CNN Tries to Get Inside Romney's Head: 'The Bullies Never Recall What They Did'
Even though CNN's Suzanne Malveaux admitted she had no clue what Mitt Romney actually did in high school, she and a guest psychologist tried to speculate away on Friday afternoon's Newsroom. The conclusion: Romney may not recall the incident he has been accused of, but his apology for it reveals the probability of guilt for a "very violent" act of forcibly cutting someone's hair.
"I have no idea what Romney did or didn't do," Malveaux admitted ignorance, before intoning that Romney was probably still in the wrong. "[T]he bullies never recall what they did. I mean it's absolutely astonishing the kids who tormented and taunted others seem to have no idea as adults how their behavior actually impacted others," she noted. [Video below the break. Audio here.]
In contrast, Malveaux gave Michelle Obama the benefit of the doubt during the 2008 campaign, where she asked softballs about the Obama's affiliation with Rev. Jeremiah Wright and changed the subject when Obama showed her obvious discomfort with the topic. CNN later hailed a "steely-tough" Michelle Obama.
On Friday, both Malveaux and psychologist Jeff Gardere insinuated that Romney, although he cannot recall the action, may have repressed it to the point that his narrative was inconsistent.
"But I have to tell you and I have to be very honest about this, even as a psychologist, I don't see something that was so vicious if it happened, how you would forget that and how you would apologize for it if you state that you couldn't even remember it," said Gardere. "But to admit to apologizing it tells me that there is something brewing in there in the head of Governor Romney."
Malveaux even brought up an assertion from Romney's classmate Phillip Maxwell, that the action constituted an assault and it was "unfortunate" that Romney had not yet admitted to it. As Breitbart.com pointed out, the Washington Post story left out what Automobile Magazine of all sources reported – Maxwell is a Democrat who said Romney would make a "pretty good president."
At the end, Gardere ramped up the stakes, calling the action "no laughing matter."
"And in these days, if something like that happened, that person would be prosecuted perhaps for a hate crime, and god forbid, the victim of that would become suicidal, depressed, and that person would be held to task for that," he insisted. "And certainly it may have had an effect on the victim of that particular event back then, all the way up until the time that he actually passed away."
A transcript of the segment, which aired on May 11 on Newsroom at 12:17 p.m. EDT, is as follows:
SUZANNE MALVEAUX: Mitt Romney trying to shift the focus back to the economy during a stop in North Carolina next hour. But Romney's also facing some questions about something he's accused of doing years ago when he was in high school. Classmates described another incident where they say Romney and other students pinned down a boy and cut off chunks of his hair. The boy had bleached-blonde hair, looked different than the other students. And those involved say it went beyond bullying. Here's how Romney responded.
(Video Clip)
MITT ROMNEY, Republican presidential candidate: I don't recall the incident myself, but I've seen the reports and I'm not going to argue with that. There's no question but that I did some stupid things when I was in high school, and obviously if I hurt anyone by virtue of that I would be very sorry for it and apologize for it.
(End Video Clip)
MALVEAUX: I want to bring in our clinical psychologist Jeff Gardere to talk about this. Jeff, quite frankly and honestly, I have no idea what Romney did or didn't do. But the one thing that I find and many people I've talked to today is you go to your high school reunion, and the bullies never recall what they did. I mean it's absolutely astonishing the kids who tormented and taunted others seem to have no idea as adults how their behavior actually impacted others. Is that actually typical?
JEFF GARDERE, clinical psychologist: Yeah it could be typical, because it's a situation of where as they mature in life, they become very embarrassed by those sorts of actions, and if they end up becoming better persons, it's easy to repress some of those horrible things that they did when they were younger so that they can have a more stabilized and normal view of themselves as being productive citizens.
MALVEAUX: Well this guy, Phillip Maxwell, he was a classmate of Romney's at the school back in 1965. And he says he participated in this event. And he brings up two points. First of all, he says it's hard for him to believe that Romney doesn't remember the event. He says "It's unfortunate that Mitt simply hasn't owned up to his behavior." Is it possible that he really doesn't recall what happened here in this incident?
GARDERE: Yeah it's possible that he may not recall some of the incidents, but the fact that he apologizes for it anyway tells me from a clinical point of view that there was something that he may have some memories of, but again, may not want to even admit it to himself. And when we look at this, as far as a psychological mechanism, this is what we call repressing. Repressing to the point of where we push it to our unconscious.
MALVEAUX: Is it admit it to himself, or admit it to us?
GARDERE: Well I think he doesn't want to admit it to himself, if in fact it did happen, because that does not fit the view that he has of himself as being a person who provides public service. As a matter of fact, we do hear that when he was in that school, his life changed where he did a lot of community service. So there was some sort of transformation from being this bully, if this in fact happened, to someone who is much more useful at his school.
MALVEAUX: Let's talk about that transformation, because you're absolutely right. There are other classmates who have come to his defense and they say look, that was a time too when he met Ann, who would later become his wife, and that he matured, and that it is possible to go from someone who was perhaps doing those kinds of things to someone who is very caring and very loving and very service-oriented. Is that typical? Can you really change?
GARDERE: Yeah, you absolutely can change. This is something that happened 50 years ago. We don't see that kind of a person now, though we know he certainly does not have the most progressive ideas as to same-sex marriages. But I have to tell you and I have to be very honest about this, even as a psychologist, I don't see something that was so vicious if it happened, how you would forget that and how you would apologize for it if you state that you couldn't even remember it. You would just simply say I don't remember it, I didn't do it. But to admit to apologizing it tells me that there is something brewing in there in the head of Governor Romney. And I he's embarrassed about it as he should be. And that is appropriate.
MALVEAUX: So you see something that's inconsistent in his story there, trying to square those two things. I also want to bring up the fact that his classmate Maxwell says, and I'm quoting here, he says "I'm not a lawyer. I know what assault is. This kid," the alleged victim, "was scared. He was terrified. That's an assault." We've heard a lot about Mitt Romney loving to prank, carry out these pranks. What is the difference between a prank and bullying?
GARDERE: Well we heard about some of the pranks, once where there was a teacher that – who was visually impaired that walked into a door and laughed uncontrollably, giggled about it. That's a prank. But to hold another student down along with a bunch of students and cut that student's hair because you feel that he may be effeminate or may be gay, that is not a prank. That is a deliberate action, that is something that is very violent. And in these days, if something like that happened, that person would be prosecuted perhaps for a hate crime, and god forbid, the victim of that would become suicidal, depressed, and that person would be held to task for that. So we can laugh about that, perhaps he could laugh about it, others could laugh about it, but this is something that is no laughing matter, especially if it happened today. And certainly it may have had an effect on the victim of that particular event back then, all the way up until the time that he actually passed away.
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"The bullies never recall what they did..."
Submitted by tcm14 on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 5:42pm.
so we the left wing media can make things up they did and they can't deny it!!!
How about this line of questioning?
Submitted by Galvanic on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 6:59pm.
GALVANIC: Now, Ms. Malveaux, 'some say' that when you were a teenager, you beat your mother to a pulp"
MALVEAUX: I never laid a finger on my mother to harm her? Where do you come up . . .
G: Well, you obviously don't remember doing it, because bullies never remember. . .
M: WHAT THE F**&*?!! Who are you calling a bully?!!
G: Will you offer an apology now?
M: APOLOGY FOR WHAT? I NEVER BEAT MY MOTHER?!!!
G: Well, the issue is no longer about something you did or -- you say -- didn't do 30 years ago. It's about how you're handling the issue now. If you're not going to apologize to your mother, will you apologize to mothers at large?
M: %*&$#@*&^#)! . . .
G: Ladies and gentlemen, back to our home studio.
I never knew about Malveaux's
Submitted by tcm14 on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 10:23pm.
I never knew about Malveaux's War on Mothers, and she is unapolegetic!!
Didn't this bimbos
Submitted by fivestring_assassin on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 5:55pm.
sister or cousin or whomever wish Clarance Thomas would die???
Enough said
You mean Julianne?
Submitted by Cool Arrow on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 6:08pm.
Sister.
It's the Julianne Fries curse.
I remember 48 years ago...
Submitted by bigdaddy on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 6:10pm.
...I was in 2nd grade sitting behind Susie Snelling in Mrs. Hemmers class. She had really long hair that her mom usually put into a braid, one day I was feeling rather rambunctous for a seven year old and I grabbed her braids and said "Giddy up horse", like I had watched Ben Cartwright do on "Bonanza" the night before. Susie suddenly spun around and smacked me squarely in the nose with her spelling book (Can you spell "OUCH"?) and I was wiping blood and tears up from my desk. I hope that investigative reporters will be able to track Susie down and help me attain the payback that has eluded me all these years...
That was the first thing I thought.
Submitted by Order270 on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 9:00pm.
Whaaaaa...and then in 3rd grade Romney put a little girl's pigtail in an ink well.
BREAKING NEWS: this just
Submitted by okie-pastor on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 6:29pm.
BREAKING NEWS: this just in!
CNN, MSNBC, ABC,CBS, NBC and Yahoo are reporting: that Mitt Romney cut a classmates hair as a Prank 50 years ago! Yes I repeat he cut a classmates hair as a prank 50 years ago!
Side note: Obama admits to bullying a girl named Coretta
CNN, ABC, NBC, CNN, MSNBC apologize for not sending out 150 lawyers to see if Coretta was gay.
They are implying..
Submitted by almostacowboy on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:25pm.
that he hasn't "evolved" like President Present.
Guess they couldn't find a white psychologist.
Submitted by SickofLibs on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 6:33pm.
There's so few of them.
"Bully"
Submitted by bobsmom on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:34pm.
is the new "racist". Got it. But it just sounds so damned stupid and juvenile. I'm sorry, hearing the word "bully" drop from all these grown ups lips is just frigging amazing. Can't wait to see the terms they coin closer to the election. I'm gonna put a few forward myself, how about "dirt squat" (my 30 year old niece made that one up when she wa 6); or "stupe nagel" (something us kids used to say, no idea what it means); or, the old, and ever popular "pot licker" (believe it or not, a favorite of my Grandmother). I want credit for all of them as well.
The clothed ape
Submitted by CJohnson on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:41pm.
Most urbanites roam for mates in small packs and seem preoccupied with identifying traits in their member's that might be repellant to the opposite sex. No acting gay.
That's pure crap.
Submitted by IdahoJim on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:53pm.
I bullied a kid in high school and I still, to this day over 40 years later, get pangs of guilt and regret. I often wish I could find the guy to apologize.
IdahoJim
http://idahoandy.net
Well then
Submitted by Radical1979 on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:55pm.
I guess your saying Romney didn't do it or he would remember because you did.
He should.
Submitted by IdahoJim on Mon, 05/21/2012 - 5:53pm.
If he has a conscience.
IdahoJim
http://idahoandy.net
Speaking of bullies
Submitted by the struggler on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 7:56pm.
This guy is a prime candidate for an Atomic Wedgie.Picture Romney The Bully slipping in behind him and pulling his underwear up over his head.
That's not true! Obama remembers pushing away a girl...
Submitted by jawebster1 on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 8:07pm.
in school and telling her to leave him alone. She was a sweet girl who was simply trying to be playful with him.
An audience gathered and he was embarrassed because they started chanting, "Coretta's got a boyfriend!"
I don't care if he is our president. He was a jerk then and he is still a jerk today! Nothing has changed.
bullies can't remember
Submitted by MidAmerica on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 8:21pm.
I bet there's a lot of stuff our dope smoking President doesn't recall either.
Coming from a psychologist, it's the usual emotional claptrap
Submitted by drsamherman on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 8:34pm.
and fabricated syndromes which are not even in the DSM. This is the same profession that brought us such idiocies as "environmental dysphoric syndrome" (they could not bother using the correct terminology obsessive-compulsive disorder, or mixed mood disorders), "post-election syndrome" (the real term is major depression/depressive disorder, subtype with event locus) and "pre-election anxiety syndrome (that's plain old generalized anxiety disorder, subtype with event locus).
Trying to get inside someone's head after nearly 50 years is nearly impossible, despite what some of my forensic psychiatry colleagues may say. What makes it even more absurd is the subject of the analysis is an event that happened almost 50 years ago involving adolescents in a peer-pressure filled environment like a prep school. I'm surprised he didn't try working an Oedipal reference into it just for good measure. The conjecture on the effects of the incident, when there is no corroborating evidence, is outright horse manure. I am not shocked that a clinical psychologist who deals in emotion and not in medicine, would make such outlandish statements.
Well, I have my write-up for the next "Clinical Absurdities" for the state association newsletter.
Well now you've done it Doc
Submitted by RESTLESS 1 on Sat, 05/12/2012 - 3:02am.
New meme: Romney bullies "gay" long hair while wanting to sleep with his mother.
I hope you're proud of yourself. (/sarc)
A Prep School Bully?
Submitted by CobraMan on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 9:02pm.
A Prep School Bully? Now THAT'S funny!
They keep referring to "high school" but the alleged incident occurred in a Prep school, a highly disciplined environment quite unlike what you find at any high school, so I doubt any type of "bullying " occurred, especially since the family of the alleged victim, who no one wants to "officially" name, says it didn't happen. If said incident DID occur, Romney would have been expelled out that Prep school faster than you can say "community college," for these types of incidences, one student, or a group of students, assaulting another, were never tolerated at these elite schools, especially in the 60's. They had a reputation to maintain. That that reputation was the most important aspect of attending a Prep School. So, I doubt that this "bullying" ever occurred.
The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States. The US Constitution
Unless you're a fetus. The US Supreme Court
Or Anwar al-Awlaki.
The Bullies Never Recall What They Did...
Submitted by hbnolikeee on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 10:31pm.
And those that do a little blow and smoke a little weed recall what?
Romneys answer was Presidential and mature
Submitted by Okieflyover on Sat, 05/12/2012 - 2:00am.
2 qualities that Obama has never shown.
Hmm, let's see
Submitted by RESTLESS 1 on Sat, 05/12/2012 - 2:59am.
Romney can't remember it, the "victim's" family can't remember it. I'm guessing there is no "there" there.