Why is bigtimer allowed to make racial slurs? (and just generally make herself disagreeable)

Photo of choselife3x.

*Original title back due to popular demand.*

Conclusion: Some cows ARE more sacred than others!

*Thank you all for participating in this study. Now I know who the closet racists, moral relativists, annnnd moral cowards are. A side benefit was discovering just how many people rush to comment on something they have neither read, nor researched by following links. Fascinating. It was quite enlightening to see how few people really care about the truth. No wonder the Left accuses conservatives of a lack of 'intellectual curiosity'. I will no longer laugh when I hear that accusation.*

 

Last week Rexdraconim and I worked to expose a couple of dKos plants that were sabotaging this site and it's message. After days of research and compiling evidence it was posted on the Open Thread last Thursday.

It was met with: this is nothing new.”, and " we all know about trolls Nancy Drew", and " I am moving on to matters that really matter, and you are not one of them.", you don't need to tell me what is going on with the enemy within...I know.

BT‘s assertions of ‘nothing new‘ and ‘knowing all about it‘ suddenly switched to: “you are wrong” the next day, apparently because dborschjr68/CTPatriot (the 3 year member of HuffPo and Kos) registered on some conservatives sites (though apparently he is not registered anymore) in December. He says he’s been doing recon work for over three years in order to prepare for the Dem’s takeover in Congress and the upcoming Obama administration. I recommend we all e-mail him to see if his magical powers can be applied to state lotteries and horse races. 

Rexdraconim stood by me through all of this because he believes in the importance of the truth. He believes in honor. In integrity. And in loyalty to principle.


Rex-
We have to make sure that the informational and communication integrity of NB is maintained for the benefit of all.

We rely on honesty, and the Left knows nothing of it.  To encourage honesty, ethics and such in ourselves, each other and our children is an excellent step towards the restoration of America as a Free Nation.

The last thing Conservatives need to do is ignore the importance of communication.  the Leftist understand communication full well and have used it effectively, for a long time.  Open, clear, integral communication is key to promote your ideas and educate the audience.
Bigtimer dismisses me by going on to "matters that matter." Does communication, clear and honest, not matter to bigtimer?  Communication is the key component to political success.

We are who we choose to be.
If we choose to tolerate dishonesty, then we encourage dishonesty.
Just because the internet gives people the power to be dishonest, it doesn't make it right.  Such absurd moral equivalency is supposed to exist only on the Left. This is a simple thing.  The fact that the internet can be used as an excuse for such behavior shows just how far the Leftists have gone to relegate good ethics to irrelevancy.  We do not and should not tolerate it, on the internet or off.
People are free to allow all the dishonesty and be as dishonest as they choose.  Others of us choose not to let go of our value and faith in honesty, in any medium,
we ourselves have the power and right to encourage honesty, insist on it.

These words of BT’s I find quite ironic:


Give credit where credit is due, instead of the constant attacks, like children.
We have a war to fight to gain back this country...we should be doing this together.

Considering they were promptly followed by:


rex... You need to really
May 7, 2009 - 23:19 ET by bigtimer
rex... You need to really go back into that tent and smoke some more of that the Peace Pipe...what happened to your Dr. Phil persona? 
I'm Indian too...you need to relax and admit you were wrong Big Chief.
Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

{She’s “Indian too”. Apparently that means that I could call one of our posters a “n****r” and tell him to “go back to the fields and chop some cotton” as long as I claim “I’m black too”, and the admins would be fine with that. Or perhaps some cows are more sacred than others.}


Rex-
As a Conservative, as a Free Man, I have been disappointed by this site's tolerance and endorsement of not only racist remarks but also religion-bashing remarks.  Such behaviors are the realm of the Leftist, not ours.  What good is it to claim differences when we shown none to the world?
These things demean and weaken the Conservative message.  When I have pointed them out in the past, many here at NB have been quick to call the person on their hate.  This is a good thing.  Many other times, it goes unanswered, not only by commentators, but by NB management as well.
Bigtimer will continue to bluster, others may jump in as well, but I ask all you Conservatives out there that actually believe in out Nation, believe in morals and ethics, to consider her words very carefully and ask yourself....
What does this say about Conservatives?
Am I satisfied that this person considers herself a good representative of Conservatism?
Her remarks are in poor taste and as classless as they come.  I am not offended for myself, but for my people, my family, my Ancestors and my Descendants.  Her remarks are filth, hateful and unacceptable.

BT further mocked him-

Careful now rex...
You

May 8, 2009 - 01:44 ET by bigtimer

Careful now rex...

You are showing your true colors.

Think those men in little white coats...haha...hoho...hehe.

Simple me...you're pisssed because I didn't fall into your trap.

Too bad...so sad.   ;-) 

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart


Awe come on Dr. Phil...calm
May 8, 2009 - 01:58 ET by bigtimer
Awe come on Dr. Phil...calm down some...
You've been so busy telling us all how we are supposed to post with love and good-will... I'm not feelin' the love here.

rex...
Mock you?
It

May 8, 2009 - 01:21 ET by bigtimer

rex...

Mock you?

It is time for the meds.

Like I said, I saw through you a long time ago.

Time to look into you with diligence.

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

Rex-
It doesn't change one thing about the truth of this guy being bad news.  People can read, people can see and people can choose to face the truth.  You won't stop them, and it is disgusting what your attitude and approach to this work of CL3X has been, right from the start.
If I am wrong, I will admit it, and harpies like you will climb all over me, too.  If I am right, you will never admit it.  It would take more courage and honesty than you can muster.

Ohhh shut-up rex...you
May 8, 2009 - 02:44 ET by bigtimer
Ohhh shut-up rex...you long-winded drone.

 

Rexdraconim stood up for the truth and defended the integrity of this site. In return, he was viciously attacked by a poster here and his race, creed, faith, and honor were maligned.

Is this okay with you? Is Bigtimer's behavior accepted or condoned by you? Do you want to know why she was allowed to get by with this behavior when other posters have been banned for racial slurs? 

I want her to publicly apologize to Rexdraconim for the racial slur and retract her implication that he is dishonest. If you agree with that, please speak up. We are no better than Kos or DU if we allow such behavior to stand unchallenged.


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Good morning chose

I would agree that there is no room for racism on NB.

He had my vote

~Thank you

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

and PARTNER WITH ISLAM:)!!

and PARTNER WITH ISLAM:)!! woo-hoo...

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=truthmonger+partner+with+islam+newsbusters&aq=f&oq=

Mormons rock too

your "fundie" pal,

TM

Palin/Prejean 2012

I agree Shawn. As I

I agree Shawn.

As I recall seejay got banned for bigoted remarks.  ANd a good thing too!

good luck chose

You know how I feel about all of this and how I'm with you and rex. Hope something good comes out of it.

 

~Me too

I will stand up for what is right, regardless.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

Regardless of who it

Regardless of who it involves?

Then I'm assuming I missed your insistent call for rex to apologize to bigtimer for calling her a fool, and stupid, and dishonest...since you insisted that  she withdraw her implication that he was dishonest. Yeah, I finally had time to really look at that thread.  And you know what?  Rex gave as good as he got.  

Had you shut your yap, the argument would have ended after they both had their say, and that would have been it. They both got in some good digs.

So in the end, this really was all about YOU.

 

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~Who's yapping here?

If you think I'm butting in, what are you doing? So now you admit that you only just now read through the thread you've been running off at the mouth about? Did you go look at the Open Thread where the exchange began? Face it, you will never admit the simple truth that BT had an ugly attitude from the get-go.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

YOU started this forum, and

YOU started this forum, and invited people to comment.  So no one who comments here is "butting in."

I didn't read the offending remarks before because from the beginning, my point was that YOU were going around the administrators and trying to get everyone to publicly condemn someone for something said in a thread.  

YOU demanded an apology from bigtimer on behalf of rex.  I'm simply pointing out your hypocrisy in demanding that while you let rex get away with calling bigtimer stupid, a fool, and dishonest. Didn't you demand that she withdraw her contention that he was dishonest????? Do I have that wrong?

But  you have set yourself as the judge and jury, and decided that bigtimer's remarks were worse. I'm still not arguing about bigtimer's remarks.  I'm talking about YOUR over-inflated ego in setting yourself up as the hero and savior of Newsbusters. You even extrapolated, that the administrators would apparently be OK with a black person calling another black person a nigger. (The irony of rap not withstanding)

But YOU, of course wouldn't stand for that, and would sound the call to arms. How fortunate we are, administrators included, to have you here to take care of us.

Your thread "warning" everyone about the "plants" from KOS, complete with

ATTENTION NEWSBUSTERS STAFF, MEMBERS AND READERS 

and your agaonizingly long description of your heroic "detective work" was the first indication. Yes, I know, you are just "concerned" about the integrity of "your" blog.

This is a blog, not a life. If in spite of a husband and three kids you still have all that time on your hands, why don't you start your own blog?  Then you can be the boss of everyone.

Update: I see you still haven't answered why you haven't insisted that rex  apologize to bt for calling her stupid and dishonest.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

I stayed away long enough.

   motherbelt,

   Please let it go. I am busy pounding on trolls. I haven't slept a decent nights sleep since shortly after the Iraq war started because I argue with ghosts. ghosts in the MSM. ghosts here. I have said enough 50 friggin times. But I keep coming back because I care about my country. And gawd dammit, a retired vet still has to combat sumtin even if it is media bias.

  Please, I don't want us pounding on each other. Can we drop this?

Sincerely,

a Veteran of a 1000 psychic wars.

JWF, I respect your service

JWF, I respect your service and thank you for it, and  I know what it's like to never have a good night's sleep (and that's all I'll say about it) so you have my sympathy on that.

 I simply pointed out choselife's hypocrisy (which is where you hopped in).

I care about my country too, but I didn't start this forum (anyway, I thought that's what the forums were for). As long as we're not derailing threads, I don't see a problem. And I'll steal from choselife and say that if someone set up a forum for the purpose of hounding you, I would do the same. It's classless of any poster here to set up a forum for the purpose of lining up sides or ganging up on a poster.  My point was never the comments, it was cl's arrogance in asking people to proclaim themselves against bigtimer (she was annoyed that the administrators didn't ban her).  She then renamed the thread and labelled anyone who didn't condemn bigtimer as closet racists, moral relativists, and cowards.

We don't come here to form a united front against liberals or anyone else. We come here to discuss. While the editors and administrators/bloggers do an admirable job of exposing media bias, I don't think any of our comments have an effect on anything. We vent. That's all.  It's not a case of if we don't agree and get along here, the liberals will have won.

As for the bias threads vs. this forum:  I can do both.  I don't see them as exclusive of each other.

I respectfully (and I really mean respectfully; I have NO desire to insult you or diminish your opinion!) suggest that you follow your own advice:  Ignore the forum.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

  Not only is racism a

  Not only is racism a problem, but the attitude of "We were here first..." and then followed with the idea that somehow that gives them lisence to tell others how they need to "behave".   If Bigtimer is not a moderator of some sort then she has no business telling anyone what they should or should not be posting.  That is just my opinion of course.

When I first started reading Newsbusters I think the tone was different. I am not sure what has changed, but I think we should try to get back to the place where we are not attacking each other on a personal level and do like my mother always said.  "If you haven't anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all."

 

<edit>

For instance, if Bigtimer or another poster had sincere questions about Choselife's post about pelican, they could have/should have asked the questions without going straight to personal attacks and condescending remarks.  If that information had been posted by anyone else besides Choselife, I have no doubt the reaction from those two would have been "Great job!"  or  "Hear Hear" or some other encouraging remark.  If that is not the case then the person doesn't HAVE to remark at all.  (Unless she has a question about the information)  But here I am trying to tell people how to post, when that is what I HATE to see from others.  So I guess you can now call me a hypocrite.  :o)

One of the things that has

One of the things that has changed is that choselife3x arrived and decided to place herself in charge of everything and everyone.

I've been here for quite a while and never seen one member start so many forums to whine the way chose has.

  Of course choselife would never attack another poster.  She attacked me and accused ME of being hostile, all the the while
posting  little photos of snarling cats etc and comparing them to
me.  And that was when I was using HER as an example of the fact that
one could take time away from one's kids and still be a good mother.   But she accused me of creating a "pile of crap" because I dared to insert a comment when she and shawn were discussing something. I didn't know we had to ask permission from her to join in a discussion, but apparently that's the way it is, when cl3 is in charge.

Why is bigtimer allowed to make racial comments?

Why is Acts2_38 allowed to continually attack the Catholic Church and claim that it is a church of false doctrine?

I assume rex is an adult: as such he is perfectly capable of  demanding his own apology if he thinks he merits one.

We also have moderators and admin people who can warn a poster (I've seen posts edited with the addendum that "poster is warned"). Why choselife thinks the she is the one to take over these tasks is anyone's guesss.

Choselife, if you have a gripe about inappropriate posting by someone, the thing to do is to report it to the Masthead and let them handle it.  Why start up a forum thread and invite others to join in the attack? Are you afraid they might not handle it to your satisfaction, or would you simply prefer to hound the offensive poster from the site?

That you chose the option that you did says more about you than about anyone else.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~So you are fine with BT's post?

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

I don't even know, or care,

I don't even know, or care, which posting by bigtimer you are talking about.  My point is that if you have a problem with a poster, this is not the way to handle it.

You are less interested in getting inappropriate posting curbed (notifying the Masthead) than you are in organizing a mob for a public stoning of  bigtimer....with you, of course, leading the way, which you think will make you look wonderful.

You're acting like a teenager, trying to get all your friends to turn against the person you hate.

Get over yourself.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~So what you are saying is

I don't even know, or care, which posting by bigtimer you are talking
about.  My point is that if you have a problem with a poster, this is
not the way to handle it.

You didn't read the body of the forum you are commenting on.


rex... You need to really
May 7, 2009 - 23:19 ET by bigtimer
rex... You need to really go back into that tent and smoke some more of that the Peace Pipe...what happened to your Dr. Phil persona? 
I'm Indian too...you need to relax and admit you were wrong Big Chief.
Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

Do you stand by her remark? Do you find it acceptable?

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

In the first place, I'm not

In the first place, I'm not going to play your silly little game where you try to determine just how many posters here agree with you. Whether I agree with bigtimer's comments or not, my point is that you are not in charge here.

We have administrators.  If someone reported that to one of them, it would have been taken care of. (Edited to add : or not, as they, not you, see fit.)

I know that from experience: I PM'd one of them about vulgarity, and the comments were edited, and the poster warned.

If you want bigtimer banned, then close up your little shop here and go make your case to them. Don't try to drag this out forever, quizzing everyone on whether they agree or not, and trying to create "sides."

But no, you'd much rather instigate a schoolyard attack.

You really need to get over yourself.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~No

I do not want her banned. I would like her to apologize to Rex. Quite frankly, I would be surprised if she did.

Rex stood up for me publicly, and I am standing up for him publicly. Simple as that.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

Chose~

I think your not wanting her banned is very admirable, and I hope others note this on here! :)

Oh, yes, it's noted....

Yes, that's so admirable.

\sarc off

One might even be impressed if she also called upon rex to apolgize to bigtimer for his calling HER dishonest. (I guess some cows really are more sacred than others when one is on one's high horse.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

Motherbelt~

I'm always looking for the positive~that was not meant to sound flip, but it's true that "no good deed goes unpunished." LOL. For what it's worth, I think that pretty much, everybody has learned what it is they are going to learn from this whole thing -- if they were meant to learn something & feel pulled that way. That's for the individuals to decide, and I'm not about to judge it. BUT it'd be just swell if a Magic Fairy would just zap this whole thing away now...

And thanks to those who have PM'd me when I have a message here, but you really don't need to continue to do that -- I'd really like to move off this blog! ;)

Best to everyone~

Anyone can make anyone else

Anyone can make anyone else look bad by cutting and pasting individual comments and stringing them together in order to produce some sort of proof of guilt based on a preconceived notion. In a fair trial, all the evidence is presented. Given bt's longstanding relationship with this site, it would only be fair to post everything she ever said in order to come to a fair conclusion. I suggest you confer with some of those who've known her for all this time, before you continue your character assassination. You can begin with Matthew Sheffield and Mark Finkelstein.

There is no turf war. Those who have been with N.B. since nearly the beginning simply have a broader perspective. cl3, you have been guilty of much of which you accuse bigtimer and more. Of course, your response will be "Prove it." And when your offending posts are not forthcoming, will scream "LIAR". Most of the rest of us don't come to N.B. to create files on the members and prefer to use our time commenting on the topics.

That's all you'll get from me. Have fun.

GO CAVS!!!!!

~So you agree with BT's post?

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

more to the point bt has

more to the point bt has vanquished many a foe here such as yourself...

she's been underestimated here quite often - so just proceed with caution, get a lawyer, pack a good supply of rations and have your last will and testament in order:)...

Palin/Prejean 2012

~Thank you

For so clearly making the point of 'old-timers' here. Apparently, if you have been here long enough just about anything goes.

cd - ya know, i've tried
May 7, 2009 - 00:42 ET by TruthMonger

cd - ya know, i've tried to be polite for about two years now - but i
think i've about had it with the knee-jerk bug up your ass regarding my
posts - its beginning to push the limits of my recently acquired and
highly impressive anger managment techniques...

apparently you still have a 24+ month grudge regarding your
embarassing under-estimation of my church's breadth of theology
regarding Lutheran liturgy and the Apostles Creed on some
inconsequential thread back in the day - since that's when you started
your vengeful little tangent here - whatever...

its now getting to the point of being unbelievably petty and
pathetic - and i'm tired of waiting for you to get over it - so from
here on out you can either issue me a full apology or simply just kiss
my ass, toots...

I've been here since day 1 - my cred here is stellar - and i
have little concern from here on out for your arrogant and
condescending admonishments towards me at every turn here - espcially
since its always due to yet another one of your idiotic
mis-understandings of my posts - followed by your lame CYA retorts...

i also have no interest in joining your strange little suck-up crew
here - the one that may proceed to bitch me out now with a lame,
group-think pissing match - please go ahead and get your circle-jerk
jollies, folks - just be advised cd i'm done tolerating your serious
inter-personal issues at my expense - its like some creepy attraction
you have for me and your trying to hide it with your overboard disdain
of me or something - and shame shame of course since you're a married
gal already...

so best wishes, sweet thing - see ya round the boards...

xoxo

tm

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

There it is... right there

  "Those of us who have been with N.B. since the beginning simply have a broader perspective."

Ok, so you have a better understanding simply because you have spent more years looking at the site than she does?  You have no greater insight from your longer duration on the site, you just have a greater sense of entitlement.  CL has every right to spend HER time on the site however SHE chooses until someone with authority tells her to stop doing so.  So do you.  The fact that you choose to spend your time the way you do says something about you.  Maybe you don't like what it is saying.

 As far as being able to make anyone look bad by stringing together things that the person has actually said, she couldn't string it together if it hadn't been written.  And honestly, ANY of those remarks would be considered ugly on their own, they only look WORSE when they are all strung together.

I would like you to string together a similar post of remarks like that from me, since you say anyone will look bad.  Go ahead. I dare you.

~The point of this forum

Is that a respected poster here was the brunt of a racial slur, and it was allowed. 

This happened to him while he was defending me, so I cannot do less than defend him.

If anyone has a personal grudge against me, I invite him/her to set up a forum in the Woodshed where I will join him/her to hash it out.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

The Big Kahona

Since when has the term "Big Chief" become a racial slur? What about The Big Kahuna? Is THAT racest too? I hardly think "Big Chief" is a racial slur.

You may not be aware of this, but people don't post their picture with their comment here, so how can ANYONE know what the race of the poster REALLY is? Have we become so liberalized here that EVERY post will now be parsed for assumed racism? If that's the case, then NB's has failed in their mission, and you're self-proclaimed goal of saving us has failed as well.

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

Hummm...

OK,, so now you've appointed yourself as a Grand Defender of another member here! Answer me this: If You can start a forum thread defending yourself, why can;t he do the same? Why do you feel the need to DEFEND someone instead of letting them defend himself? It looks to me that you're trying to appoint yourself as an admin here, as some Grand Overseer, as, dare I say, an INQUISITOR!. But, guess what, you don't appoint YOURSELF as admin in sites like NB, someone else has to appoint you.

So, here's a suggestion, instead of appointing YOURSELF as an admin, why don't you REQUEST that position? If the owners of NB's wants you as an admin, they appoint you. If non, then I suggest you learn to deal with it, or, better yet, start your OWN website. That way you can be the Guardian that you apparently wish to be.

choselife3x, I usually agree with you on a lot of topics, but in this case, where you appointed yourself as a savior of NB, you're WRONG!

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

Thank you CobraMan! That

Thank you CobraMan!

That is my point exactly.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

Isn't this hypocrisy?

Isn't this a display of hypocrisy? First you complain that your standing up to Conservative values, then you complain that NB is "allowing" people with different viewpoint to post things you don't like to hear, a policy that is fully in line with the INDIVIDUAL right of self expression. You may not be aware of this, but NB's WANTS people of different viewpoints to post here. Like other have asked, both here and in other threads, who appointed YOU as the NewsBusters overseer, the guardian of NB?

Yo claim you're trying to "uncover" trolls, (in the name of saving NB's from what, OUTSIDERS?), then you accuse someone else of being a troll simply because they don't agree with your assessment AND your self proclaimed mission to "save" NB, and you do it in a way that that makes YOU look trollish! Excuse me, but that's a LIBERAL tactic of isolating, attacking, and marginalizing someone in order to silence them! How is THAT a Conservative principal? How does THAT reflect the NB standard of EXPOSING these type of tactics?

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

~They weren't trolls

They were plants, here to make us look bad to the people reading the site. BT knew quite well what rex's heritage is-

rex... You need to really
May 7, 2009 - 23:19 ET by bigtimer
rex... You need to really go back into that tent and smoke some more of that the Peace Pipe...what happened to your Dr. Phil persona? 
I'm Indian too...you need to relax and admit you were wrong Big Chief.
Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

And it was obviously no joke. Rex was attacked in this fashion because he stood up for me, and I can do no less for him. If you followed any of the links you would see that he did not take it as a joke, and when he made that clear she derided him further.

He is not a well man, and he underwent a great deal of trouble and stress to stand by me. 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

They were plants?

They were plants? HOW do you know this? Do you have the ability to TRACK IP's (like the admins do) and can tell, without a doubt, that they're not who they appear to be? That they're creating multiple sock puppets who are claiming different identities while posting from the SAME location? No? I didn't think so. So, once again, who appointed YOU as our savior?

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

~Simply read my post about it

Make up your own mind. I fully trust your intelligence and good judgement.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

I don't care

I don't care if they're plants or not. It won't make any difference.

You need to remember that the majority of people here are adults who can form their own opinions, make their own arguments, follow their own ideals, make their own determinations. We're reasoning, intelligent adults, we don't need someone to babysit us and PROTECT us for the big bad liberals. We do that well enough on our own, thank you very much.

So, excuse me if I don't panic about the very idea that liberals may or may not be using "plants" in a Conservative website. Excuse me if I don't parse every post, track every member, review every topic, and compare every ststement in order to "weed out" the undesirable liberals and save myself, and NB's, from a non-existent threat. I'm NOT going to fall into that trap, that's EXACTLY what the liberals are trying to accomplish, to sow doubt and mistrust amongst Conservatives. I suggest that you avoid that trap as well.

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

~I don't

Do the things you list. This matter came to my attention when a new 'conservative' poster (with whom I had never interacted) jumped me. He used the same syntax as a Kos member whom I had outed several times. Which you would already know if you read my original post. I recognized him not because I had 'parsed' any posts or 'tracked' any members at that time, but because I have a photographic memory. He used the same phrases and writing style, and he attacked me for no apparent reason. This raised questions in my mind which I sought answers for. I found them, and they were sufficiently startling that I posted them publicly. I was going to offer to e-mail you my files so you could look at all the evidence for yourself before pronouncing an opinion on it, but I see that you are not interested. Please let me know if you ever change your mind. In conclusion:

Your statements make it clear that you did not read the body of this forum, or follow the links in it before pronouncing your opinion. For this I am truly sorry. I have always respected you and your opinion and I hope that you will reconsider at some point and read the evidence I posted on this matter. Thank you.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

Good for him

He "stood" by you, good for him. But if he's well enough to defend YOU, why is he not well enough to defend HIMSELF? Once again, you've ASSUMED the mantle of a protector. I can understand SUPPORTING him, but that's NOT what you're trying to accomplish here. You're trying to make yourself a PROTECTOR of NB's by implying that someone should be BANNED for what you believe are inappropriate statements. But, hay, guess what, NB's already HAS people who are tasked with that. They're called admins and they are CHOSEN for that position, they don't ASSUME the position like you have.

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

~CM

If you wish to inquire into rex's condition, please PM him. All I am comfortable saying here is that his doctor and wife wish him to avoid anymore stress for a while.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

This isn't about Rex...

Choose, this isn't about Rex, this is about YOU! In the thread topic itself, you talked about YOUR work to "expose' those you feel to be plants. In a response to ME, you also talked about those "plants." If Rex needs to avoid stress, then he'll just IGNORE anyone, or any post, which may upset him, that would tend to cause him stress, correct? So, be honest with yourself, you're not really defending Rex as he doesn't NEED to be defended, you're defending him because of your own personal need to be a self-appointed overseer of NB's.

The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States.
The US Constitution

Unless you're a fetus.
The US Supreme Court

Thanks again.

 
Couldn't have said it better myself.

From the beginning as I pointed out to sherylsims, this has been about choselife coming in and making herself the Grand Overseer of all.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~I started out with the background

To set BT's slur against Rex in context. 

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

If you wish to inquire into

If you wish to inquire into rex's condition, please PM him. All I am
comfortable saying here is that his doctor and wife wish him to avoid
anymore stress for a while.
 

Seems to me that you are the one creating the stress here.  The last posting in the Liberal plants thread was four days ago, and yet here you are, prodding at the corpse.

Feeling bored are you?

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

Georgia Girl's take~

I'm not OK with racial slurs. I'm also not okay with mean-spiritedness, nastiness, snotty attitudes or condescension. We should all be above that -- not only in life but also on these boards (which is rather respresentative of life). I'm a journalist, so the words that people choose do matter to me. They have impact.

It's totally fine to disagree, but there is a way to disagree without being nastily disagreeable. When someone is attacked or hurt in a personal way, it is not OK with me. It was never OK with me in high school, so why would it be now? :) I try to avoid anything that would cause embarrassment to anyone, and I promise to continue to do my best to keep this aspect in mind. If I ever offend anybody in any way on here, please feel free to PM me -- I'm completely open if I ever do anything to make someone else feel less than valuable. It would be great if we could all keep general politeness in mind & behave in a way that we can be proud of, and it's also a great way to not have regrets. I thank anybody who tries to hold others in polite regard.  

For me, everybody has value and something to offer -- and should be respected as a human being...I appreciate & value the quality of kindness as #1. 

I also am quick to forgive if someone slips up & feels sorry, and I realize it is on their end to make things right -- but we all make mistakes.

I hope this all can be used for good~I'm "all-in" for that. I know that sometimes on here, people are just joking around or maybe press the "post message" button too soon. Some things are not meant to be yucky, but they can be misunderstood. I guess we all can error on the side of caution as much as we reasonably can.

Well, that's my take...wishing peace for everyone. 

Georgia Girl

  Great post, I am with you!  To quote the famous guy whose name I can't remember... "Can't we all just get along?"  (Was that Reginald Denny?)

Let's all work on humbling ourselves and forgive others as well as seeking forgiveness from others, then lets move forward without all the baggage. 

And then lets have fun mocking the liberals and if we must attack anyone, lets aim it toward those who are seriously threatning our American way of living.  Not each other.

Sheryl...

Thanks. My Dad (the kindest man in the world...who was in a big position of authority as a newspaper publisher & could have been crappy if he wanted to!) used to call me "The Diplomat." ;) Since his passing, I keep that in mind even more. I want him to always be proud of his daughter. Sorry guys -- there is a big emotional part to me. ;)

I do think we all can get along...there are lots of different personalities on here & varying opinions, but I do think it's just about being able to keep in mind that we all have value & something to offer. I assume every single person on here knows something I do not -- or has had experiences that give them insight that I may not have on something. Of course, anybody who knows me at all knows that they can handle the technical aspects of a computer better than I can -- so there's a HUGE area. LOL. 

I try to give out what I want back...and if I slip, let me know, people!

YES GG!

  When I first discovered NB, one of the things that attracted me the most was the wide variety of expert information and links that was all posted here on so many subjects of interest to me.  It is far more than just the news stories because of all the posters.  I love certain people's take on things from a humorous perspective, and other people's take on things from a very thoughtful and knowledgeable place.  There is such a wealth of grey matter here that we can benefit from and I think that is what we need to concentrate on.

Of course the beauty of this site comes from the different personalities and opinions, and I would hate to see any of those stifled, but I would like to see posters treat each other with more respect and dignity.  There.  My mother and your dad will be so proud.  :o)

Sheryl~

Good for you!

And honest to goodness, when I see huge, nasty fights break out on here, I feel rather nauseated... ((^_^))

Rodney King was the person

Rodney King was the person who mouthed the sentiment.

 Libs in general and the media specifically provide such a target rich environment we should focus on their inconsistencies.  Corrections to each other are best handled through PMs.  If those don't work then us the forums.

"Fighters are fun but bombers make policy"

In defense of Rex and Chose

Count me in as one who has zero tolerance for bigots.  As a Jew I have put up with anti-Semitism for five decades and as one who admires Mormons and is married to one, I often hear downright ignorant and stupid remarks from sectarians concerning that particular religion.

The liberals are the enemy.  They are the ones we should be against - not each other.

I neither know nor care how Chose got her information on those who are posing as Conservatives, but it occurs to me that we DO have some fifth columnists among us.  Chose wants to call them out.  So be it.  I know her to be a gracious and kind young lady and a damn good mother.  She is not trying to usurp anyone's authority

As for Rex, I know that he is a good and decent man.  There is no call to bring up his heritage nor make light of it.  I like ethnic humor, but I would never call another Jew a kike, a hebe, a clipdick, etc.  Not even as a joke.

Bottom line, ladies and gentlemen, is that we need to be true Conservatives and not give the enemy ranks among us or at huffing and pissed or at koskids any ammunition.

For the MSM: In your pomp and all your glory, you're a poorer man than me.  As you lick the boots of death born out of fear.

Ian Anderson "Wind up"

 

 

No, she's not trying to

No, she's not trying to usurp anyone's authority.

She's trying to go around the administration here and organize a stoning party to hopefully drive bigtimer away from Newsbusters. 

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

MB, I don't see it that

MB,

I don't see it that way.  Do they have personality clashes?  Yes.  But no one I know - including Chose - wants a stoning party

No one needs to be banned unless, of course, they become irreparably annoying and nasty, i.e., Guttermouth.  But neither BT nor Chose fall into that category.

Again, our focus should be aimed at the socialists and haters of freedom and responsibility, not each other.

For the MSM: In your pomp and all your glory, you're a poorer man than me.  As you lick the boots of death born out of fear.

Ian Anderson "Wind up"

 

 

If you don't think she's

If you don't think she's trying to drive bigtimer away, (not get her banned) then you didn't really notice the subject of this forum:  and you missed the "and generally be disagreeable" part.

Don't kid yourself.  If she got bigtimer to apologize (and I don't think she needs to; what she said wasn't in hate) she would move on to the "generally disagreeable" part.

And who is choselife3x to set the standard for disagreeable? What she is trying to do, IMO is to get enough people to speak out against bigtimer, that she would no longer want to be here.

There are posters I find disagreeable. I'm sure you have some too.  I either respond to them or scroll past their comments.  I don't get up in front of the crowd, basically yelling how many of you here agree with me?

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~I do not believe

That anything could drive BT away. I believe she will be posting on NB from the 'other side' if at all possible. (this is a joke for anyone to whom it is not clear)

The (generally be disagreeable) part refers to the fact that she is regularly sharp with and offensive to posters here. She rarely gets called out on it because people are afraid of being followed around and harassed like she has done to others before.

Edited to add:

If you follow the link you will see that BT was certainly trying to be offensive. If that isn't 'hate', it sure isn't friendliness. If he had said something like that to her, she would not have been pleased.

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

MB, Here is where we will

MB,

Here is where we will have to agree to disagree.  And no, I don't kid myself.  I'm too damn old and crochety for that :-)

Speaking only for myself, I don't want ANYONE banned unless he/she proves to be an absolute contrarian moron. 

We all have our set of standards for what is disagreeable. 

You don't like me, my posts, or warped sense of humor?  I'm OK with that.  But if I perceive a slight on any of my friends or any Conservative on this board, I will answer to it. 

Having said that, I have no beef with any Conservatives, or even any honest liberals - Jer, for example.  I just want us Conservatives to be united - exactly what the socialists DO NOT want.

For the MSM: In your pomp and all your glory, you're a poorer man than me.  As you lick the boots of death born out of fear.

Ian Anderson "Wind up"

 

 

cl... This is for you.

cl...

This is for you.

...and I'm leaving it at that, your divide and conquer here is more than obvious, please know NBs is about msm bias, I am not, never have been a bigot, you don't know me, my husband who is also part Indian~ Nez Perce, my friends, my health, nor walked in my moccasins.

Read the link, it applies to you.

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

~BT

If Rex had not been defending me, I believe you would not have spoken to him in such a fashion. Seeing as how you offended him out of your hatred for me, I bear responsibility in the matter. Which is why I posted this forum. I would be quite willing to leave NB forever if you would simply apologize to him for sneering at him and then mocking him further when he expressed how offensive he found it. You know damn well how you would have reacted if someone had addressed such a remark to you, or to your husband.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

cl.. Everything isn't

cl..

Everything isn't about YOU.

Quit trying to divide people and move on to the subjects of the day on NBs...if you can.

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

~I am sorry that you think I think that

And BT, if someone had addressed a remark to you like your's to Rex, I would have stood up for you. The right thing to do is simply the right thing to do. 

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

I want to thank those here

I want to thank those here who stood up for me, that really know me...it is much appreciated.

Lynn

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

~Should I have not stood up for Rex?

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

GG tries to help...hopes she is not shot.

OK, here is how I see it. Chose felt the need to stand up for Rex & any hurt he received...then this moved public...and Chose and Bigtimer are now talking to each other about this issue. I do feel now it should move to PM's, for them to work it out in privacy...and that in their own privacy -- with Rex included as they see fit -- they work it out without a crowd standing around.

So...I am now moving off here, and if anybody wants to stay, I realize it is their choice & people have to do what they feel right about it -- being that it is still (thank God) a free country...though I am not sure how much longer that will be the case...a little political humor there. ((^_^)) 

Hoping for peace & goodwill to come of this forum.

 

 

Yeah, you can stand up for

Yeah, you can stand up for whomever you want.  But you do it at the time.

You don't start a forum thread a week later to stir up trouble over it.  Not without an ulterior motive.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~I was waiting

To hear back from Heavy Chevy. I was going to use his name in my racial analogy if he gave me his permission. He has not logged in, and therefore not read my message. I felt that this should not be put off any longer, so I altered my analogy slightly so as not to use his name.

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

Yes, if you had waited, it

Yes, if you had waited, it might have faded even more.....

I stand by my assessment of your motivation.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

~Interesting

If you truly thought what she said wasn't hateful, then what is there to 'fade'? Why would it need to 'fade'? If someone had addressed such a remark to BT would it be okay?

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

double post   They

double post

 

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

Splinters, planks, eyes, etc, etc

IMO these anal he-said-she-said threads have no place on NB.  But then where or when is gossip suitable? 

Yet, as a personal friend of BT I find myself in the uncomfortable position of having to comment on a gossip thread.

For those that don't know Lynn personally, she has a heart as big as the Montana sky. She has been fighting the good fight against media bias since I have been posting here and certainly for years before NB was created.  She also does a great deal of other 'good works' outside of NB which only a few posters on NB are aware due in large part to Lynn's unpretentious nature.

I tip my hat to those on this thread that chose the high road over wallowing in the mud.  You know who you are and I'm confident Lynn appreciates your support more than the air she breathes. 

Wouldn't NB be better served if commenters that felt offended had the civility to send a private message to a person they have a beef with rather than create a thread that serves no other purpose other than to publicly attempt to villify a fellow Newsbuster?

YES


Wouldn't NB be better served if commenters that felt
offended had the civility to send a private message to a
person they have a beef with rather than create a thread that
serves no other purpose other than to publicly attempt to
villify a fellow Newsbuster?

 Also be nice if folks did not encourage it, by taking sides.

Might be hard to believe, but even I have had folks PM me and tell me they did not appreciate my words (and they know who they are) and I thanked them. I am not above critisism.

My Gov. thinks I am dangerous, so be careful

"Television is a freak show" Bernie Goldberg

acumen,

Very well said, my friend.

We have an election coming up the results of which will probably decide the near-term fate of our country. Given the hideous events that have unfolded since January 20th, it is by far the most important election in this nation's short 236 year history.

It saddens me to see so many of my friends at each other's throats at a time when we should be directing our efforts at those who are working to tear this country down.

This is exactly what the other side wants, and that is for conservatives to be picking each other off.

There just aren't enough of us left for that.

All this hair-splitting going on amongst conservatives is going to result in are a bunch of bald conservatives and a damn-sure dead America.

-Dave

America has gone totally insane

Hey--

I am along time reader--very occasional poster. I have  read through this thread. I thought most of the bloggers were conservatives, but I must say this comment: 

"Rexdraconim stood up for the truth and defended the integrity of this site. In return, he was viciously attacked by a poster here and his race, creed, faith, and honor were maligned."

was so similar to liberal debating practices that I was very disappointed.

Also, perhaps  I am brain dead, but Big timers  comment about a peace pipe seemed totally harmless to me and I am a small part Amerind and took no offense. You all seem to be more intent on attacking each other and Bigtimer than challenging the MSM.

Perhaps that is why I only stop by once or twice a week instead of every day as I used to.

 

Thanks

Your point of view may help.

 

My Gov. thinks I am dangerous, so be careful

"Television is a freak show" Bernie Goldberg

WTF???

Hey--I come back after a brief absence and I see dissension. What is happening?? I see wild and insane statements among people who are suposed to be on he same page.

I also see, from a long life of experience, an attempt by certain members to be the "elite" group here. I am going to post this and go back and reread the thread since I am too old and slow to digest it from one reading.

 

 

OK --here's what I saw---and I don't care--

"Rexdraconim stood by me through all of this because he believes in the importance of the truth. He believes in honor. In integrity. And in loyalty to principle."

Oh God, I hear the trumpets blowing. Oh Ashley, my love, you have saved me. What f%%%%% histrionics.

"{She’s "Indian too". Apparently that means that I could call one of our posters a "n****r" and tell him to "go back to the fields and chop some cotton" as long as I claim "I’m black too", and the admins would be fine with that. Or perhaps some cows are more sacred than others.}"

Sweet heaven man---what a reach!!! The admins on this site are very tolerant and grant us a lot of respect by allowing us in MOST cases to resolve our own differences--and it has worked well. Maybe the new folks involved in this are different.

"Her remarks are in poor taste and as classless as they come. I am not offended for myself, but for my people, my family, my Ancestors and my Descendants. Her remarks are filth, hateful and unacceptable "

Most surely you are jesting sir--if we are talking about the same comments. Flippant??? Yes, indeed. Of the magnitude and caliber of righeous indignation you lent to it--I suggest taking a Paxil.

"Rexdraconim stood up for the truth and defended the integrity of this site. In return, he was viciously attacked by a poster here and his race, creed, faith, and honor were maligned."

Holy Moley Batman, talk bout purple hyperbole. Is this in referenc to the peace pipe again??

"Is this okay with you? Is Bigtimer's behavior accepted or condoned by you? Do you want to know why she was allowed to get by with this behavior when other posters have been banned for racial slurs?"

Enough--this is nothing more than a blatant effort to unseat a longtime member of this site. I am surprised and a little ashamed that so few other long time members failed to speak up for Bigtimer. SO-- yes, it's OK with me. It is the efforts of two inparfticular that is not OK with me. This is not your site it is the site of all members, even those who disagree with the basic tenets of conservatism. When they are trolls with no other purpose than to annoy and attack the members--then the admins should step in and lock them out.

Finally-- I will make an enemy--but so be it.. Chose- cool off with the histrionics unless it is to speak up for our country and our basic principles of our republic. Wave that flag with purple prose for our country and I will stand with you,, cry with you, laugh with you. Do not use it to wage a conspiratorial battle to denigrate a fellow member. You need a better pulpit--perhaps in church on Sunday where the fire and brimstone is appreciated.

 

~I'm going to say this once

I don't consider anyone here my 'enemy'. I am astonished at how many people decided to comment here without reading through the body of the forum, or following the links. If you had read the Open Thread where this started, or the forum on Liberal plants where it continued you might have a broader perspective on this.

The simple fact is, BT had an ugly attitude towards Rex from the beginning of their exchange. If you can't see that, I'm sorry.

Those of you who have come at this situation with an ugly attitude will be happy to know that Syrius has been watching the whole exchange and is capitalizing on the hatefulness towards Rex.

  •  Oops, a conservative nutbag rears her ugly
    head! (0+ /
    0-
    )

    choselife3x aka Brunette3,
    Glad to see you create an entire forum on my
    infiltration of your nutbag website, Newsbusters.org. The incredible thing is
    your absolute paranoia of "trolls". Gosh, I'm commenting on that site with three
    or four different personas and I'm a "buddy" of yours. Keep up the great
    detective work! By the way, my good friend is still working on his 'report'
    while not trying to stress too much...he loves how you're stickin' up for him!

    To all DailyKos members, my apologies for this little nutbag to show up
    here. She's truly nuts! I feel for her virtual kids & husband. This should
    be a lesson to everyone how Meth & Jack Daniels and listening to RushRadio
    can affect your life!

    Syrius

    "The one permanent emotion of the inferior man is fear-fear of the
    unknown, the complex, the inexplicable." Mencken

    by syrius on Thu May 14, 2009 at 12:44:03 PM
    PDT

    [ Parent ]

 

That high-pitched scream you hear is the troll under my heel. 

CL3X

so Syrius/Pi continues in lies and deception to further his 'truth'?  By their fruits you shall know them....  So best to deal with showing how lame their reasoning is and leave personalities out of it.  There is one thing i notice though Sy/Pi is proud to be scum.  Now how do you deal with a coward who hides behind lies and masks?  How can even his friends trust him for a straight answer?  Finally Sy/Pi knows he can not compete in the world of ideas on an even field, that's why he cheats.  Even his comrades know this.

The way to stop discrimination on the basis of race is to stop discriminating on the basis of race.” -- Chief Justice John Roberts 

You can't see the forest

You can't see the forest for the trees. Do you realize that what your evidence in this comment "proves" has nothing to do with bigtimer?

(~I'm going to say this once

May 16, 2009 - 20:58 ET by choselife3x)

 YOU'RE the one who brought yourself and N.B. to the attention of the people you're so concerned about. YOU'RE the one they're mocking. Sorry if your feelings got hurt in the process. But you brought it all upon yourself with your obsessive need to be noticed and your ongoing campaign of character assassination and weeding out those you personally deem outside the mainstream of conservative thought or the purposes of this site. I'd like to recommend a good book for your to consider. The Search for Significance. Seriously.

GO CAVS!!!!!

A PS for sheryism and Bigtimer

"Not only is racism a problem, but the attitude of "We were here first..." and then followed with the idea that somehow that gives them lisence to tell others how they need to "behave".   If Bigtimer is not a moderator of some sort then she has no business telling anyone what they should or should not be posting.  That is just my opinion of course. "

 

Where have you ever gone in life where you did not encounter the "I was here first" attitude?? I am not defending it, I am saying, it is normal. If you can cite loads of opposite feelings and reactions, let me know. I felt that way myself--I felt left out of the loop a little. I felt a bunch of newer folks were building their own little clique and were heavily populating the site with posts that directed the traffic on subject matter, so I went on hiatus and I will again as soon as I finish this.

Big--I do understand and I also recognize that you see grandstanding and that upset you. I happen to agree with you. I have not recovered from watching the MSM fawning over BHO, I sure as heck don't want to see it at one of my favorite sites.

 

And --oh yeah--my posts may piss a couple of folks off--here's a little more sauce for that tasty dish-- I will not be back to see any reaction for over a week--so I won't get to see those angry reactions.

And just remeber folks as I don my cape and mask-- "I stand for truth and justice and the American way."

Keep those cards and letters coming in. The new decoder rings are in the mail.

Hey misterb...and those

Hey misterb...and those above...I thank you.

That is all I can say, it is meant with sincerity and let us all move on...

Peyton Place bull is not what this site is about. 

I was checking in to see what condition my condition was in before I checked out for the evening and caught this all...so once again, thank you.

Doubling down on stupid is not a particularly good idea. ~Andrew Breitbart

The Bone of Contention Speaks

I wonder if I still have enough faith in people that they might actually read this before they comment.  I must, otherwise I wouldn't take the time to write it.  I wrote it, please read it before you comment.  It is not an order, of course, but a polite request.  Too many times people post without reading and it shows.

In regards to what bigtimer wrote:

She wrote it in public view, I responded in public view at the time of occurrence.  I did not author or instigate this Forum.  I stated my objections at the time it happened and what is, is.  I did what I felt was necessary and will in the future do the same thing.  I feel that I have a legitimate grievance, but I also know that most people will not understand it, get it or really even care.  I am okay with that, for the most part.

I handled it the way I felt I needed to, and it is past.  We all know where the lines are, who is afraid of who and where the body is buried.  I have as much chance of making most people understand and care as a mosquito has of successfully attacking a battleship.  I did not create this Forum, nor did I request it.  It is not my style.

As established and institutionalized as NB is, I have no illusions whatsoever that anyone will really give a darn what is said to me, leastwise not anyone who doesn't know and care about me personally.  I have no doubt that for most of you, anything written or said to me by an old timer will be acceptable.  I may be a fool, but I am no dummy!  Some cows are more sacred than others, that is reality.  I am okay with that.

I still think it was a stupid thing for her to write, I am still not happy about it, but there is no way on this earth that anything at all will ever come of it in such a way that is of any value.  She could say the same thing a thousand times to me and it would not matter much, not to most of you, not to her, and really not all that much to me.  I have spent time considering the source and can easily cope.   It is what it is.

For those of you who think it not offensive, think not from a racial POV but also a religious and cultural view.  The remarks were made to be disparaging.  Such is life, but were the shoe on a different foot, one more personal to them, things would be different.  And that is how life is as well.  I am a very, very minor minority here at NB and I know that.  And I am okay with it.

In regards to what CL3X wrote: 

As I said, for myself, it was already handled.  I can, however, appreciate her feeling that she should repay whatever honor I paid her.  I think CL3X understands that it was not my loyalty to her that made me defend her in the past but my appreciation and regard for the truth of things.

She wrote to me after posting this, to let me know what she had done, and why.  I believe her, foolish as many of you might think that is for me to do. I expressed concern over it, while at the same time understanding that it was something she felt she had to do, regardless of its effect on me.

CL3X has a grasp of what was wrong with what bigtimer wrote, but not entirely.  I really can't clear that up much without writing a whole lot more that people won't actually read, wasting their time and mine.  It will add nothing to the dialogue. 

CL3X understands it better now, even more than she did a few days ago.  It is an evolved understanding.  I think she has learned a lot about me and my perspective on this Forum.

People who are truly interested can PM me about it.  I suppose if the demand were great enough, I would do a public piece, but I doubt there is much interest, judging by the comments on this Forum.

Suffice it to say, CL3X tried to do what she thought was right.  I can see the value in it, even if it were not an approach I myself would have used.  As I said, I have handled it, publicly and privately, to the extent that I intend to.  People are pretty much okay with it all and I have asked CL3X to let it go.  I think she will.

I believe she did this honestly, for reasons of goodness and honor.  My not being fully sanguine about this approach does not mean that I am ungrateful, it just means I see it differently.  She is right about the situation, we differ only in perspective of approach and viability of outcome.

I am commenting at this point just to add my perspective, worthless as that is to most of you, to this matter, which is not brought up by me, but about me.  I am a bit self-conscious about all of this, believe it or not.

In regards to the comments posted:

Some folks wrote and said that what bigtimer said was wrong.  Others came out and defended bigtimer, regardless of what she wrote, others because they did not or could not understand what was wrong with what she said.  Still others chimed in to try to make peace or call it a silly fighting or whatnot.

So, people demonstrated varying degrees of loyalty for a variety of reasons.  Some people were able to comment without, by their own admission, reading anything.  This is how life is.  I can live with that. 

How will folks react to my own comment?  I wish I knew, good or bad.  I have not intended to flame or perpetuate the disagreement, just add perspective. The odds are good that I might catch some snark; it is what it is.

Will people read what I say and think about it or just reply without consideration for anything I said?  Again, I wish I knew.  I hope that people read it and are intellectually honest in their replies.

I suppose I may find out, or this comment will be ignored, as is often the case.  I am glad to take the time and maybe communicate something of value to what has happened here. 

I am not insulted by the things said to me, as a lie is beneath notice and the truth cannot insult.  I know who I am, and I am good with that.  I may be annoyed, I may take offense if things are directed at my family or my people, I may be irritated by blatant disrespect without provocation towards others, but I am not insulted. 

The remarks were offensive, not as much to me personally, as they were to my belief structure, my heritage, things that I will not use space here to explain, unless there is a significant demand for it. 

I was obligated to be offended, when my preferred response was one of considering the source.  I know, that is about as clear as mud.  I will explain further if asked.

Mostly, I am just sad.  Sad that so much comes to so little, so much means so little and sad that very little of consequence or value is accomplished sometimes.  It is all just a little too sad, really.

Bottom Line:

Bigtimer can and will continue, with her vast support, to do, say and think whatever she wants, whenever she wants, about whoever she wants.  I certainly am not, nor will I ever be, in her good graces.  For her, I am beneath contempt and am mostly irrelevant.  Such is life.  I can live with that.  

CL3X is my friend, I know her personally, as many of you know bigtimer personally and have good things to say about her.  I think pretty darn well of CL3X and I am glad to have her as a friend.  My loyalty, however, is not blind, she gets no free pass on things.  I will call them as I see them, as necessary. I think that she understands and appreciates this.

As far as NewsBusters, members and the Internet goes, it is what it is, good or bad.  I can only do my little part in my little way, where I am at, to try to see good things succeed, to add my contribution, whatever that may be. People can accept the simple truth of what I do and who I am, or not.  Such is life.

NB can and should be an important tool for the communication and promotion of Conservatism, in an honest and dignified manner.  We all have our lapses, but the message is what needs to matter most.  Maybe it does.  I hope so.

Well, if you have read this far, honestly and completely, I thank you.  I know I write longish posts, odd as that can sometimes be on the internet.  But then, I am not really an Internet guy.  I am just a guy who came here to help keep my mind active during my convalescence.

I hope you all gained a little of my perspective.  If you all feel I need to be pummeled for something, then you all will of course do so.  I will attempt to respond without any more rancor than is directed at me.

To those of you who may offer support or seek an understanding of my perspective and words, I appreciate your time and consideration in this matter.

"You can have Peace or you can have Freedom; just don't count on having both at the same time." - R.A.H

 "I'll take the harsh reality of liberty over the illusion of security...every time!" -me

Rex

While nearly everyone has their sensitive subjects and nearly everyone has moments in which are insensitive I don’t think a public forum is an adequate place to either give or take something personally. People, protected by anonymity, are not always themselves and just as in a normal real-life setting we have no way of knowing outside influences are affecting a person’s conduct. This is in no way a defense of injudicious statements but a statement to human nature and the fact that most people are of higher quality than would be represented by quotes from emotional moments or even the occasional outburst.

I believe I understand to some degree the effect of such harsh words; especially at a time when you are most likely being very introspective. The lure to core beliefs during such times is likely to make anyone emotional and possibly increase defensiveness. No one likes their core beliefs being ridiculed at the best of times and I am a little chagrined to see how few on this site understand that to be true. However, that does not necessarily predicate any malice on the part of posters when insensitivity is revealed – only lack of knowledge – knowledge that the average poster has no way of knowing.

Perhaps you have read this before but I am optimistic that it is goal of such forums as we find here:
Respect the wisdom of the people in council. Once you give an idea to a council meeting it no longer belongs to you. It belongs to the people. Respect demands that you listen intently to the ideas of others in council and that you do not insist that your idea prevail. Indeed you should freely support the ideas of others if they are true and good, even if those ideas are quite different from the ones you have contributed. The clash of ideas brings forth the Spark of Truth.

What we allow to grow in our hearts defines us and dictates our actions towards others. It is of no use to dwell on what others allow into their heart but we must be ever vigilant that we don't allow the actions of others to dictate what grows inside of us.

Rex~and everyone

I understand all that you said. I have a child with a disability, and I have experienced deep hurt for the lack of understanding regarding my precious son (who now -- according to the specialist -- is one of the few kiddos who is well on his way to overcoming his disability completely, thank you, Lord!!).

I won't be too long. I will say that in recent weeks, I have felt pressured to be somebody I am not on this site (and that is not something I am akin to...never was at all affected by peer group pressure!). I am a sweet-natured person, but I am also tough as nails and stand by my principles and convictions. I will always do what I think is right. I have been disappointed and lost some faith and trust in recent weeks on here, and I am not sure if I will continue to be on this site -- but I know that we all make mistakes and people will disappoint (and I can as well), as we are all only human. I really do value respect and kindness, and some turmoil on here has gotten to be something that has been hurtful to me personally (not directed at me, but what I see going on)...in just seeing how people can be. I am certainly not perfect, but I try really hard to be sensitive and kind to others, and this may not be a site for me. I do not know right now. I just have just felt really disappointed, and I won't explain why -- nobody needs more emotional stuff on this forum. Ha! ;) I am a complex person, so it's not a simple, easy, obvious thing to explain. I have many layers, and so if you (anybody reading this) think you are the reason I may leave the site, you are probably wrong! ;)

I wish you the best, Rex, and I care. And I wish everybody the best. I wish everybody fun on here and the best everybody has to offer. I think NB is a very great opportunity to rally and support...and do something to help bring about change. I have loved this site, and if I am not on much anymore or at all (I'm still deciding), I thank you all for letting me be a part of it for awhile! I have met the neatest people on here -- made friends who I think are just really incredible folks.

God bless... GG:) 

EDITED 3/4 hours later:

Oh my gosh, you guys. I did NOT write this post for people to feel sorry for me or try to convince me to stay on here! But TOO SWEET. Thanks for filling up my PM box and letting me know how I've had a good influence in the site/have given kindness and humor & good insights -- other nice comments. Made me feel really great (especially since I've been discouraged)...and I so appreciate it!:)

 

 

I read the whole friggin thing Sir Rex.

   It was uncool of bigtimer and I won't pretend to know how insulting it was to Sir Rex. 'Nough said.

  I do know this. I can't for the life of me comprehend why someone would want to insult Sir Rex for the tiniest sliver of a second.

  Nor can I comprehend some of the hostility to chose. I have yet to read a post of hers that made me say - no, no that ain't right. She has got some troll radar and maybe you think it misfired. Try this - ignore the forum. Let it go. People ignore my forums all the time. I don't get upset about it.

  Sir Rex. Carry on smartly my good friend.

Sincerely,

a Veteran of a 1000 psychic wars.

Maybe I'm weird, but I

Maybe I'm weird, but I don't get all upset about trolls.

And I think arguing with them is a waste of time.

They're like little kids having a tantrum: the more attention they get with it, the worse they get.

They might say "Wow, that sucks!"  But at least they'll say "Wow!"  -Duff Goldman, the Ace of Cakes

{She’s “Indian too”.

{She’s “Indian too”. Apparently that means that I could call one of our posters a “n****r” and tell him to “go back to the fields and chop some cotton” as long as I claim “I’m black too”, and the admins would be fine with that. Or perhaps some cows are more sacred than others.}

Absolutely correct, that's how the "racism" game is played. The fact that you couldn't actually spell out the "N" word says you may be just a wee bit sensitive? But I'm just a Cracker. So what do I know... 

"There are two types of people in this country; those who provide freedom and those who enjoy it." MM says...

I'm still a noob...

I guess- since I've only been a member for less than 9 months. I know little if anything about any particular poster here, I just assume you're all exactly like me (haha).  I did not know that bigtimer has Native American heritage- nor for that matter, that she is female. The only thing I have gathered about chooselife3x is that (she, I presume) is strong in her religious beliefs as she has taken issue with a statement I made some time ago. And Rex, well, I haven't had the pleasure.

My take, as if anyone really cares, is that if someone has an issue with someone else, simply state your issue and move on. I rarely directly respond to certain posters here because either it is likely a battle not worth fighting, or the poster isn't worthy of argument. Occasionally, I will address the "trolls" herein, but most often from a (pathetically lacking, I know) comedic approach, not meant to demean, or denegrate anyone's personal beliefs. What I won't do is consider anyone unwelcome.

I have been taken to task for my own errors, and can accept that without anger or wish for some sort of retribution. If I express an opinion that offends anyone personally, or is perceived to have crossed a line, I would prefer to be challenged on it, chastised for it if necessary, and then forgiven for it, assuming that I apologize or clarify my position so that it is acceptable to the majority. 

My hope is that with grievances aired, all can move forward and decide for themselves whom they chose to associate with, and whom they wish to ignore. And again, if anyone is personally offended, I hope that they speak up in their own defense, and request an apology. And I hope the offender can understand that they were offensive, even if they had not meant to be. What I like so much about forums like this one is the annonimity that comes with it (even though I have no fear in publishing my own identity) and the freedom of expression that is so often judged harshly in the PC world we live in. 

Bob Keyser, USMC Veteran, age 43, Maryland

 

Time for recess

A brief musical interlude.

Edited to add: I think it only fair that the original URL for this topic is made public.

For those who were seated in the middle of the movie, you need to know the original title of this topic. You can find it in your browser when you view this topic. If you've already figured it out, forgive me for pointing out the obvious. Thank me very much.

GO CAVS!!!!!