkoff also attacked the notion of sexual morality as irrelevant: ''Women were getting married at young ages also because it legitimized their sexual desires and their sex lives, because we couldn't talk about women being sexual outside of wedlock. We don't need that anymore. We have the freedom.''

Titus was even more radical in pushing sexual irresponsibility: ''Do you really think that the genders are supposed to be together and cohabitate? I mean, men and women are so different. Once the passion is gone and the sex dies and the kids have been raised to a certain point, what's left?''

Even Levkoff and Hill were scandalized at this, interjecting: ''What about the yin and the yang?'' and ''What about companionship? What about having someone to truly grow old with?''

But Titus wouldn't relent: ''You know what, just because we all get ugly doesn't mean we have to hang onto the person we're with.''

So relationships are all about looks, and relationships should end when looks fade? From a self-touted 'nation's top dating coach) this advice rings rather shallow.

Marriage has also traditionally played a role in child-bearing and child-raising. But Levkoff attacked marriage's role in child-raising, as well: ''I'm having two kids, and it definitely takes a village, and a partner would be nice to raise a family. But with reproductive technology, women can do a lot of things on their own. We are players in the game of life, and not just child-bearers anymore.''

''It takes a village,'' of course, was the mantra of Hillary Clinton. The larger community (or in actuality, the government) can take care of children - no family is needed for child-raising.

Titus then provided the logical conclusion: ''When a man can leave what he needs in a cup and a woman can take that and have a child, you know what? Men are expendable.''

Titus is correct. Men would be useless in this brave new feminist world, where commitment counts for nothing. Marriage would be rendered obsolete.

And CBS and NBC are helping to usher this world in.

About the Author

Paul Wilson is the Joe and Betty Anderlik Fellow in Culture and Media for the Media Research Center's Culture & Media Institute and Business & Media Institute. Click here to follow Paul Wilson on Twitter.
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Marriage Shmarriage

Submitted by Jack Bauer on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:23am.

"Titus opened the discussion with a shot at marriage: ''Marriage is an artificial institution. I mean, it's basically a morality cage for men.''

Except for "gay" marriage of course. That's perfectly normal and great.

Just like you know we're all guilty -- except those in prison who are all innocent.

That's those wacky neo-commies for ya!


All of the above Mr Obama? --- How about ALL OF THE BELOW, instead.
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Good morning Jack

Submitted by cocodrie on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:27am.

O heard that sex is on the way out anyway. It's been around so long people are tired of it.

 

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Woody Allen predicted this...

Submitted by vrwc13 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:51am.

...many years ago with the upcoming invention of the orgasimatron!

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The burden of life is from ourselves, its lightness from the grace of Christ and the love of God. - William Bernard Ullanthorne

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Exactly, Jack

Submitted by Galvanic on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 10:17am.

Another clear case of the inability of the Left to sustain a consistent worldview.

In the debate of same-sex marriage, the Left insisted that it was necessary to accept it because (a) it is a civil right (though not in the Constitution), and (b) it extends a common social institution to a minority which for centuries has been ostracized for its sexual orientation. Recognizing same-sex marriage, they insisted, was essential to reducing discrimination of homosexuals.

Now, they're saying that marriage is not only unnecessary, but actually bad for the participants.

So, why didn't the Left try to persuade the same-sex marriage advocates that their efforts were misguided -- that what they wanted was really not worth fighting for because it was archaic and bad for them?

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Morning, Gal, you are right

Submitted by motherbelt on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:30am.

Morning, Gal, you are right again.

inability of the Left to sustain a consistent worldview.

Marriage is obsolete...so why are they fighting for gays to have a right to it?

They can't even maintain consistency in a protest.  Look at OWS....it started out as a protest against corporations and capitalism, then expanded to "it doesn't matter what you're protesting; just protest!"

Now some are spitting on the military.

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'This has to be the most

Submitted by motherbelt on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:47am.

'This has to be the most selfish movement I have ever heard of.

You know what, just because we all get ugly doesn't mean we have to hang onto the person we're with.''

I want to be around to talk to this jerk when he's old and ugly and alone.

Because his "partner" (male or female) dumped him when he got "ugly."

The female "players on the world stage" are just as bad.

They want to forgo having children, perhaps aborting one or two, on the way to building their careers, and then when they discover their biological clock has run down, want medical insurances to pay thousands of dollars in fertility treatments and IVF, because NOW they want a baby and it's their right, dammit!!  Not because they really want a family, but because they have to have it "all" and the baby is the last box they have to check.   Oh, and no pesky man to mess with, either.  Family?  Pfffft! 

There is no other word for this but SELFISH.

 

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Marriage was instituted by God...

Submitted by vrwc13 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:43am.

...and since most don't believe in the one true God, why would they believe in anything He has to say?

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The burden of life is from ourselves, its lightness from the grace of Christ and the love of God. - William Bernard Ullanthorne

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and therein lies the problem

Submitted by misterbee241 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 12:03pm.

the notion of God implies rules and boundaries. It implies accountability. It implies living within a structure that overall is for the good, but does not placate the evil heart that men and women have. Man's inherent evil nature loves living without boundaries and without accountability.
Love is growing cold and degenerating into lust. Scripture says all these things will happen.
but, hey, i'm just a country preacher. what do i know?

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What a moron.

Submitted by motherbelt on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:55am.

Titus grew even more scornful: ''Think about it. Men are supposed to run around the forest and propagate the species and do it multiple times a day. Do you think that we're supposed to be with one person for the rest of our lives? It's unnatural, and if it was the case we probably would not be sitting here right now."

Hey, Titus, the civilizing effects of marriage and family are well known.  China is dealing right now with a surplus of men who have no chance as a stable marriage and family life.  And it isn't pretty.

Do you think things are going to be any different here just because it happens as a result of women not wanting to get married?

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I have said this for a long

Submitted by MrSnuggles on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:12am.

I have said this for a long time, acceptance of gay marriage is merely a symptom of societal rot and complete disregard for marriage itself.

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completely

Submitted by misterbee241 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 12:05pm.

agree.

If you're not getting flak, you're not over the target.
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So fathers don't have any

Submitted by dzejk113 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:13am.

So fathers don't have any part in raising their children? That's strange, my dad had a big part in raising me, maybe that's why I turned out to be a conservative.

I heartily accept the motto "That government is best which governs least" . . . Carried out, it finally amounts to this, which also I believe -- "That government is best which governs not at all" -Henry David Thoreau
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dzejk113,

Submitted by Agnostic on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:20am.

The society is the best in which the citizens properly govern themselves

. . Socialist = Modern Liberal = Parasitoid
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According to Mr. Titus, your dad was merely a sperm dispenser.

Submitted by SickofLibs on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:21am.

"Just leave it the cup."

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well in that case

Submitted by dzejk113 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 11:36am.

it was awfully nice of my dad to stick around for the next 18 years and teach me how to provide for myself and be a productive member of society

I heartily accept the motto "That government is best which governs least" . . . Carried out, it finally amounts to this, which also I believe -- "That government is best which governs not at all" -Henry David Thoreau
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One Thing I know

Submitted by VanPastorMan on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 2:05pm.

Men will always be needed because jars have to be opened. Who is going to do it? A bunch of women? I call that job security.
On a serious note. These people are very foolish, playing with cultural fire and they don't even know it. If you look at most of the prison population you will find men who grew up without a Dad in the home. Is this a coinky dink? This all goes back to Murphy Brown. Dan Quayle was right to call out this kind of thinking. "Men are an option, and therefore not necessary". I fear for our culture, because other cultures have families intact and fathers in the home. If you look at the muslim world, divorce is rare, and they have lots of children to build a cohesive society. We on the other hand are isolated,unmarried, and having less and less children.
I'm the father of four and today people act like I have a ton of kids. What in the world does that kind of thinking lead us towards? It is the loss of our culture. We are underbreeding ourselves out of our culture people. This is where liberalism and modernism has lead us.

Liberals are funny when they aren't in power.  But when they have power they become dangerous. Rush Limbaugh
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One Thing I know

Submitted by VanPastorMan on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 2:06pm.

Men will always be needed because jars have to be opened. Who is going to do it? A bunch of women? I call that job security.
On a serious note. These people are very foolish, playing with cultural fire and they don't even know it. If you look at most of the prison population you will find men who grew up without a Dad in the home. Is this a coinky dink? This all goes back to Murphy Brown. Dan Quayle was right to call out this kind of thinking. "Men are an option, and therefore not necessary". I fear for our culture, because other cultures have families intact and fathers in the home. If you look at the muslim world, divorce is rare, and they have lots of children to build a cohesive society. We on the other hand are isolated,unmarried, and having less and less children.
I'm the father of four and today people act like I have a ton of kids. What in the world does that kind of thinking lead us towards? It is the loss of our culture. We are underbreeding ourselves out of our culture people. This is where liberalism and modernism has lead us.

Liberals are funny when they aren't in power.  But when they have power they become dangerous. Rush Limbaugh
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Our social fabric is

Submitted by rbosque on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 5:34pm.

Our social fabric is unraveling and these idiots are speeding up the process. The inevitable conclusion would be the destruction of the foundations of our country.

This country has suffered fools for too long.

"It may be true that you can't fool all the people all the time, but you can fool enough of them to rule a large country"......Will Durant
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I just love that after millenia of social progress

Submitted by Quasi-socialist on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 8:56pm.

a guy analyzes behavior of moderns by notions about "running around the forest" and some cliche evolutionary gloss.

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First women didn't need to have a baby...

Submitted by Radical1979 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 9:10pm.

...so abortion was legalized. Now they're saying we don't need men?

Ann Coulter did a marvelous job of quantifying the effects of fatherless children in one of her books. But that was considered "attacking" single mom's. What on earth is this considered?

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there's a Polish comedy from

Submitted by dzejk113 on Fri, 10/14/2011 - 10:09pm.

there's a Polish comedy from the 80's that kinda deals with this apparent way of thinking, that men are obsolete. it's called "Seksmisja". there are 2 guys that volunteer for experimental cryostasis, and they're woken 50 years later. all the men had been killed off and only women were left, they reproduced with "test-tube babies" and made sure only girls were born, and they'd developed a mythology about the "evils" of men. the chaos that ensues after these two guys wake up from their cryo-sleep is very funny. and at the end they sabotage the test tube babies so that boys start being born again. very funny movie

I heartily accept the motto "That government is best which governs least" . . . Carried out, it finally amounts to this, which also I believe -- "That government is best which governs not at all" -Henry David Thoreau
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sounds interesting

Submitted by GW on Sat, 10/15/2011 - 4:05am.

Is it available with English subtitles?

"Unfortunately, some people use belief-based facts rather than fact-based beliefs." -Par for the Course on Wed, 04/18/2012 - 5:38pm
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yes it is

Submitted by dzejk113 on Sat, 10/15/2011 - 8:31am.

I can speak and understand a little Polish, but not nearly well enough to watch a movie in Polish without subtitles. if you're interested you can buy it online, you should be able to find it at www.polishmoviesonline.com or www.mge.tv

I heartily accept the motto "That government is best which governs least" . . . Carried out, it finally amounts to this, which also I believe -- "That government is best which governs not at all" -Henry David Thoreau
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History Repeating Itself!!

Submitted by LaVallette on Sat, 10/15/2011 - 5:39am.

AS the wise people warned before the collapse of the Roman Empire and civilization:
O Tempora!! O Mores!!! "What times we are living in!!! What standards of behaviour are on display!!!

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