Updated below.
It would be logical to most Americans that having openly gay adults supervising impressionable young boys under the age of consent might be a bad idea, setting aside moral or religious considerations. It would also be logical to most Americans that private organizations reserve every right to set membership standards on moral and/or religious considerations. And to most lay persons, it would seem downright un-American for any American city to evict the Boy Scouts of America, of all organizations, from city-owned property for what amounts to political correctness.
Yet in covering such a story in "Philadelphia Gives Boy Scouts Ultimatum," the Washington Post's Dafna Linzer paints the Scouts as "anti-homosexual" while failing to suggest the city's liberal Democratic politicians are "anti-Boy Scout."
Indeed, although Linzer noted in her November 19 story that the Philadelphia-area Boy Scouts Cradle of Liberty Council leadership tends to disagree with national BSA policy on homosexuality that it is bound by national rules on homosexual membership and homosexual scoutmasters.
In other words, if the Philly Scout leaders could do so and remain nationally-chartered, they'd have a more liberal stance on homosexual Scout leaders. Even so, Linzer insisted that a 2004 statement by the Philadelphia area BSA council simply (my emphasis) "gave the chapter cover to continue the anti-homosexual hiring practices of the Boy Scouts of America."
Nowhere did Linzer find any parents, clergy, Scouts, or men or women on the street to slam the liberal city council as needlessly "anti-Scout."
What's more, although it's not directly related to the immediate issue at hand, it bears repeating that Scout policy on homosexuality has legitimate purposes for the protection of underage boys, moral or religious considerations aside.
Take the case of former Philadelphia-area assistant scoutmaster David Mayberry, convicted a few weeks ago on numerous sexually-based criminal offenses:
A Montgomery County man convicted of sexually assaulting a 14-year-old boy was sentenced to 40 years in state prison today. 52-year-old David Mayberry was arrested in 2005 by the PA Attorney General's office when he traveled to Bucks County to meet who he thought was a 12-year-old boy. The boy was actually an undercover agent. In July of 2005, Mayberry pleaded guilty to charges of unlawful contact with a minor, involuntary deviant sexual intercourse, corruption of minors and criminal use of a computer. He was also charged with recklessly endangering another person because he had sex with the teen knowing he was HIV- positive.
Update/Related Item (Nov. 20 | 13:30): Bob Knight of the MRC's Culture and Media Institute has a column at Townhall.com about the Post article. Knight argues that Post "stepped delicately around the thuggish tactics employed by Philadelphia City Solicitor Romulo Diaz" who has given the Scouts an ultimatum to accept gay Scouts and Scout masters or lose a favorable lease arrangement that rents city property to the Scouts for a nominal annual fee.
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November 19, 2007 - 11:09 ET by Kirk TurnerShould we now be forced to subject our children to what we believe is not a good situation just to appease the Gods of political correctness? I think not. My children come first, and these special interest groups and their judicial enablers can call me a homophobe, racist, ignorant, stupid, or whatever they wish, and I will absorb all their insults to protect my children gladly.
As Ann Coulter says, "liberals are not satisfied with ruining their own children, now they want to ruin ours, while we pay the bill with our tax dollars. Call me old-fashioned too if you wish, but I don't think that homosexuality is a viable alternate lifestyle, though I will tolerate the wrong-headedness of those who do--not approve of it, but tolerate it.
Go on and be gay, I know that right now it is trendy, but the very fact the government is promoting homosexuality and attacking the boy scouts for upholding a tradition formed through thousands of years of trial and error says all you need to know about present-day America.
We do not have a say in our countries policies, only the monied interests and their judicial proxies do.
...this liberal
November 19, 2007 - 11:31 ET by TruthMonger...this liberal discrimination against peds is very alarming - it's so damned intolerant, hate is not a liberal value...
peds should also be allowed to run scout troops, coach kids sports, run dance schools, maybe kids modeling agencies - maybe model bikini's, or underwear, bath soap and toys...
we must force this on the majority - it is the democratic way
TM, it was bad enough when
November 19, 2007 - 11:35 ET by JasonCTM, it was bad enough when you were equating homosexuality with pedophilia on a moral level. Now you're making the leap to say that gays are pedophiles?
What is wrong with you?
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
ror-shacked ya:)
November 19, 2007 - 11:40 ET by TruthMongeri didn't say that - you THOUGHT that right away - so what is wrong with you...?!
The article is about
November 19, 2007 - 11:43 ET by JasonCThe article is about homosexuals as scoutmasters. No one is advocating allowing confirmed sex offenders to be scoutmasters. So where in the article are they kowtowing to pedophiles, as you suggest? It's obvious to me you've just gone ahead and equated the two.
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
Sarcasm
November 19, 2007 - 11:51 ET by sunandsteelDid we miss the lesson on sarcasm in school?
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it's "obvious" to him -
November 19, 2007 - 14:47 ET by TruthMongerit's "obvious" to him - very telling:)
You're wrong, Jason. Here's the bigger picture.
November 19, 2007 - 12:35 ET by RJIn the first place, NAMBLA adamantly considers itself to be a homosexual organization, and gay groups admit they've backed away only because it won't sell politically. Regardless of that, young men (Boy Scouts) aged 14-18 being targeted by gays is not "pedophilia."
Secondly, BSA is already fighting a constant battle against pedophiles and homosexuals molesting Scouts. The numbers of Leaders dismissed for that behavior is already extremly high. Kowtowing to the demands of the ACLU would make that worse....not to mention that most parents would refuse to allow their sons to go camping with gay leaders.
As for the ACLU (which supports NAMBLA), that organization began pushing several years ago for this outcome in Philadelphia. It's part of their nationwide program to destroy the Boy Scouts.
The article is about a building
November 19, 2007 - 14:34 ET by PamThe article is about the scouts losing their $1.00 a year lease on a building because they don't accept gays, even though they are constitutionally protected from being forced to accept gays..Ken led people to believe that this was about pedophiles..
I guess you could make that
November 19, 2007 - 15:04 ET by sunandsteelI guess you could make that assumption, if you just scanned the article and didnt really read what it said.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
Read it again JasonC. TM
November 19, 2007 - 11:40 ET by KarmaRead it again JasonC. TM never said that.
They can indoctrinate,
November 19, 2007 - 11:39 ET by mattmThey can indoctrinate, oppress, and otherwise persecute all they want and they'll never change the fact that homosexuality is an abnormality at best, and that most people instinctively know it.
A new slang among youths these days is using the term "gay" to refer to something unjust, unfair or generally bad. Take heart: our kids are smarter than the adults who are trying to brainwash them.
Kids usually have a way with
November 19, 2007 - 11:46 ET by sunandsteelKids usually have a way with the truth at times. Not so much concern for "upsetting" people.
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This is a result of the ACLU aggressively targeting Boy Scouts
November 19, 2007 - 11:10 ET by RJall over the country ever since they lost the Supreme Court decision.
In Philadelphia, as around the country, it's the inner-city youths who have been most affected, as their subsidized BSA programs are cut back or out.
Ken you make a good point about the BSA's common sense attitude toward gays. For just one example, if known gay men were leading Scout Troops, most parents would refuse to allow their sons to go camping.
The fact is, there are gays in Scouting, including Eagle Scouts. But openly sexualizing Scouting, homo or hetero, is just as wrong as sexualizing our elementary, middle and high schools.
. . . it's the inner-city
November 19, 2007 - 11:24 ET by DontFeedTheTrolls. . . it's the inner-city youths who have been most affected, as their subsidized BSA programs are cut back or out.
And guess who is out there joining gangs (err. . ., crews) and killing each other in record numbers?
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Well, you know, it is the
November 19, 2007 - 11:42 ET by sunandsteelWell, you know, it is the Conservatives/Christians/white mans fault that they have to join gangs (...er,) crews in the first place. Maybe if we just allowed everyone (except conservatives/Christians/white people) do as they so pleased, America would be a better, peaceful place.
Or maybe it would be a festering cesspool.
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And groups falling in line with the ACLU
November 19, 2007 - 11:40 ET by ThisnThatWhen United Way starts up in my company, I refuse to donate because of their public stance against the Boy Scouts. I also make a point of never visiting a CVS Pharmacy because of their public hatred of Boy Scouts. This is my private little boycott -- and it will last a lifetime.
My son is an Eagle Scout. We're proud of him, and I am very glad he wasn't subject to a queer scout leader. It's too bad we have to deal with the ACLU pushing this kind of nonsense.
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Question regarding Ken's
November 19, 2007 - 11:18 ET by JasonCQuestion regarding Ken's opening remarks to this article: When I was a Boy Scout, we had a den mother for 3 years (technically
this was the Cub Scout phase and I think that this is more or less the norm, or was in my day anyhow). That is, us boys were under the
leadership of a middle-aged woman. How is this different from gay
scout leaders, aside from the assumption that gay people are more
likely to be deviant, lack self control, and (TruthMonger's favorite)
harbor pedophiliac impulses?
Now, please be assured that I am not blindly advocating equal employment for homosexual scout masters. I'm just wondering how people characterize it as different from a heterosexual individual of the opposite sex supervising these groups.
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
In the case of scout
November 19, 2007 - 11:50 ET by sunandsteelIn the case of scout mothers, most of them tend to be married women, usually someones mom in my experience. That would fall right into the traditional values of the scouts.
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Brotherly Love
November 19, 2007 - 11:22 ET by kgI don't think when they called themselves the 'City of Brotherly Love' that
this is what they had in mind. Let the people vote.
The Boy Scouts should stick to their values. It is not worth the risk of
screwing up even one child's mind. And why would the Boy Scouts risk their
impeccable reputation. They are for the development of the children, not
indoctrination.
Shoving homosexuality down peoples' throats really gets old. Most people do
not care if one is homosexual but why can't they keep it in the bedroom? For
some odd reason the homosexual community feel it is necessary to take their
preferences to the streets and public displays. Can you imagine the chaos if
heterosexuals took their preferences to the streets too? Talk about a screwed up
world. Homosexuals also have a history of praying on young people who have
problems and are confused.
It is about time the fringe butts out and lets the children be children in
this country.
A quote
November 19, 2007 - 11:55 ET by sunandsteelI heard this one time, I think it was Michael Medved who said it about Brokeback Mountain and gayness. "What once was the love that dared not speak is now the love that wont shut up." Just thought that was funny.
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Okay
November 19, 2007 - 11:25 ET by Killgrave"It would be logical to most Americans that having openly gay adults supervising impressionable young boys under the age of consent might be a bad idea, setting aside moral or religious considerations."
I disagree. How can one assert this is a "bad idea" WITHOUT moral or religious considerations which, let's be honest, tend to be subjective?
Firstly, what is "openly gay"? Showing up at a scout meeting wearing a tu-tu, or simply refusing to lie about one's orientation, if the subject ever needs to be addressed (which it shouldn't).
I happen to know a person who is gay but is about as ultra-conservative as one can get. He is very old-school and traditional. He keeps his orientation extremely private. I personally don't see a disconnect if he wanted to volunteer for the Scouts.
That being said, the Boy Scouts is a private club, and they certainly should have their rights of free association respected (particularly from the leftist thought police). However, if this private club was to use public facilities, and be given preference, that can be a bit problematic.
Try to go beyond knee-jerk, PC-think, Killgrave
November 19, 2007 - 11:40 ET by RJHow can one assert this is a "bad idea" WITHOUT moral or religious considerations which, let's be honest, tend to be subjective?
If you give it more than a cursory thought, the logical (not subjective) impracticality of gay men leading young men into the woods just smacks you in the face. If that doesn't change your mind, understand that most parents would refuse to allow their sons to go camping with a gay leader. This leaves BSA with the practical decision to either shut down Scouting (the goal of the ACLU, which goes beyond the gay issue) or continue following the logical path they have laid out.
I think I do give it more
November 19, 2007 - 12:24 ET by KillgraveI think I do give it more than a cursory thought.
Does it seem more logical to judge a man by his speech and actions, and not simply by what he "is" (a state of being that is heavily argued on and emotional)?
And I was in the Scouts for several years. I simply can't see how a hypothetical gay scout leader can get away with inappropriate conduct or speech, given the large amount of straight, adult males that are involved in every activity.
But you're correct. The BSA should have the final say about who they will accept into their club. However, to be fair, they also shouldn't expect any special treatment or consideration when they utilize public assets.
well then peds should be
November 19, 2007 - 12:27 ET by TruthMongerwell then peds should be allowed in there too then - as long as they behave well
Thats next.
November 19, 2007 - 12:44 ET by sunandsteelCant discriminate against gays because of sexual preference, cant discriminate against peds for the same reason. Then when they start molesting boys, they will be protected by the 1st Amendment cause some loon will say they were just expressing themselves and we cant discriminate against that now can we. However, let me say a prayer to Jesus Christ in a public place and see how my freedom of expression no longer counts.
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Killgrave, it's not only a matter of the "rights" of the BSA
November 19, 2007 - 12:49 ET by RJAs I pointed out, the practicality is indisputable, but you again resort to the subjective.
You're naive to think there aren't many opportunities for gay/ped men on camping trips. BSA is already dealing with a serious problem in that area, and are dismissing leaders for inappropriate behavior at a record pace.
(Also check my above post to Jason regarding this, the ACLU, NAMBLA, etc.)
Rant
November 19, 2007 - 13:29 ET by KillgraveI just have to rant that this kind of nonsense is exactly why I can't register Republican.
Republicans seem to be quite obsessed with gay men. They automatically label them "deviants" even if they engage in ADULT, consensual behavior. And, somehow, being a homosexual also makes one a pedophile.
Gay men don't frighten me. I don't care what adults do in private. I don't even care if they want to get "married", given that it's simply a contract between two consenting adults. I don't lose sleep over these issues, and believe that these issues actually suck oxygen away from truly important matters such as national security.
There are a lot of gay men out there, and I believe that they shouldn't automatically be relegated to the lunatic left. However, if Republicans keep alienating them straight out of hand then this will be the only place they will go.
And if you think I'm totally off-base, then take it up with Dick Cheney.
I think that its not just
November 19, 2007 - 15:12 ET by sunandsteelI think that its not just "this kind of nonsense" that keeps you from voting Republican.
My opinion is that we are continually forced to accept gayness, and we are considered hateful if we dont. I am sick to death of hearing about the poor gays. Be gay, fine, I just dont have to accept it. And I shouldnt have it forced upon me. And I shouldnt have it forced upon my kids either.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
The strange thing is, that
November 19, 2007 - 15:40 ET by KillgraveThe strange thing is, that we probably agree on most things.
You mention an interesting term "acceptance", which is what the far-left gay movement is trying to push on us. It's not enough that we simply tolerate a lifestyle the we ourselves don't understand, and maybe not like. These moonbats want to force us to "accept" these things, both in our private lives, our moral teachings, and our children.
This is where I draw the line. I believe strongly that gay people should be left alone. I also think, by virtue of the government getting out of personal business, that they can "marry". I don't have a problem with gays adopting, as long as they're held to the same strict standards as straight couples. This gets more kids off the public dole, which is a good thing.
However, once gays start demanding special rights, special protections, and attempt to indoctrinate children through the public school system.. this is where I'm back to being a froth-at-the-mouth conservative. I'll give you my tolerance, but once you push for my acceptance all bets are off.
I don't equate gays as
November 19, 2007 - 15:13 ET by TruthMongerI don't equate gays as automatically being peds - I use the two to expose leftward hypocracy on the issue - the pro-gay/anti-ped crowd is guilty of the same kind of arbitrary discrimination that fundies like me use on gays
In fact hetero peds are actually OK - Biblically speaking - as long as the parties are married - very young "women" frequently married really old men in Biblical times - with God's blessings - Biblically speaking there is no age limit on marriage - also nothing wrong with polygamy, Biblically speaking...
Modern US/Western sexual morality is the center of OUR little universe - not God's by a long shot...
There's all kinds of sexual deviation in God's view - even for hetorosexuality - sodomy, group sex - and all things outside of marriage - fornication, masturbation, gay sex, beastiality, necrophelia...anyone practicing these are morally unfit for community leadership in God's view - and now these morals are really falling by the wayside via the cancer of modern PC
Our "Rome" is really starting to burn now - and if civic laws do not mirror God's laws then civilization falls - every single time
The US is now moving way out of whack with God's sexual morality - and it just keeps deteriorating more and more...
I think it's funny to see the left happy about gays but down on peds - it's typical of their two-faced views on everything..
Killgrave, you ARE ranting
November 19, 2007 - 15:25 ET by RJAll you've done is declaim why you subjectively "feel" the way you do, but you haven't addressed why what I said is supposedly ridiculous:
"It's not only a matter of the "rights" of the BSA. As I pointed out, the practicality is indisputable, but you again resort to the subjective.
You're naive to think there aren't many opportunities for gay/ped men on camping trips. BSA is already dealing with a serious problem in that area, and are dismissing leaders for inappropriate behavior at a record pace."
You forgot to call us
November 19, 2007 - 16:12 ET by Ruths husband BenYou forgot to call us "fascists."
Those who beat their swords into plowshares usually end up plowing for those who didn't. - Ben Franklin
My guess is that you don't
November 19, 2007 - 13:56 ET by Ruths husband BenMy guess is that you don't have a son. Those of us who do, try our utmost to keep them safe. If that means that some gay man has his "right" (to take other people's children into the woods) violated, so be it. I wouldn't send my daughter on a sleep over with a lesbian either (if I knew of it). Life is tough.
Those who beat their swords into plowshares usually end up plowing for those who didn't. - Ben Franklin
Ruth's Husband, Would you
November 19, 2007 - 13:59 ET by LeonRuth's Husband,
Would you allow your daughter to have a heterosexual male coach?
How about a heterosexual male teacher?
Oh boy.
November 19, 2007 - 15:07 ET by sunandsteelWelcome to Stupidtown, population:Leon.
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sas.... I just sat down
November 19, 2007 - 16:16 ET by bigtimersas....
I just sat down to read some of the posts and caught yours here...needless to say I just spurted some coffee on my keyboard...you got me cracking up laughing with that post of yours!
Thanks though, I needed that.
Glad I could be of
November 19, 2007 - 16:28 ET by sunandsteelGlad I could be of assistance, sorry about that keyboard.
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Well, you busted me Leon.
November 19, 2007 - 16:07 ET by Ruths husband BenWell, you busted me Leon. Actually, Ruth and I only had boys (I realized after I posted that my comments sounded like I had daughters). But yes, I would let a male coach my daughter, if I had one. But that is different as male coaches aren't going to be in the shower room with the girls, there are chaparones available. I know a man who coaches girl's basketball and accomodations are made for that. Do you think the gay rights movement would stand for special protection for the kids (i.e., separate shower facilities for gay scout leaders, chaparones so the gay leader can't be alone with scouts, etc.)? Me either.
Those who beat their swords into plowshares usually end up plowing for those who didn't. - Ben Franklin
RHB, I highly doubt that
November 19, 2007 - 16:33 ET by LeonRHB,
I highly doubt that scout leaders shower with their troops.
Regardless of their sexual orientation.
I think there should be seperate shower facilities or at least seperate shower times for scout leaders whether they're gay or not.
Why wouldn't gays be allowed to be alone with the scouts?
Male coaches are alone with female players all the time.
What's the difference?
During a campout situation,
November 19, 2007 - 17:07 ET by Ruths husband BenDuring a campout situation, the leaders are, in essence, living with the children. It is unreasonable to imagine that potentially compromising situations would not occur. Yes, they may occur in a coaching/teaching situation, but #1, this an employment issue and there are laws regarding workplace discrimination. #2, bad things happen between teachers and students already, so that isn't the greatest example for you to use.
I would grant you (were you gay) the right to take my kid on a sleep-over, if you grant me the right to send you to your maker if you touch him inappropriately. BTW, this applies gay or not.
Personally, I think people who don't see a problem with gays taking kids camping are playing social engineering games with my kids and I don't have much use for them. Generally, they don't have any investment in the game either (i.e., they don't have children). Additionally, they don't seem that interested in the rights of the kids who are totally innocent and deserve to be protected.
Those who beat their swords into plowshares usually end up plowing for those who didn't. - Ben Franklin
I highly doubt that scout
November 19, 2007 - 17:34 ET by MidAmericaI highly doubt that scout leaders shower with their troops.
It can happen.
I was in Scouts for ten years. For example during a Canadian canoe trip we stopped enroute at a military facility and the showers were communal. During the two-week canoe trip into remote wilderness (access only by canoe or sea plane) we were assisted by two college age Scout guides. They were only a few years older than the scouts on the trip. And did I mention we were alone in the wilderness for two weeks?
Killgrave, exactly, for
November 19, 2007 - 11:50 ET by JasonCKillgrave, exactly, for many people whose conception of homosexuality begins and ends with garbage like Will and Grace, it's all just a man wearing a tutu (metaphorically speaking), mincing and calling everyone sweetheart. It seems to me that it's the closeted homosexuals, the ones who would never admit it to themselves much less the community and compensate with affected hypermasculinity, who parents would be more wary of. But wait, how do you identify them?
Oh yeah, you can't.
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
can't ID peds either:)
November 19, 2007 - 12:28 ET by TruthMongercan't ID peds either:)
Jason, your shallow thinking on the subject is appalling
November 19, 2007 - 13:05 ET by RJIn your self-imagined superiority, you stupidly assume that those against openly gay scout leaders have a television sit-com vision of the entire homosexual/pedophilia question.
Try reading the thread with something more than your own shallow, PC directed thought.
RJ, wow, this thread has
November 19, 2007 - 18:18 ET by JasonCRJ, wow, this thread has really blown up since I left.
My point stands, and Leon has been trying fruitlessly to make the very same, very valid point to you. The whole premise of the BSA excluding gay scoutmasters (which I'm not saying I disagree with) is that every potential scoutmaster will be admittedly out of the closet or will bear some sort of stereotypically signifier. As Homer Simpson said (in an episode titled "Homer's Phobia", which is jsut priceless) "I like my beer cold, my TV loud, and my homosexuals flaming."
What about the fact that an overwhelming number of sex offenders are not out-of-the-closet gay men, but men who live ostensibly heterosexual lives, have wives and kids, &c. I don't see why parents don't have this fear sending their kids off with any adult male. Rejecting applicants who honestly answer that yes, they are gay, might be comforting, but it doesn't really accomplish anything.
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
Jason, you (and leon) entirely miss the point
November 19, 2007 - 19:09 ET by RJLeon, and to a lesser extent, you, are focusing on both minutia and on your perceived idea of the typical individual who doesn't want open homosexuals in scouting. The knee-jerk charges of "homophobia" and "hate" are made by ignorant fools.
First, just to clarify, the BSA policy isn't directed only at gay Scout Leaders, but all homosexuals...adults and scouts.
In my first two posts on this thread, I addressed the practicality of the issue. If BSA were to allow gay leaders and scouts, then most parents would refuse to allow their sons to go camping. That would destroy scouting, since the vast majority of all youths who join Scouting do so for the camping.
Additionally, the Mormons and the Baptists have already said they would leave scouting if BSA changed their policy....taking at least half of all scouts with them.
Regarding the issue of who might molest scouts, I think it's been clouded by referring to all abusers as pedophiles. Actually, when you think of young men, aged 14-18, you're no longer talking about children and you're no longer talking about an age that typical peds are interested in. Many of these young men are large and strapping. They certainly cannot be classified as "children." So, when it comes to abuse, it means you're talking about homosexuals, whether older or within the same age group.
Further complicating the issue, NAMBLA (defended and therefore sponsored by the ACLU, which is the prime driver in the attempt to destroy Scouting) adamantly considers itself to be a homosexual organization. Other gay organizations have admitted that the only reason they won't recognize NAMBLA as one of their own is that they would lose politically.
So, what do you have? That the department of child abuse at the FBI and numerous psychologists, among others, have flatly stated that BSA is a magnet for molesters. That introducing open homosexuality into an organization where adults and boys can be alone for up to two weeks would be a disaster on all fronts.
What are they doing about the "closet" gays you mentioned? As I told leon, the BSA refuses to release the figures, but it did come out in a trial that they've been dismissing molesters at the rate of one every other day. Additionally, they have a Youth Protection program that was considered to be an excellent model for other youth groups. I suspect that part of the reason for being so proactive is that they have been successfully sued by families of the molested....and if they allow open homosexuality, the risk and the settlement amounts will go way, way up.
Obviously, they won't be able to catch all molesters before they act, but to allow avowed homosexuals as scouts and leaders is impractical and impossible if Scouting is to exist at all.
Finally, BSA doesn't go looking for gays in scouting, whether adults or youths. There is no "are you gay" question. In fact, there are many gay leaders, scouts, and even Eagle Scouts. I know some. Most just don't make an issue of it. And, in my 27 years in Scouting, the subject has rarely even come up. Since sexuality, hetero or homo, isn't a part of Scouting, I'm not surprised.
Well don't you think it's
November 19, 2007 - 19:24 ET by balboaWell don't you think it's ridiculous to assume that banning gays from the scouts will rid the BSA of the problem altogether?
Why can't they just except everyone and then do a better job of screening for people that might molest?
Jeez, balboa, did you even bother to read the post?
November 19, 2007 - 19:36 ET by RJAs I said, allowing gays would increase the risk that already exists, and no one has said that keeping the status quo would "rid the BSA of the problem altogether."
And just how do you propose to "screen" better than they do now, administer a psyche test to all adults and scouts?
Typical of the bleeding-heart left, you just want it "because you believe it's right", and damn the consequences.
I just don't believe that
November 19, 2007 - 19:55 ET by balboaI just don't believe that gays in the boy scouts would increase the risks that much. Do you think that if a pedophile really wants access to these kids, he's going to let a gay ban get in his way?
How do you screen better? As a parent, you don't let your kids go unless you know the people that are going to be there. That's all you can do.
Nice "bleeding heart" jab, though.
"bleeding heart" fits perfectly in this case, balboa
November 19, 2007 - 20:05 ET by RJAgain, your questions show that if you even bothered to read the post, all you did was skim it.
I read it. It was so much
November 19, 2007 - 20:19 ET by balboaI read it. It was so much longer than your usual stuff, I had to see what was going on.
I understand your logic on this position, and what you've stated. Not sure this will solve any problems the BSA has with molesting.
OK, balboa
November 19, 2007 - 20:55 ET by RJ...but "solving" the problem isn't the reason for the BSA ban on homosexuality.
Just as the point of my post wasn't to offer a solution but to explain why the BSA position is the only practical position.
Seems it's just the _easier_
November 19, 2007 - 21:22 ET by balboaSeems it's just the _easier_ position.
Again, balboa, you claim to have read my post
November 19, 2007 - 21:27 ET by RJbut your post says either you didn't read it or you suffer from extreme short term memory loss.
balboa???
November 19, 2007 - 19:39 ET by LionKingAnswer the question posed here.
Scanning is key
November 19, 2007 - 20:42 ET by PamNot only for BSA, but teachers and coachs and clergy people as well. There is too much risk involved, why not try to prevent it.
The BSA has the right to ban gays, and the city can't change that.
Pam
November 19, 2007 - 20:49 ET by BlondeYou're exactly right....the city can't change that, but they can bow down to PC'ness and defund the BSA. That happened here locally.
Private organiztions can be "blackmailed" by municipalities and other governmental entities in this fashion.
It's up to us as taxpayers to make our voices heard.
David Gregory, do you know which damn network you lie for? ~ Uncle Jimbo, @Blackfive
I've participated in
August 19, 2008 - 15:26 ET by NorthCoasterBoy Scouts for years. First as a Cub then as a Boy Scout, now as an adult leader. The youth protection program is excellent in helping to protect youth from being sexually harassed. It is helpful that most times adults and boys go about with a buddy of the same age. Most buildings are set up with seperate shower facilities for under and over 18.
Any person with responsibility and power over a youth or subordinate is a hazard if they act innappropriately.
If you aren't careful about who is responsible for children or employees, everyone involved is at risk. This was the "Big Lesson" with the Lewinsky affair. Impressionable people do everything they can to gain the acceptance and approval of the person in charge. It's not just limited to Gay Scout leaders, but you can limit the potential risk to youth in Scouting by not allowing openly gay men to be leaders.
I don't think it is logical
November 19, 2007 - 11:51 ET by PamIf you are setting morals and religion aside, why would this be logical to assume that? Is it better to have the guy that teaches the kids that women are put on this earth to please men? How about we stick to what we know:
BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA et al. v. DALE , was a decision that held:
On legal grounds the city can not force the Scouts to accept gays. I was a bit more irked with the representative from Cradle of Liberty Council, Jeff Jubelirer:
Is Jubelirer more concerned for the building than the Boy Scouts as a whole? This building is a small fight compared to what the Scouts have faced in the past.
Don't ask don't tell? Is that what we should expect from a local leader of a national organization that took on its opposition and won a landmark ruling? Maybe had they asked and told, scoutmaster David Mayberry would never have been able to hurt those kids.
I would like to know what the national leaders are doing about this..With people like Jubelirer running things, they'll keep the building but sell their souls to the devil
this all very well but then
November 19, 2007 - 12:30 ET by TruthMongerthis all very well but then why the discrimination against open peds? or do you support them too?
why the discrimination against open peds?
November 19, 2007 - 13:09 ET by PamWhat are you talking about??? The post makes absolutely no sense..Oh wait, are you saying all gay people are pedophiles? Do you even know what pedophilia is?
Let me make myself very clear for you..I call for the execution of anyone that "suffers" from the need to have sex with children. I figure that it is best to put them out of their suffering..The people committing the acts are teachers, priests, parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, siblings etc..they consist of Homo and heterosexual people. Not all abuse is same-sex abuse. There is no cure for these people, not even religious counciling can set them on the right path..they have no place in our society..period.
So, Pam...
November 19, 2007 - 13:15 ET by RJ...are you saying that all leaders who molest Scouts are pedophilies? How about the young men aged 14-18? Would they also be victims of peds?
Can't you read?
November 19, 2007 - 13:35 ET by PamYes they are in addition to the teachers that have sex with their students or the parents that have sex with their kids
Oh, I read (and comprehend) very well, Pam
November 19, 2007 - 13:50 ET by RJSorry I can't say the same for your consistently foggy writing.
Males age14-18 are young men, not children. Pedophiles would consider them too old, but they are attractive to certain homosexuals.
BTW, NAMBLA considers itself to be a homosexual organization, and gay organizations admit that the only reason they distance themselves is because it would be politically detrimental.
RJ, Your argument is so
November 19, 2007 - 13:54 ET by LeonRJ,
Your argument is so stupid.
I see many many college age or recently out of college age men coaching high school girls sports teams.
Where's your concern there? Where's your fear for those girls? Why aren't you up in arms about that?
Furthermore, whether or not a person wants to have sex with someone under 18 has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It has to do with that person and their level of creepiness.
You're just looking for excuses to justify your overwhelming hatred of gay people. You must have a gay you hate in your family. That's the only explanation for this much venom.
This thread is threatening to destroy the remaining shred of credibility you sort of had left.
Well the trolls have shown up
November 19, 2007 - 14:04 ET by RJ...and the mindless "you're a homophobe" chants have begun.
Speaking of stupid arguments, leon....comparing coaches with Scout leaders camping off in the woods? Silly.
And..."Furthermore, whether or not a person wants to have sex with someone under 18 has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It has to do with that person and their level of creepiness."
Hahaha. What a (not surprising) foolish thing to say. Do you really believe that? Hahaha.
RJ, 1) Could you please
November 19, 2007 - 14:07 ET by LeonRJ,
1) Could you please explain how comparing coaches with Scout leaders is different? When I played travel sports when I was younger, I went on many trips where it was just coaches and players. That's no different from camping in the woods as far as I can tell. So tell us why it's so different.
2) Yes I do believe that. Could you please explain why it's foolish?
All you've done is attack me. You haven't even attempted to make a rational argument against what I've said. You do hate. It's sad to watch. The homophobe chants are out b/c you're showing that you hate gays. People tend to call you out for what you are and you're an irrational gay hater.
leon, you're always good for a chuckle
November 19, 2007 - 14:50 ET by RJ...with your attacking others and then whining that it's you who has been attacked. It's the Hillary defense. ;^>
Let's try again. Show me where I have attacked you. Show me where anything I've said is "homophobic" or "hate."
"As far as you can tell" explains a lot. In the first place, camping trips offer more opportunity, but since you've never (apparently) been in the Scouts you wouldn't know and are just making assumptions.
In the second place, unlike youth sports, Scouts are a target for peds/homos. Unlike youth sports, BSA has a major current problem with this, and they're dismissing Leaders at a record pace.
(Of course, if you had read the thread, you'd know that.)
RJ,Do you ever use any
November 19, 2007 - 14:59 ET by LeonRJ,
Do you ever use any sort of evidence or do you just say the first thing that comes to mind?
1) Camping trips do offer opportunity, but not necessarily more. Especially considering that there is significantly less time spent camping than at practice/post-practice.
2) Scouts is a target for peds? Unlike Youth Sports? Do you have any evidence for this? What you'll need to prove this will be the number of peds that were involved in leading youth sports and the number of peds that were involved in leading boy scouts. Find that stat and then you can make that argument. Until then you're just making stuff up which is not really an effective form of debate.
Happy hunting! haha.
Unlike you, leon, I speak from experience
November 19, 2007 - 15:08 ET by RJAs a Scout Leader, I've been paying attention to the issue for many years. I've been hearing and reading both the internal and public reports.
Other than your knee-jerk PC "feelings" what do you bring to the table?
RJ, So again you have
November 19, 2007 - 15:37 ET by LeonRJ,
So again you have zero evidence to back up your claim.
As per usual.
Your previous post will be stricken from the record due to lack of material support.
No problem, leon
November 19, 2007 - 16:12 ET by RJI understand. To you, my knowledge from years in Scouting means nothing when compared to your all-powerful PC "feelings."
In fact, your "feelings" are so all-powerful that there's nothing I can say that will change your mind...say, have you bothered reading my two posts at the top of the thread? Of course not. You just made assumptions and jumped into your ranting, name-calling, insulting troll persona. Why waste time finding out what someone else really thinks when there's trolling to do, right? :^>
BTW, here's a little taste: "In August of 2007, The Washington Supreme Court ordered the BSA to hand over documents concerning sexual abuse by Scout leaders. These documents show that in the past 15 years, the organization has kicked out leaders for abuse allegations at a rate of one every other day." Yahoo news / Planet Out 2007-10-02
Think your sport/coach scenario compares to that, leon?...not that you ever allow facts to change your mind.....
RJ, I don't know RJ and
November 19, 2007 - 16:37 ET by LeonRJ,
I don't know RJ and neither do you. That's the point.
Show us the stats or keep walking. You have no evidence to prove your point and yet you're still trying to sell it?
I won't allow facts to change my mind? You haven't shown any facts concerning youth sports. So get on it or quiet down.
PS That's nice that you're a scout leader. My mom was my scout leader too. I hope you're not as laid back as her though, she used to give us the badges pretty easily.
Geez, leon, now you're fantasizing that I'm a Den Mother?
November 19, 2007 - 16:51 ET by RJYou are one sick puppy. Do your bosses know you take your laptop (!) into the bathroom? (yuk!)
The stats can't be shown because BSA keeps them private. The numbers I gave above came out of a trial. Bet you can't come up with anything comparable for your coach/sports scenario, though.
Typical of you to fixate on providing stats. It keeps you from having to actually refute anything else I've said.
RJ, It's not possible for
November 19, 2007 - 16:55 ET by LeonRJ,
It's not possible for me to refute you until you complete your argument. In order to complete your argument, you have to back it up with stats.
that's how debating works. You haven't said anything else except your own distorted opinion that's based on literally nothing.
Finish your argument and I'll provide a retort.
You keep backpeddling away from the fact that you have NO FACTS.
Sad, leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:01 ET by RJ...you jumped onto this thread without bothering to read it. That's why you haven't been able to refute a single one of my positions....you don't even know what they are. And that's why you have to fixate on these unavailable statistics.
RJ, I've read the thread,
November 19, 2007 - 17:04 ET by LeonRJ,
I've read the thread, I know what you said, and I've addressed several of your points.
Keep hiding though. If you distract enough maybe people will forget that you're just making stuff up.
Get the stats or move on. Don't make an argument if you aren't willing to back it up with data.
haha leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:08 ET by RJMaybe in your little world, saying "you're wrong" counts as addressing my points, but for us grown-ups, it doesn't. ;^>
RJ, All i'm asking is for
November 19, 2007 - 17:12 ET by LeonRJ,
All i'm asking is for you to back up your statement.
You said:
In the second place, unlike youth sports, Scouts are a target for peds/homos. Unlike youth sports, BSA has a major current problem with this, and they're dismissing Leaders at a record pace.
Prove it. Stop avoiding the simple issue.
done, leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:48 ET by RJ"at the rate of one every other day"...and you accepted it.
Now, for the umpteenth time, instead of childishly hiding behind this non-issue, how about you grow up and specifically refute something I've said? You know, behave like an adult for a change.
RJ, Furthermore, see if
November 19, 2007 - 16:39 ET by LeonRJ,
Furthermore, see if you can answer this b/c it's instrumental to your argument:
How many of those accused of sexual abuse in the Scouts have been openly gay and how many had families at home and were 'openly' straight?
That's key to the debate at hand.
How so, leon?
November 19, 2007 - 16:56 ET by RJExactly which argument have I made that your question would apply to...and how?
RJ, It's an important
November 19, 2007 - 16:59 ET by LeonRJ,
It's an important distinction to see which types of leaders are being kicked out for sexual abuse.
This thread is about OPENLY gay scout leaders. So you would have to provide stats of OPENLY gay scout leaders.
My question is pertinent b/c you haven't provided this. You've provided the overall number. How many of those are family men?
Major difference and 100% pertinent to the topic at hand.
No, leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:04 ET by RJThis thread is about gays in the BSA.
"You've provided the overall number."
I have? You really do hear voices, don't you?
Oh Poor Sad RJ, Learn to
November 19, 2007 - 17:07 ET by LeonOh Poor Sad RJ,
Learn to read. From Ken's first sentence:
It would be logical to most Americans that having openly gay adults supervising impressionable young boys under the age of consent might be a bad idea, setting aside moral or religious considerations.
Now what RJ? Ken specified and you didn't.
Typical of you leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:18 ET by RJRead the first sentence and then assume the rest.
Did your ADD prevent you from reading the entire article? Did you read the linked story? Of course not.
The article and story were clearly about gays, generally, being in the BSA.
Wrong RJ, The article was
November 19, 2007 - 17:25 ET by LeonWrong RJ,
The article was clearly about 'openly' gay scout masters.
it's right there for you to read. In plain english.
Now let's continue, what percentage of those kicked out for sexual abuse were OPENLY gay?
This is important with regard to Ken's thread where he SPECIFICALLY addresses openly gay individuals. Your misinterpretation does not change what KEN wrote.
You're funny, leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:38 ET by RJThe "because I said so" argument....in this case allowing you to ignore the rest of the story beyond the first sentence. ;^>
RJ, Here's the overall
November 19, 2007 - 17:16 ET by LeonRJ,
Here's the overall number you've provided:
past 15 years, the organization has kicked out leaders for abuse allegations at a rate of one every other day."
Boy, you must have the memory of a goldfish.
Silly leon
November 19, 2007 - 17:22 ET by RJSorry, bucko, "one every other day" is not an overall number, except in your fantasy world.
Really?
November 19, 2007 - 14:39 ET by PamWell I go by the law and the law states that sex with children is against the law..and children are considered persons under 17..hence a male can be charged with a sex offence if the have sex with a minor..but don't let facts get in your way.
Is that what gay organizations say about NAMBLA? Really..do tell..
peds and gays have
November 19, 2007 - 15:20 ET by TruthMongerpeds and gays have traditionally suffered discrimination - both being labeled as "diseased"
but gays have now worked their way into acceptability on the left - the left still discriminates against peds, but the peds are working on it, and they will gain acceptance eventually as well
And Biblically as long as they are married its actually ok with me as well, same deal with polygamy
anything ok in the Bible is ok with me:)
that's why gays are having such a tough time of it, culturally speaking
And Biblically as long as
November 19, 2007 - 15:23 ET by dvdaughtryAnd Biblically as long as they are married its actually ok with me as well, same deal with polygamy
Lemme get this straight (no pun intended): Now you are Mormon?
Well, for once, the rich white man is in control. --Montgomery Burns
just a fundie in the OT
November 19, 2007 - 16:46 ET by TruthMongerjust a fundie
in the OT Biblical figures had many wives, some very young...
this is not a Mormon concept
I hereby reject/denounce all
November 19, 2007 - 12:08 ET by KarmaI hereby reject/denounce all individuals and groups who reject/denounce individuals and groups, including those who reject/denounce me for rejecting/denouncing those individuals and groups. I hope I've made myself clear.
Karma... Your
November 19, 2007 - 12:12 ET by Clear thinkerKarma...
Your denouncement has me feeling rejected.
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Unfortunately Clear thinker
November 19, 2007 - 12:59 ET by KarmaUnfortunately Clear thinker the rejected, you are just an unintended casualty of my surgical strike at these specific hate filled individuals and groups. My hope is that if this movement grows, all rejects, myself included, will rise up and denounce ourselves.
When I was a scout, I had
November 19, 2007 - 13:03 ET by BruzillaWhen I was a scout, I had years of working with den mothers, and, I'm sorry to say, none of them tried to get me that Virgin No More merit badge. When I was a boy scout, I would go out and help out Brownie and Girl Scout troops with their one and two-week summer programs, and no one ever seemed to have a problem with that either. Also, when my daughter was a brownie and girl scout, there were often guys going as chaperones on trips just like we had women chaperones when I was a scout.
I agree with the folks who say this is a homophobia issue. Not all gays are pedophiles, and being gay may be immoral to some, but it isn't illegal. Pedophilia is illegal, and that's a big difference. If the scouts have moral issues with gays, that's their business. But what I don't like is the talk that just because someone is Gay, it should be obvious that he's going to molest every young boy he's with.
Well said
November 19, 2007 - 13:11 ET by PamWell said...
Bruzilla, you should do some research
November 19, 2007 - 13:12 ET by RJ...because, beyond your left-over childish testosterone-driven fantasies, you obviously have no clue about the circumstances surrounding the issue.
Back to "homophobia", the favorite all-purpose gay accusation for anyone who disagrees with their progrom...that's sad.
"Homophobia" is not the
November 19, 2007 - 13:27 ET by mattm"Homophobia" is not the issue. "Not all gays are pedophiles..." is not a valid argument. Both homosexuality and pedophilia are parts of the same behavioral class, or at least it is reasonable for people to think so. Simple biology teaches that.
But, as far as the Boy Scout issue goes, the question is who is being discriminated against, the so-called "gays" or the BSA?
No one is stopping the "gays" from forming a scouting organization that allows "gay" leaders. But the "gay" advocates want to force their will on the Boy Scouts, or drive them out of existence.
This is a militant homosexual attack in the ongoing Leftist war on America.
How are they part of the
November 19, 2007 - 13:33 ET by balboaHow are they part of the same "behavioral class"?
Read the thread, balboa
November 19, 2007 - 13:37 ET by RJIt's addressed above.
RJ, It is not in the same
November 19, 2007 - 13:44 ET by LeonRJ,
It is not in the same behavioral class and it's not addressed above.
My oh my, I had no idea how deep your gay hate runs.
The ped argument is stupid for one simple reason, if you're an adult:
Sex with children is illegal.
Sex with another adult is legal.
There is no comparison or relation between peds and gays.
So full of hate. Why do gays scare you so much? Gay son? Gay brother?
Try again, leon, I did address it above
November 19, 2007 - 13:53 ET by RJAnd your all-purpose "you're a homophobe" shows an unsurprising lazy, knee-jerk lack of ability to address the specifics.
Except that you clearly are
November 19, 2007 - 13:56 ET by LeonExcept that you clearly are a homophobe. Although I would go farther, you aren't afraid of gays, you HATE gays.
It's so sad watching you flounder with weak nonsensical arguments that take only a minimal shred of logic to unravel.
When unable to argue, bring out the chants
November 19, 2007 - 14:08 ET by RJhaha, leon, you really are silly. Still waiting for you to actually make an argument against one of my "nonsensical arguments."
RJ, You're clearly not
November 19, 2007 - 14:10 ET by LeonRJ,
You're clearly not reading the thread. There have been numerous arguments that have put your hatred to bed and your only defense is to play this homophobe chant card. How worthless of you. A woman so full of hate is a disturbing thing to see. How about addressing people's points instead of trying to simply shout them down with nonsense.
That's pathetic, leon. It's you who is doing the shouting
November 19, 2007 - 14:19 ET by RJ...and I'm still waiting for your arguments.
Hey, since you're obviously unable to come up with an argument of your own, how about starting with some quotes that have "put my hatred to bed."
Pssst: as you know perfectly well, I'm a man....but since you bring it up I do wonder what kind of a mother you'll make. ;^)
RJ, 1) These
November 19, 2007 - 14:24 ET by LeonRJ,
1) These arguments??? I've already made my arguments. Just b/c you've ignored them doesn't mean they don't exist. What arguments exactly are you waiting for? I'm not following
2) You're def. not a man and everyone knows this. You're a stay at home wife. Only someone with massive amounts of free time could be as fired up as you about something so inconsequential as homosexuality
3) It would be impossible for me to be a mother since I'm a man.
hahaha, leon
November 19, 2007 - 14:33 ET by RJTelling me I'm wrong is not an "argument."
But considering your repeated name calling, insults, and silly attempts to cast me as a "housewife" it's apparent that you're the one who is "fired up", leon.
You're a man? Oh, ok. ;^>
RJ, You never even
November 19, 2007 - 14:37 ET by LeonRJ,
You never even addressed my original argument.
Why aren't you all fired up about male coaches with female players?
You've never responded except to say that I'm wrong. But why am i wrong? That's sort of the key part in debate that you consistently miss.
I'm not all fired up I'm just pointing out that you hate gays. I mean, it's clear as day.
PS Nobody's buying your tired claims. We all know you're a housewife. No need to be ashamed. Hey, according to recent studies, that job's worth $180,000 a year. No shame in that game.
Um, I did respond, leon
November 19, 2007 - 15:00 ET by RJToo bad I can't say the same for you regarding any of my arguments.
"I'm not all fired up." Hilarious, leon. You deny, like a little boy, having done exactly what any adult can see that you've done.
Hey, go ahead and fantasize about me being a housewife, little guy. I'm sure it enlivens your otherwise sad existance. ;^>
Same behavioral class...is
November 19, 2007 - 19:34 ET by JasonCSame behavioral class...is this the DSM-IV or your personal opinion?
"He was, and is yet, most likely, the wearisomest, self-righteous
pharisee that ever ransacked a Bible to rake the promises to himself
and fling the curses on his neighbors." -Emily Bronte
Jason, Clearly it's
November 20, 2007 - 11:58 ET by LeonJason,
Clearly it's personal opinion for 2 reasons:
1) RJ only ever argues using personal opinion. Facts are her Kryptonite.
2) Homosexuality was removed from the DSM-IV in 1973
uh oh, leons back in the bathroom with his laptop
November 20, 2007 - 12:10 ET by RJI see you've still got that creepy fantasy going, leon.
Oh, you might want to get help (maybe from the next stall?) in following threads. I didn't bring up the "behavorial" issue.
You are right, though. The classification was changed by a group of social-engineering shrinks.
Double...discard
November 20, 2007 - 11:59 ET by LeonDouble...discard
I agree with RJ that
November 19, 2007 - 14:14 ET by BruzillaI agree with RJ that homosexuals and pedophiles are in the same behavioral class, but so is anyone who likes heterosexual oral sex, post-menopausal women, and sterile men... so of that list, only one act is illegal and that's the person I would ban from the Scouts.
That was mattm, Bruzilla
November 19, 2007 - 14:36 ET by RJI actually posted the following:
"Bruzilla, you should do some research, because, beyond your left-over childish testosterone-driven fantasies, you obviously have no clue about the circumstances surrounding the issue.
Back to "homophobia", the favorite all-purpose gay accusation for anyone who disagrees with their progrom...that's sad."
Because...
November 19, 2007 - 14:26 ET by mattmBecause for a person to be sexually attracted to a child is at least biologically abnormal, as is being sexually attracted to a member of the same sex. I know there are people who disagree with this, but the fact is humans are heterosexual by nature.
However, I do see your point (on other threads) about the age difference thing. As far as consenting adults go, they can do what they want. But when an adult tries to gratify his or her desires with a child, that's a problem - whether the offending adult is heterosexual or not.
So, in the BSA case, since it is perceived, whether rightly or wrongly, that a "gay" person is more likely to be a pedophile than is a married heterosexual person, the prohibition against "gay" scout leaders is warranted, and the comparison between them and an adult female or an adult male - especially if they have their own child in the same scout troop - is not.
But regardless of how people feel about that, the point is that BSA, as a private organization, should be able to have it's own rules and should have equal access to "public" facilities as any other group does.
I know some might say "well then should they be able to prohibit non-whites as scout leaders?" But that's an apples and oranges argument - since the question involves sexual behavior and the vulnerability of children, and has nothing to do with ethnicity. (Not that you're arguing that)
Mattm, How can you prove
November 19, 2007 - 14:26 ET by LeonMattm,
How can you prove that humans are heterosexual by nature?
There are rampant examples of gay sex all over the animal kingdom.
Science Class
November 19, 2007 - 15:20 ET by sunandsteelSex is used to reproduce and further a species = heterosexual is normal , homosexual is abnormal. Pure simple nature, you should have learned that in biology class. What are they teaching in the publik skools these days?
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
humans aren't
November 19, 2007 - 15:42 ET by TruthMongerhumans aren't animals?
our species is hetero - by God's design
Rampant examples? More
November 19, 2007 - 16:26 ET by mattmRampant examples? More like isolated aberrations.
http://www.narth.com/docs/animalmyth.html
Mattm, You ever been to a
November 19, 2007 - 16:40 ET by LeonMattm,
You ever been to a dog park?
Leon, are you really trying
November 19, 2007 - 16:42 ET by TruthMongerLeon, are you really trying to promote gays in the scouts this way - with gay dogs in the park? step back and re-calibrate...
It has nothing to do with
November 19, 2007 - 16:43 ET by LeonIt has nothing to do with gays in the scouts.
It has to do with mattm's assertion that heterosexual is the only natural sexual orientation.
Dogs are stupid for the most part.
November 19, 2007 - 16:51 ET by sunandsteelHave you noticed that these gay dogs will also hump legs, trashcans, basketballs, grass, air, and anything they can get their legs around?
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
But I thought only
November 19, 2007 - 16:52 ET by LeonBut I thought only heterosexual sex was natural?
What's with all this gay and/or object sex?
Only hetero sex is natural.
November 19, 2007 - 17:05 ET by sunandsteelOnly hetero sex is natural. The other acts are just stupid dogs being stupid dogs. The natural order of things is male and female, not male and male or male and basketball.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
Sun, Evolutionary
November 19, 2007 - 17:10 ET by LeonSun,
Evolutionary research has hypothesized that gay sex was an effective way of maintaining order.
Females are the choosers in the ancestral environment. Gay sex provided an outlet for those that were not selected to mate with a female. It was a form of population control.
Instead of raping females that refused them, undesirable males had another outlet for their natural sexual drives.
Not saying it's been proven, but it's an interesting theory that makes logical sense to me.
healthy is what he meant
November 19, 2007 - 17:53 ET by TruthMongerwhat people usually mean by that comment is that hetero sex is healthy, gay sex is unhealthy - both are natural - sin is natural, everything that happens in the universe is natural - the question is what is healthy and unhealthy - God defines that
Nature vs. pleasure
November 19, 2007 - 17:57 ET by sunandsteelHomosexual behaviour offers no purpose except for pleasure. Humans are the only species that procreate for pleasure. If a female wolf rejects a male wolf, I doubt very seriously the male will go and hump another male wolf.
Sticking one's finger in a light socket or poking one's self with needles may be pleasureable, but its not natural.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
What dog park are you going
November 19, 2007 - 16:46 ET by sunandsteelWhat dog park are you going to?
Ive had dogs all my life and only a few humped male dogs.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
only a few humped male
November 19, 2007 - 16:48 ET by Leononly a few humped male dogs.
haha.
So you agree with me. Perfect.
If I had been agreeing with
November 19, 2007 - 16:52 ET by sunandsteelIf I had been agreeing with you, I would have said they all humped male dogs.
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
So opposite sex molestation is not pedophilia?
November 19, 2007 - 13:38 ET by PamSo when a 60 year old man has sex with a 5 year old girl, what behavioral class do they belong to?
I believe that would be the
November 19, 2007 - 13:54 ET by BruzillaI believe that would be the pedophilia class. How about a 60 year old guy having sex with an 18-yr old girl?
Nothing illegal about it
November 19, 2007 - 14:42 ET by PamOdd and creepy yes, but as long as she consents, there is nothing illegal about it.
But legality is apparently
November 19, 2007 - 14:56 ET by BruzillaBut legality is apparently not the issue as many on the string are opposed to homosexuals, not just pedophiles. A five-year old girl cannot reproduce, so having sex with her is a deviancy. The average lifespan of a male is 67 years, so a 60-yr old man having sex with an 18-yr old girl would be a deviancy as well since it's unlikely he'll be able to raise a child to adulthood. So both case would be in the same behavior category - sexual deviant.
Fred Thompson is Sexual Deviant according to Bruzilla
November 19, 2007 - 16:02 ET by Daniel Baker"The average lifespan of a male is 67 years, so a 60-yr old man having
sex with an 18-yr old girl would be a deviancy as well since it's
unlikely he'll be able to raise a child to adulthood."
Fred Thompson, cancer survivor, just had a child at age 63, so according to Bruzilla's logic he is a deviant. I would not call him a deviant for this, but he is severly lacking in judgement to have a child this old. He must be easily swayed by his wife to show such poor judgement.
You might upset a lot of people here with your comment above Bruzilla, but you have spoken the opinion of the majority of people.
DB... You are a regular
November 19, 2007 - 16:06 ET by bigtimerDB...
You are a regular riot here!
ROFLMAO!
What?
November 19, 2007 - 17:20 ET by PamAre you trying to say that the only way that sex is not deviant is if the woman is able to have children and the man lives long enough to see the kid reach their 18th birthday?
Pam, what would be your
November 19, 2007 - 15:03 ET by KarmaPam, what would be your opinion of societies, past, present or future, that for whatever reasons, decide the "legal" age of consent to be 17?...16?...15?...13? Would "creepy" be your only protest or would you attempt to change the laws to better suit your tastes?
under 17 is "creepy" to
November 19, 2007 - 15:44 ET by TruthMongerunder 17 is "creepy" to her
gays are not
and her morality must rule, it is "obviously" the right thing
No gays aren't creepy
November 19, 2007 - 17:24 ET by PamGays aren't the least bit creepy to me. At least I can say that I have morals...
that's what I said you
November 19, 2007 - 17:54 ET by TruthMongerthat's what I said you said
I have a few morals myself:)
My opinion?
November 19, 2007 - 17:22 ET by PamI would fight any lawmaker that attempts to lower the age of consent to under 18. As it is, I think 18 is too young, but it is our law.
Pam, what age do you feel is
November 19, 2007 - 18:48 ET by KarmaPam, what age do you feel is the right one, and why?
I think 20 is the right age
November 21, 2007 - 00:13 ET by PamI think under 20 is too young. Kids aren't mature enough to fully appreciate what it is that they are doing...I think that is more so the case with gals than guys. By appreciate, I mean, fully understand virginity, stds, pregnancy, marriage, relationships, self-understanding..We have a generation of kids that have been bombarded with "the sluttier the better"..Pregnant? Abortion is a great birth control...Most of these kids having sex are not doing it in a loving relationship, they are doing it because that's how they think feel someone will like them..I could go on and on.. My point is, that these kids, for the most part, aren't even paying their own way in life, they are dependant on another person to feed, cloth and raise them...
Are you saying 20 then? Not
November 21, 2007 - 08:00 ET by KarmaAre you saying 20 then? Not 19 years and 364 days or 20 years and a day?
}}---> Yo Pam
November 21, 2007 - 08:24 ET by Cool ArrowFor reasons I'm sure most of us would like to dismiss as arcane, our grandmothers married at 15 and 16 years of age.
Could you please expound a little more on this "slut" angle?
Maybe some detail on why the current trend of marry, divorce, desert, remarry is a more excellent approach to relationships.
Age of consent
November 19, 2007 - 18:52 ET by LionKingActually...I am amazed at the age of consent. I believe in a lot of states is 17 and I believe it is 14 in Kentucky.
Balboa beat me to the punch,
November 19, 2007 - 13:50 ET by BruzillaBalboa beat me to the punch, but I'll ask it anyway... how are they of the same behavioral class and why is it reasonable for people to think so? Being an Agnostic, I have no moral axes to grind, so here's my take. Sexual activity is meant for one thing: reproduction. Any sexual activity that could not possibly lead to reproduction (homosexuality, pedophilia, necrophilia, oral coppulation, etc.) is a deviation from the natural order, hence all of these are deviant behaviors. So in the context of being deviants from the natural order I would say they fall into your behavioral grouping.
But what about post-menopausal women? They cannot reproduce, so they also fall into this category, so should they be banned from being a den mother? How about heterosexual men and women who are sterile? All three of these groups are deviants as well, should they be banned?
I did ten years in the Navy, and met A LOT of Lesbians... and I mean A LOT. The service was perfect for them. They could meet in groups, live together, wear butch clothes and have short hair, and no one ever questioned it. I think the reason that the priesthood attracts so many Gays, pedophiles, and other deviants is they have the perfect cover. They can live together, never be seen with a woman, and no one suspects a thing. Does this mean that all women sailors and priests are Gay pedophiles? Of course not.
To me, being a deviant is fine provided you aren't doing anything illegal.
sex with a 9 or 10 year old
November 19, 2007 - 15:47 ET by TruthMongersex with a 9 or 10 year old girl could produce children - so what about that?
my morals come from the Bible, these rules have all been sorted out - according to our creator's design
and actually young girls marrying and polygamy are Biblically OK
gay sex is not - it is a chronic mental disorder in God's view
TruthMonger - Your Toll Plaza is calling!
November 19, 2007 - 18:57 ET by Free StinkerBack to your bridge!
Shoo! Shoo!
can't debate the points?
November 19, 2007 - 19:03 ET by TruthMongercan't debate the points? that's ok - i can wait...
TM...???
November 19, 2007 - 19:09 ET by LionKingWhere in the New Testament does it refer to a man and his wives?
google it... here's a
November 19, 2007 - 19:23 ET by TruthMongergoogle it...
here's a discussion on the topic:
http://www.quransearch.com/ntpoly.htm
let me know what you think!
TM
TM - you made the claim, you
November 19, 2007 - 19:24 ET by Free StinkerTM - you made the claim, you back it up, don't tell someone to Google it.
Quransearch?
November 19, 2007 - 20:01 ET by sunandsteelTexas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
God makes the claim, I'm
November 19, 2007 - 20:20 ET by TruthMongerGod makes the claim, I'm just the messenger - the Bible backs it up - and I'm not pasting the whole Bible on this thread - sorry to disappoint...
TM...you are disgrace
November 19, 2007 - 19:30 ET by LionKingCalling yourself a Christian and referring to an anit-Christian site to support your POV.
Whether God allowed polygamy or not does not mean that was his ultimate intention. It is clear in the New Testament that marriage is between one man and one woman. The reference to the Church being the bride of Christ explains it all.
a disgrace? judge much do
November 19, 2007 - 20:16 ET by TruthMongera disgrace? judge much do ya...?
I can call you an asshole or something too - but it doesn't accomplish anything really - so I won't:)
my link quotes the Bible - i can find a different site to point to the same scripture if you like - or how about this - you look for some of this on your own...
Or feel free to disagree...
Jesus did not come to ban polygamy...He came to fulfill the law, not change it...
Back to your bridge Troll!
November 19, 2007 - 20:25 ET by Free StinkerBack to your bridge Troll!
this is a fine argument -
November 19, 2007 - 21:20 ET by TruthMongerthis is a fine argument - you are good:)
TM...
November 19, 2007 - 20:41 ET by LionKingTell me your actions are not disgraceful. Claiming to be a Christian yet referring to an anit-Christian site.
WHY DON'T YOU FIND THE SCRIPTURES YOURSELF TO SUPPORT YOUR POV?
[You truly have evolved into a troll. You do not even respond to direct questions and have resorted to ad hominem attacks. SAD ]
Why do people always seem
November 19, 2007 - 21:40 ET by TruthMongerWhy do people always seem to expect me to run off to the Library of Congress for extensive study, then commission a think-tank for committee deliberation, and finally deliver a book about my Christianity 101 concepts...?
...you can disagree, it won't kill me, i will still sleep at night - but these points I make are not exactly astrophysics - there was polygamy in the Bible - by major Biblical figures - and Jesus didn't ban it - so I need to do a doctoral dissertation to back that assertion up? Where are the thousands of reems of your data and information backing up your claims?
...for instance: I'm a disgrace...
Care to back that up with extensive research? Or are you just a troll?
TM...grow up
November 19, 2007 - 21:47 ET by LionKingYour actions were disgraceful.
Your whole defense was because it was done that makes it right. How about incest? God allowed incest one time. Does that make it right?
For the record, I disagree with almost everything you spout.
As far as me being a troll, let's not put that up to vote. You would not like the results.
TM...here is one
November 19, 2007 - 20:43 ET by LionKingHere is a link.
Refute those, Mr Fundie!
i am aware - these can't be
November 19, 2007 - 21:26 ET by TruthMongeri am aware - these can't be refuted - too open to interpretation
just like the "arguments for gays" in the Bible due to "erroneous and whacky Greek translations" into English - I can't refute those either - I don't buy it myself of course, but when we want to believe something we usually find a way:)...
I can't change your mind on polygamy if that's your interpretation - it's not better or worse than mine...
how many wives?
November 19, 2007 - 21:29 ET by LionKingHow many wives do you have?
[Do you answer to God's law or the law of man?]
two so far - first one
November 19, 2007 - 21:46 ET by TruthMongeri render unto Ceasar what is his...
two so far - first one "divorced" me (that's a "legal concept" rendered by Ceasar):)...
and i suppose that should be good for another troll accusation:)
or does someone want to insist that I'm a Muslim again?
these are all fine debate points i must admit...
keep em coming:)!
are U a polygamist?
November 19, 2007 - 21:52 ET by LionKingDo you consider yourself a polygamist?
I don't think the
November 19, 2007 - 13:57 ET by Ken ShepherdI don't think the insinuation is that a homosexual man is going to necessarily "molest every young boy he's with."
My point is that when you have young men who are not of age but could be sexually attractive to a male in position of leadership, you can have temptation that shouldn't exist.
It's the same reason why I wouldn't want male heterosexual teachers or coaches from spending too much time alone after class hours with female high school students. Not every heterosexual male teacher is going to make a pass at or sleep with an underaged girl, but fostering the temptation is not a good idea.
Ken, By your logic, no
November 19, 2007 - 14:03 ET by LeonKen,
By your logic, no men should be able to coach highschool girls' sports because of the possibility of temptation.
Seems pretty absurd to me.
That is not what he
November 19, 2007 - 14:47 ET by dvdaughtryThat is not what he said.
Well, for once, the rich white man is in control. --Montgomery Burns
Dv, Perhaps you should
November 19, 2007 - 14:52 ET by LeonDv,
Perhaps you should read it again:
My point is that when you have young men who are not of age but could be sexually attractive to a male in position of leadership, you can have temptation that shouldn't exist.
Now let's just change one words to fit the male coach, female athlete scenario:
My point is that when you have young WOmen who are not of age but could be sexually attractive to a male in position of leadership, you can have temptation that shouldn't exist.
Clearly, it is what he said. It's the same exact argument.
I read it right the first time
November 19, 2007 - 15:09 ET by dvdaughtryYou read it again, and this time don't forget to point out his main point.
It's the same reason why I wouldn't want male heterosexual teachers or coaches from spending too much time alone after class hours with female high school students. Not every heterosexual male teacher is going to make a pass at or sleep with an underaged girl, but fostering the temptation is not a good idea.
He didn't say that their couldn't be the opposite sex in a coaching role, he said there shouldn't be (very much) alone time. Because of the temptation.
Which is certainly what camping trips provide more that youth sports competitions.
Well, for once, the rich white man is in control. --Montgomery Burns
Sounds like you've got an
November 19, 2007 - 14:08 ET by BruzillaSounds like you've got an interesting story about gym camp that you want to get off your chest. :) Just kidding. If we were to adopt your argument, we would be able to send our kids to school after the age of 10.
Again, I disagree
November 19, 2007 - 14:24 ET by PamYou opened with,
Had you added your thoughts on male teachers spending time with female students, your point would have been balanced..
So instead of smearing the
November 19, 2007 - 13:10 ET by Senior ChiefSo instead of smearing the name of this prestigious organization, why not the gay-loving people of America nd their supporters have their own "Gay Scout" jamboree...Suggestions: instead of using Scout, use Brokeback- that's right, Gay Brokeback jamboree, Gay Brokeback camp, Gay Brokeback competition, etc, etc. I won't be disappointed a bit!
Isn't that what the SCOTUS already said?
November 19, 2007 - 13:14 ET by PamThe SCOTUS has decided the case, and Phily is in for a fight it won't win if it tries to force the local chapter to accept gays..that should have been said by the local chapter, but it wasn't..he was too worried about his building...and his don't ask don't tell policy
Sorry Jason...
November 19, 2007 - 13:21 ET by BigFellabut this is a matter of common sense (forget morality for a moment). I was in the Boy Scouts in the early 70's and at one point there was a young assistant scout master (late teens, early 20's) who was very close to all of us. He enjoyed letting us "drive" his car around the neighborhood sitting on his lap. He was also very interested in helping us with first aid. I remember him showing me, in my home, where various pressure points were, including one near the groin, by touching those points, with his voice real low and breathing hard. Of course, I know now what he was doing, but at the time I had no idea. I don't know if his "demonstrations" went further with other boys, but clearly his intentions were sexual in nature. Would you allow your young daughters (if you have any...I do) to go camping with a young male adult (or old for that matter) and sleep in the same tent? Sharing bathroom facilities? Getting dressed and undressed together? Come on. Why would we knowingly let someone put themselves in a setting with that much temptation? We shouldn't allow it for heterosexuals or homosexuals if we can prevent it. To think otherwise is foolish.
Would you allow your son to
November 19, 2007 - 13:27 ET by balboaWould you allow your son to be alone with an adult woman?
Another ridiculous post, balboa
November 19, 2007 - 13:33 ET by RJCount on you to provide nothing to the argument.
Fundamentally there is
November 19, 2007 - 13:36 ET by balboaFundamentally there is nothing different between leaving a child with a homosexual man and a heterosexual woman.
Ridiculous, balboa
November 19, 2007 - 13:42 ET by RJThat's a silly thing to say, and you know it. Let's see you make the argument.
Why is that? Because you
November 19, 2007 - 13:44 ET by balboaWhy is that? Because you think all gays are predisposed to be pedophiles. Not true.
THAT'S your argument, balboa?
November 19, 2007 - 13:55 ET by RJhahahahaha!
I don't see you providing a
November 19, 2007 - 16:51 ET by balboaI don't see you providing a better one.
hahahahahaha.
gays are inherently
November 19, 2007 - 15:51 ET by TruthMongergays are inherently mentally disabled, bal - women, in and of themselves, are not
gay attraction is a disorder, hetero attraction is not
sexuality outside of marriage is wrong - if a man or woman tries to have sex with my boy - it's wrong because it is outside of marriage, the guy also has the gay thing wrong as well...
Boy is that a horrible
November 19, 2007 - 16:52 ET by balboaBoy is that a horrible theory. Gays are mentally disabled? Wow. Here come the Dark Ages!
Bal, Wasn't it TM that
November 19, 2007 - 16:57 ET by LeonBal,
Wasn't it TM that was recently crying and crying over tolerance for muslims?
Apparently he only pushes for tolerance when it gives him a soapbox.
Too funny.
To be honest Leon, he was/is
November 19, 2007 - 17:04 ET by KarmaTo be honest Leon, he was/is pushing for tolerance of Muslims. It seems his intolerance is for terrorists and gays. I see the difference, can you?
I have no idea what you're
November 19, 2007 - 17:05 ET by LeonI have no idea what you're saying.
TM is tolerant of gays?
Uh have you read this thread?
I'm sorry you'll have to clarify.
To be honest Leon, he was/is
November 19, 2007 - 17:09 ET by sunandsteelWhat part of that implied that TM tolerated gays?
Texas has a population of nearly 21 million people, all of whom are ashamed to be from the same state as the Dixie Chicks. (IMAO.us)
The part where I read it
November 19, 2007 - 17:14 ET by LeonThe part where I read it wrong.
Ha sorry about that. My apologies. I read it as tolerance, not intolerance.
I just don't see how he can push so hard for tolerance for Muslims and not gays considering his general argument seems to be that we have to respect the beliefs/behaviors of others.
Or are you saying that gays are the equivalent in the straight population as terrorists are in the Muslim population?
you are confused
November 19, 2007 - 17:38 ET by TruthMongeryou are confused leon...
i was pushing against religous defamation
incidentally I "tolerate" gays more than you do - tolerance is about putting up with something you don't like - and so to be a fundie in modern America is the very definition of being tolerant
Sexual deviance for mankind is defined by mankind's creator - God - and is defined in His word - anything outside of marriage is a no-no - it's bad for us, unhealthy, and does damage - He often does not say how or why - frustrating I know - but we must take it on faith that He knows what he's talking about...
Kinda like when I tell my kid not to eat dirt - he doesn't know any better right now - and we are God's children - on many things we also don't know any better right now...
tolerating vs condoning
November 19, 2007 - 17:42 ET by LionKingPeople can tolerate others without necessarily endorsing their sins.
Again it is: Love the sinner, hate the sin.
exactly - but this takes
November 19, 2007 - 17:56 ET by TruthMongerexactly - but this takes intelligence to understand - it ain't easy being fundie
Sorry about misrepresenting
November 19, 2007 - 19:17 ET by KarmaSorry about misrepresenting your stance TM. The "it seems he does not tolerate gays and terrorists" were my words, not yours, and a poor choice of words in hindsight.
i thought you did just fine
November 19, 2007 - 20:23 ET by TruthMongeri thought you did just fine actually:) thanks for helping out...
the truth sounds more and
November 19, 2007 - 17:41 ET by TruthMongerthe truth sounds more and more horrible the farther you move away from it:) - in Satan's world the truth actually has a repugnant stench to it...
everyone is sinfully disabled - some worse than others - God's law not mine...
No double standard
November 19, 2007 - 13:36 ET by BigFellaWould you allow your son to be alone with an adult woman?
Absolutely not.
So then the problem is with
November 19, 2007 - 13:46 ET by LeonSo then the problem is with the age difference, not the sexual orientation.
Well said.
Nope
November 19, 2007 - 14:03 ET by BigFellaSo then the problem is with the age difference, not the sexual orientation.
Leon,
The problem is with both and it is obvious as to why.
That's about the nuttiest,
November 19, 2007 - 15:13 ET by BruzillaThat's about the nuttiest, most paranoid, thing I've ever read! Do you know that about 80% of elementary and secondary school teachers are women? How about nurses? So your son's teacher tells your son to stay late one day for one reason or another and the "boing, chicka, chicka" music starts. Or the nurse takes you son to get him ready to see the doctor and "boing, chicka, chicka..." Or your nice married neighbor needs help unloading her car, so you send junior over to help and ""boing, chicka, chicka..."
And I thought kids were the ones who get goofy ideas about reality from watching too much TV! :)
Ah yes... there's always
November 19, 2007 - 13:59 ET by BruzillaAh yes... there's always that "that one guy..." story... the exception that proves the rule for some people. "I knew this guy once who offered me candy to play with his flesh popcicle, and I've never been able to go into the frozen confectionaries section again." These stories are the grounds for countless false beliefs and that's much sadder than what happened to the story teller.
One guy?
November 19, 2007 - 14:10 ET by BigFellaIf there is "always "that one guy...", maybe it isn't just one guy. Duh...
And I didn't make that leap, you did. I was just providing a real life example from my experience to illustrate why it might make sense to keep those who are attracted to males from being left alone with males in situations where intimate access is readily available. The nature of Boy Scout activities provides those situations.
You seem like a reasonable
November 19, 2007 - 14:19 ET by BruzillaYou seem like a reasonable kind of guy bigfella, so let me ask you this: based on your personal experience, and since you must have worked with many other scout leaders if you were a scout, is it reasonable to extrapolate that A: the guy you mentioned was a pedophile; B: All scout leaders are pedophiles? I would assume you went with A. So why would you find it reasonable to say that based on your experience, all homosexuals are pedophiles?
Reasonable?
November 19, 2007 - 14:51 ET by BigFellaBru,
Things aren't always what they seem. And your putting words in my keyboard.
You're right... things
November 19, 2007 - 15:01 ET by BruzillaYou're right... things aren't always what they seem... and that's my point. You can take your personal experience, and draw a conclusion that there's a good chance that the nice, young, guy who's a scoutleader is a pedophile. I can take my personal experiences and look at the same guy and say there's a good chance that he's not. Both cases could be referred to as bias, and either of us could end up being right, but I don't see either of our odds of being right being high enough to deny someone a job as a scoutmaster or scout leader.
Come on Bruzilla, The
November 19, 2007 - 15:17 ET by BigFellaCome on Bruzilla,
The only conclusion I drew was that this guy put his hands on me intentionally and the fact that he was in a position of authority in the Boy Scouts gave him access and opportunity. You are comparing a hypothetical situation to a real one to accuse me of bias. You are incorrect sir. My "odds on being right" about what I experienced were 100%. This guy definitely should NOT have been left alone with Boys Scouts. I am not even sure why you would use that line of reasoning in reference to an actual occurrence.
If the Scouts are
November 19, 2007 - 14:01 ET by MidAmericaIf the Scouts are forced by a court to accept openly gay leaders the Scouts shouild adopt a 'sting' policy to flush out innapropriate behavior. Families of affected individual scouts should sue for all the peds worldly assets and the Scouting orginization should press charges to put him/her in prison for a long time. That should help cool their desire for Scouting.
Can't you read?
November 19, 2007 - 14:17 ET by PamThe SCOTUS already decided this..lower courts can't overrule them..a city can not force the Scouts to accept gays into their organization.
Force can be applied in
November 19, 2007 - 14:28 ET by MidAmericaForce can be applied in many ways. The Supreme Court only decided one issue.
One Issue?
November 19, 2007 - 14:47 ET by PamIt decided the issue for which we speak today..the BSOA are a private organization that can exclude gays from being members...The SCOTUS can not be overturned on this ruling by some city..
At issue is the city of Philly and the building...They may or may not be able to evict the scouts, but they can't force them to accept gays as members.
Well sure, and the law
November 19, 2007 - 15:27 ET by MidAmericaWell sure, and the law says you don't have to give me your money nor can I legally force you to do so. But I can 'convince' you you to do so by 'other' means of persuasion. Boy Scouts can be denied all sorts of rights and priveleges without being directly forced to accept gays.
That's just silly
November 19, 2007 - 16:39 ET by PamIt is a privilage to get that building for a $1.00 a year and if they actually fought this, they would win their case. Instead, you have this:
Jeff Jubelirer, a spokesman for Cradle of Liberty, said the chapter, hoping to save its historic headquarters, had sought to renounce an affiliation with the national policy when the dispute with the city arose in 2003.
"We were trying to be amenable to all sides, but National would not allow us to keep that language, so we rescinded it. We can't have a policy where we put in specific words that National won't allow or we'll loose our charter. We can't afford not to be part of the national Boy Scouts," he said.
Why is this person affiliated with the Scouts?
This whole debate is insane!
November 19, 2007 - 14:12 ET by MightyMouthBeing a Boy Scout isn't about sex, it's about CAMPING! ...Among other fun "boy" things.
For God's sake, does "gayness" have to permiate EVERY frigin' aspect of life in America?!?
Leave the Boy Scouts alone! And if Philly want's to deny the use of a building...So what!! The Scouts ought to tell em to: "stick it we'll find a nice church or somewhere else to hold meetings".
And another thing, anyone here who thinks the Boy Scouts should be integrated with "gay members" is an IDIOT!! Simple and plain!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
Mighty Mouth that's the
November 19, 2007 - 14:58 ET by The Wicked ConservativeMighty Mouth that's the most cogent argument on this entire thread. For Pete's sake sexual orientation has absolutely no place in the scouts. This is the results of the militant gay crowd, (not all of them), who want to destroy anything that doesn't bow before the altar of homosexuality. Do you really think that many gay men just want to go camping with the boys? I doubt it's more than a few and only a small percantage of those few would even consider the possibility of doing it for sexual gratification. This is part of a political movement. The BSA's have stood up and said NO! and the militant homo movement can not let that stand.
"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life." Winston Churchill
Thank you Wicked, I am
November 19, 2007 - 15:05 ET by MightyMouthThank you Wicked, I am convinced that the introduction of sex and sexual orientation into childhood is one of the most insidious and destructive things the liberals have accomplished. Let em' be kids for God's sake! There will plenty of time to handle adult themes once they are adults!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
I was wondering about this
November 19, 2007 - 15:05 ET by BruzillaI was wondering about this very point. I've worked with a lot of Gay guys, and they weren't exactly the outdoors type. I really believe that all the recent push for Gays to be included in the BSA isn't about a desire to camp with boys but rather just because someone's telling them they can't do something.
I have a lesbian aunt who
November 19, 2007 - 14:20 ET by LeonI have a lesbian aunt who is a renowned child therapist.
I'm 100% positive that her sexual orientation has not come up once in the course of treating her patients.
Should she be banned from working with young girls b/c as a homosexual she's 'obivously' predisposed to pedophilia?
This is what you all are arguing about the boy scouts. I'd be willing to bet my aunt's clients would disagree with all of you.
Leon you dope. We are
November 19, 2007 - 14:25 ET by MightyMouthLeon you dope. We are talking about boys not girls. If you had a pair you'd know the difference. Your analogy sucks!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
What's the difference? So
November 19, 2007 - 14:27 ET by LeonWhat's the difference?
So not all lesbians are pedophiles, but all gay men are pedophiles?
I'm not following your logic.
What's the difference?
November 19, 2007 - 14:35 ET by MightyMouthSo you don't... have a pair that is...
No surprise.
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
MM, Still not following
November 19, 2007 - 14:38 ET by LeonMM,
Still not following your logic.
You make absolutely zero sense.
How many pedophiles are
November 19, 2007 - 14:46 ET by MightyMouthHow many pedophiles are women? And 25 year old hot teachers who fulfill the fanasies of lucky 15 year old adolescent boys don't count.
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
Uh MM, YES they do
November 19, 2007 - 14:49 ET by LeonUh MM,
YES they do count. There are plenty of pedophile women.
Why do you think that doesn't count? That's a pretty disturbing outlook on life.
WOW. I'd try to help you to rationalize your irrational thoughts, but that would be impossible.
Forgive me...
November 19, 2007 - 14:55 ET by MightyMouthI was speaking from experience. I was once 15 AND (unlike you ) I have a pair.
Your analogy still sucks and it sucks even more than it did 20 minutes ago. In fact it's gonna suck twice as much 40 minutes from now. So give it up Leon.
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
Why do you even come
November 19, 2007 - 14:57 ET by LeonWhy do you even come here? Do you enjoy embarassing yourself?
You sound like you don't have a rational thought in your head.
You lost the argument when you claimed a teacher having sex with a student isn't pedophilia simply b/c the teacher is a woman.
So stupid.
she is a chronically
November 19, 2007 - 15:54 ET by TruthMongershe is a chronically sexually-diseased person, mentally speaking, counseling others - it's the same to me leon
peds could counsel successfully in a similar manner - and probably do I'm sure, peds are all around us right now doing highly professional work
You guys share a loose
November 19, 2007 - 16:08 ET by MightyMouthYou guys share a loose screw :-/
The occasional "molestation" of a 15 year old lucky (and that word doesn't even begin to cover it) adolescent by a hot 25 year old happens so rarely that it grabs the headlines.
The run-of-the-mill boy buggery is what we are talking about here. And that happens by MEN on BOYS. There aren't pedophiles behind every tree and even if there were, they are NOT WOMEN!
Get real!!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
peds are all around you
November 19, 2007 - 17:46 ET by TruthMongerpeds are all around you right now - and you do business with them...
So are murders, rapists,
November 19, 2007 - 17:54 ET by MightyMouthSo are murders, rapists, theives, liars.
WRT pedophiles.. they are mostly MALE. That's my point. Now there may be the ocassional 25 yr old hot female teacher here and there, but haven't come across them yet. :-)
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
Mightymouth, you might want
November 19, 2007 - 15:15 ET by BruzillaMightymouth, you might want to take a look at your local or state sex offenders list. I used to think that female pedophiles were few and far between, but there are a lot of them out there.
Really?
November 19, 2007 - 15:22 ET by MightyMouthWhich has what to do with the Boy Scouts? Are any of them "Den Mothers"? Can you be more specific? Perhaps a link?
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
If sex was put in its
November 19, 2007 - 15:13 ET by dvdaughtryIf sex was put in its proper place, first between male and female then, in the sanctity of marraige, this would be moot.
Well, for once, the rich white man is in control. --Montgomery Burns
Amen:)
November 19, 2007 - 16:32 ET by TruthMongerAmen:)
Males, whether Gay or
November 19, 2007 - 16:03 ET by alamojbMales, whether Gay or Straight, are by nature more challenged by monogamy than are females. Males can also see Sex as purely physical, non relationship oriented more easily than females. I realize the loosesness of the younger females in this generation seems to challenge this, but even many of them will admit they are looking for "real love". There is an old saying that "men use romance to get sex and women use sex to get romance." I think there is a fair amount of truth to that. Worldwide, the concept of a harem of females is far more common than the opposite, I forget the name at the moment, where a single female has multiple male spouses.
It is no accident that gay males were the first group to get hardest hit by Aids in the U.S. Take monogomasly challenged males, change the object of their affections from (previously) selective females and replace it with other monogomasly challenged males and you have the grounds for a group of people with far more "sexual partners" than their heterosexual counterparts.
So what is left to prevent children from being targeted? A law?
The boy scouts have made a good decision to oppose gays in their ranks.
I would not want to see adult males (straight of gay) as unsupervised chaperons for girl scouts, either. We have already seen the consequences of this with coaches and teachers. This is why schools need to have very specific policies en regards to one on one tutoring of students by teachers, male or female.
As far as female teachers targeting males students, this seems to be a rather recent trend. That could probably be blamed on the overall loosing of morals.
"Free love" is starting to show its consequences in even new ways.
Gay ain't a birthright,
November 19, 2007 - 16:24 ET by wiwfGay ain't a birthright, it's a choice. Those who still think otherwise need to get their head out of the sand and do some research and THINK ABOUT IT.
I fully support all things BSA, being a former scout. Philly is definitely being Anti-scout, something (the Boy Scouts) that has shaped young men for almost a century.
The Rocky Mountain Collegian: Illustrating Idiocy
I hate to be the voice of
November 19, 2007 - 17:24 ET by MightyMouthI hate to be the voice of reason here, but doesn't this all boil down to how you define a "Sexaul Deviant"?
I haven't done a poll, nor do I have a link, but I am pretty sure that 99.99% of the world would identify "sodomy" as sexually deviant.
Therefore it seems not too un-realistic that the Boy Scouts wouldn't want sexaul deviants as leaders, especially self confessed deviants.
Just a thought.... (or am I opening another can of worms?)
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
MM, So are you arguing
November 19, 2007 - 17:28 ET by LeonMM,
So are you arguing that 99.9% of the straight world doesn't have anal sex?
Um, perhaps you're not very adventorous, but sodomy is prevelant in the straight community, whether the couple is dating or married.
If the boy scouts don't want sodomites then they best start monitoring the bedrooms of all of their straight leaders and their wives.
Hook line and sinker.
November 19, 2007 - 17:35 ET by MightyMouthI knew you would respond that way. Here's the answer:
Let's say I am wrong and only 98% of the world has straight sex(only). Still pretty compelling, yes?
Secondly, we KNOW gay males are sodomites, if you're keeping track that is 100%. Sooooooo logically if a gay guy wants to be a scout leader there is a 100% chance he is a sexual deviant. Prove me wrong.
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
God's word defines sexual
November 19, 2007 - 17:47 ET by TruthMongerGod's word defines sexual deviance - anything outside of marriage
But we are talking about
November 19, 2007 - 17:56 ET by MightyMouthBut we are talking about Boy Scouts and Gay guys here. Save us "standard" sinners for another debate.
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
Telling me what and what
November 19, 2007 - 18:02 ET by TruthMongerTelling me what and what not to say...? Man, did I get reemed by the free speech crowd here for that over the last two weeks...
You're free to say what you
November 19, 2007 - 18:06 ET by MightyMouthYou're free to say what you want TM. Just keep in mind that if you try to compare fornicators to pedophiles I think you're going to have a tough hill to climb!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
I'm not doing it - God does
November 19, 2007 - 18:24 ET by TruthMongerI'm not doing it - God does it - i'm just the messenger:)
Mighty...
November 19, 2007 - 23:52 ET by MrShyAre you one of those perverted..... don't say it..... fornicators??
"MY end justifies THAT mean." - Shakespeare (not really)
Not anymore thank
November 21, 2007 - 08:58 ET by MightyMouthNot anymore thank God!
"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...
I am very conservative and
November 19, 2007 - 17:42 ET by Mike SI am very conservative and my brother is gay, so I have a little perspective from both sides. We seem to be arguing around the problem (and throwing in a lot of insults, which doesn't help.)
The basic issue is that parents don't want to send their kids on a camping trip with anyone who is defined by their sexuality. Whether it is a stripper or a very openly gay man, it is the fact that they are defined by their sexuality that makes it inappropriate for an overnight trip with children. I tend to think of my brother in this situation, and think that he would be a great scout leader. Other parents tend to think of a gay pride parade (I don't blame them - that is the public face of homosexuality.)
I think the Boy Scouts should address their concerns without an outright ban on gays (camping leaders must be a parent of a child on the trip, or at least two adults on each trip or other rules, etc.) But I don't think the government has any role in pressuring them to change their rules.
I also think this is the wrong battle for the gay community. Parents are extremely protective of their children, and immediately imagine the worst case scenario in every situation. As a funny example of this, I attended a parents' meeting at my daughter's school before an overnight field trip. One question from the parents was, 'are any doctors going on the trip?' The answer was yes, there were three doctor-parents who were going as chaperones on the trip (it's a private school.) I thought this was beyond overkill as an answer to our first aid concerns, but the very next question was, 'what are the specialties of the doctors?' Several of us were laughing out loud when the three doctors had to stand up and announce their specialties as oncology, psychology and OB-GYN.
It's the wrong battle for philly
November 19, 2007 - 20:49 ET by PamIs it really the gays that are fighting this though? It appears to be the city council. I really think that the council wants that building back and they are trying to pawn this off as a gay vs BSA issue...As far as the law goes, the BSA is not in violation of the law and the city knows this...
Sorry, Mike S, but having a gay brother
November 19, 2007 - 21:18 ET by RJ...gives you no perspective on Boy Scouts.
As I said elsewhere, BSA says "no homosexuals", but they don't ask or look for them, and there are many in Scouting at all levels.
Parents accompany their sons on campouts? Sure, in Cub Scouts....as is required. (BTW that removes most opportunities for pedophiles in Cub Scouts, so we're left with older Boy Scouts, and is that really pedophilia?) In Boy Scouts, the adventure of going out on their own without parents looking over their shoulder is a major attraction and an opportunity to grow in confidence.
Two adults on a trip? BSA already has a "two on" rule that requires at least two adults in all situations. However, adhering to it varies.
But your point about leaders not being defined by their sexuality is excellent.
Gays and Boy Scouts
November 19, 2007 - 17:59 ET by LionKingThe basic question is this: Why would a gay man want to be part of the Boy Scouts?
Boys Scouts promotes family and strongly encourages parental involvement. I do not see a lot of interest from single men in the Boy Scouts.
Hmmm LionKing.... now,
November 19, 2007 - 23:49 ET by MrShyHmmm LionKing.... now, let's look at that. Why would....... (scratches head)
yes, sarc is now turned off (and I hate using sarc, but too tempting here)
"MY end justifies THAT mean." - Shakespeare (not really)
Libs and simple questions
November 20, 2007 - 12:58 ET by LionKingWhy do liberals have trouble even answering the most basic of questions?