CosmoGirl! Should Stick to Lip Gloss, Not Muddled Religion

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By Colleen Raezler | April 19, 2008 - 17:21 ET

CosmoGirl! magazine is a great resource to find out which lip gloss looks best with your prom dress, but it fails miserably as a religious guide. In the May 2008 article "Religion by Design," author Marina Khidekel does not give any indication that she understands the essence of religion: the acknowledgement of a Being greater than the individual, the community, and any earthly concern, who revealed His will to humanity in holy books.

Instead, Khidekel reduces religion to personal preference, endorsing the phenomenon of teens moving away from the organized religion of their families and creating their own belief systems by picking bits from various religions and philosophies, whatever makes them feel good.

Dubbed "Starbucks spirituality," these mix-and-match beliefs could contain "a shot of Catholicism, a sprinkle of Buddhism, a pinch of Hindu teachings – or whatever else [teens] are in the mood for that day."

Lynn Schofield Clark, a sociologist and professor at the University of Denver, told Khidekel that people "are disenchanted with organized religion, but they’re not ready to distance themselves from religious experiences. They still want to be able to transcend the concerns of everyday life." Jenn, 18, summed up the whole idea of mix-and-match religion when she stated, "I’m into both Wiccan and Buddhist philosophies, but I’m also reading the Bible. I feel like I’ll always be discovering what beliefs are right for me [emphasis added]."

Khidekel concludes, "In the end it doesn’t matter how you work through the questions that life prompts – the fact that you are searching is a healthy sign. Everyone needs to feel empowered to explore whatever makes them feel happy, peaceful, and connected, whether it’s in a place of worship or elsewhere."

Most religions seek to find favor with a deity in a heaven, not necessarily happiness here on earth. So how can mix-and-match religion be a religion at all if the basic principle is "be happy?" And no liberal media article on religion is complete without attacks on Christianity.

Three of the six teens quoted by Khidekel were once Christian but are now currently dabbling in other religions like Judaism and shamanism, or Eastern mystical beliefs such as feng shui and karma. Khidekel also included a barb against Christianity’s stance on homosexuality. Charlotte, 16, told Khidekel she "used to be a Christian" but stopped attending church when she found herself "so offended by how judgmental [her] church could be" on the issue of homosexuality.

Only one teen supported the idea of organized religion, telling Khidekel that her Jewish faith "has given [her her] values and defines a lot of who [she is]." Khidekel apparently could not find any non-Christian teens who decided to embrace Christian principles or Christian teens who are proud to be Christians.

Perhaps CosmoGirl! should stick to the articles on lip gloss. On fashion and beauty, the magazine is a reliable source.

—Colleen Raezler is a research assistant at the Culture and Media Institute

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Not only lipgloss for the prom...

Colleen,

Perhaps CosmoGirl! should stick to the articles on lip gloss. On fashion and beauty, the magazine is a reliable source.

...and other sundries for after the prom...

http://www.cosmogirl...

Informative reporting!

Syrius

 

"...the dire consequences to society when people begin to believe that by
renaming someone to erase their humanity opens the door to the
devaluation of everyone's life..."-dscott

 

Ahhh, the wisdom of the

Ahhh, the wisdom of the youth of America...

I completely dissagree with the person below me. You sound errogant. Carrying condoms is a personel dicision. If you guy has a" no condom bringing" record. Then you SHOULD keep one with you. What happens if you go to a party, and get wasted? A gut is offering sex, you take it, but wait, he doesn't have a condom, NO PROBLEM, you do. I think it's smart to, just in case.

This is what happens when

This is what happens (no, not the condom stuff) when parents don't "bring kids up" in a religion (because a lot of them don't have one) and leave the kids to "decide" when they get old enough. I disagree with their contention that teens are "moving away from the religion of their families." I would be willing to bet that the kids who are dreaming up their own belief systems are the ones whose parents belong to a church in name only...they are not active, participating members, and go to church rarely, if at all.

We brought our kids up as practicing Catholics, Mass every Sunday and holy day, sacraments etc. We know a lot of Catholic familiies, who also go to Mass regularly and are genuine practicing Catholics. I don't know a single family in the last three parishes we have been members of (we moved for job reasons) or in the Catholic schools our daughter attended, whose kids started looking at Buddhism or Wicca or anything like that.

 

Cultural Christianity

I've always liked Patrick Morley's interpretation of the Starbucks Spirituality:

"Cultural Christianity means to pursue the God we want instead of the God who is. It is the tendency to be shallow in our understanding of God, wanting Him to be more of a gentle grandfather type who spoils us and lets us have our own way. It is sensing a need for God, but on our own terms. It is wanting the God we have underlined in our Bibles without wanting the rest of Him, too. It is God relative instead of God absolute."

In other words, God exists to grant us peace and affluence to prove He loves us. The burden is on Him, not us. It's not surprising we have a whole new crop of youngsters cherry-picking their beliefs and values based on thier own personal preferences. After all, they've been raised under the "whatever makes you happy" mantra, so why would religion be any different?

The Funniest Relious Moment of the last twenty years

Legend has it that the Dalai Lama, on a trip through California, was reduced to tears at the following question from a college student at Berkeley:

"Yes, but what is the fastest way to enlightenment?"