Yeah, I believe eHarmony said they are working on adding homosexual couple-matching to their site but that the data for making those personality matches isn't reliable yet.

I followed the "discriminates against gays" link and found this:

"Warren, a psychologist, told NPR's Terry Gross a couple of years ago that "I don't know exactly what the dynamics are [with gay couples]...We've done a deep amount of research on about 5,000 married people, but never on people who are same-sex. So we don't know how to do that, and we think the principles probably are different, and so we've never chosen to do it." He noted later in the interview that "same-sex marriage in this country is largely illegal at this time, and we do try to match people for marriage."

"Warren seems like a sweet guy in those ads, but this line of reasoning is transparently convenient: gays are just such an exotic and curious people, why, I could never understand them! And anyway their relationships are illegal — so best to ignore them completely"

I don't know Dr. Warren from a hole in the wall, but from their commercials, I know that eHarmony is trying to create a scientific method to find people its customers are likely to be compatible with.  If you don't have research on same-sex compatibility, it's kind of difficult to come up with a compatibility model for same-sex matchmaking.  Why is that so hard for the gay lobby to understand?

And "their relationships" are not illegal, they just can't get married.

"Which is silly: of course it discriminates, in the most basic sense of the term — it doesn't allow gays to use its site!"

Why would gays want to use a site that can't offer the same research-backed compatibility matching for same-sex couples that it does for heterosexual couples?  How exactly is eHarmony supposed to match gay couples?  And doesn't eHarmony have the right to decide who it's target customers are?  Oh wait, we're talking about liberals here.  Of course they don't understand or recognize the right of free association.  Silly me.

"There are also many gay sites like gay.com and connexion.org, some of which could easily be charged with reverse discrimination. For instance, please visit manhunt.net for a second. I just did, and the main page says there are "OVER 21,739 MEN ONLINE NOW!" Manhunt offers nothing for straight men. Maybe my heterosexual brother should file a class-action lawsuit."

My point exactly.

If you're not outraged at the media, you haven't been paying attention.

If you have been divorced or a child of divorce, sites like this greatly help in weeding out unsuitable people and those who are predators.  eHarmony fills a need for some people who want to avoid the basic causes of divorce.   I don't blame them, being a divorced person I can understand their wanting to find the right person for a lifetime committment. Just because someone wants to be married doesn't mean they are cut out for married life, and sparing someone, i.e. the other person, from getting stuck with someone who is not marriage material.

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane"