Lauer to Michelle Obama: 'Do You Think People Hate Your Husband, Even Those On The Far Right?'
NBC's Matt Lauer seemed shocked that Fox News' Bill O'Reilly, during his Super Bowl interview, actually asked Barack Obama about his opponents hating him, as the Today co-anchor, on Wednesday, in an exclusive interview with the First Lady questioned: "Do you think people hate your husband, even on the far right?" Michelle Obama initially deflected the question as she simply responded: "I'm sure that there are some people who don't like my husband" because "You're not gonna please everybody all the time." Lauer, however continued to press the issue as he asked: "There is obviously extreme criticism" and went on to wonder if it had changed the President as he questioned is he "the same guy today as he was two years ago?"
In an interview that touched on a wide range of topics from Egypt to the President's smoking habits and to the First Lady's anti-obesity campaign, Lauer did ask a tough question on the economy, even reading from a viewer's e-mail who asked Mrs. Obama for her advice for job seekers, as he pressed: "If there is someone out there...who is unemployed...do you expect that person to support your husband in 2012?"
The following are the relevant exchanges from the interview that aired on the February 9 Today show:
MATT LAUER: Before the Super Bowl your husband gave an interview to Bill O'Reilly and he was asked, during that interview, if it disturbed him that so many people hated him. And first of all, I think the word "hate" is a very powerful word. Do you think people hate your husband, even those on the far right?
MICHELLE OBAMA: I'm sure that there are some people who don't like my husband. Any President of the United States - this is a tough job. You're not gonna please everybody all the time. And that's not why you do this job. There are tough decisions that have to be made. So I'm sure that there are people who don't like my husband. There are people who have had strong feelings about every single president that's ever held the office.
LAUER: Taking "hate" out of it, there is obviously extreme criticism. And I think you made the comment that you don't think your husband has changed dramatically as a result of that criticism. Is he the same guy today that he was two years ago, as he entered the White House?
OBAMA: He is. He really is. He is, I think, one of his gifts is consistency. Emotionally, he doesn't get too high or too low unless it has to do with his family. I mean who he is as a president and who he is as a dad and a husband are very different things. He's got a thick skin. And he's focused on a set of goals. He wants to do the best job he can in office. And I think he's doing a great job. And he's, he's remained steady through it all. And I think that's a good thing.
LAUER: Tough challenges facing him.
OBAMA: Absolutely.
LAUER: And the last time we spoke, he told me the economy, obviously, was in tough shape. Unemployment was a major, major concern. A lot of Republicans have criticized your husband saying that he hasn't focused enough on creating jobs. We asked our viewers to submit e-mail questions. Mrs. Obama, so many concerned the economy and jobs. If there is someone out there watching right now who is unemployed and is having a very difficult time finding a new job, do you expect that person to support your husband in 2012?
OBAMA: Yes, absolutely.
LAUER: Why?
OBAMA: Because we are seeing some significant improvements in the economy. I mean, if we look at where we were two years ago when Barack took office, we are definitely moving in the right direction. It's a slow growth and that's something that Barack has said throughout. Change doesn't happen overnight. It takes time. But if you look at the accomplishments over this year, he has kept every single promise that he's made. It doesn't always feel good when you're down and out. But I think we're, we're on the right path.
LAUER: And so to Kitty from Ft. Worth, Texas, who wrote us and said, "What is your advice, Mrs. Obama, for someone who is out there looking for a job?" What would you say?
OBAMA: You know, I think one of the - this is why in the State of the Union Address, my husband focused on investment in the future, education, community colleges. Many people are gonna have to get retrained. Because the economic structure of this company, of this country, I'm sorry, has just changed significantly. Some jobs that were there are just gone. So my advice is to find the sectors that are growing. Find a way to retrain. Look at community colleges and use this time to, to, to recharge skills and, and, and keep growing. We are at the point in this country where all careers are, are, are fluid. I think the days of working in that company for 20 years are gone. And, and young people kind of know that already. They're coming in and they are thinking, "I'm here two years, but where is my next step? How do I get my next, you know, training certificate? How do I keep moving and growing?"
LAUER: Keep improving themselves.
OBAMA: And I think that's, that's how we have to focus.
—Geoffrey Dickens is the Senior News Analyst at the Media Research Center. You can follow him on Twitter here
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Lauer & Michelle
Submitted by Cool Arrow on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 1:46pm.
Then Rex Ryan arrived with flavored foot oil and a good time was had by all.
That is SO
Submitted by johnsonl on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 2:10pm.
That is SO wrong!
Hilarious, but WRONG nonetheless!
Is Lauer programmed daily or weekly?
Submitted by Ashrak on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 1:49pm.
Michelle doesn't even think we are fit to decide for ourselves what we will eat and drink, how could she think people are capable of deciding if they like her husband or the positions he holds?
Lauer, wipe the droll from your chin, sheesh.
How Could Anyone...
Submitted by GeneralAl on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 1:49pm.
I mean gee, how could anyone not love the Messiah?
"Old Soldiers never die, they just fade away"!
I'm very offended that he
Submitted by johnsonl on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 2:12pm.
I'm very offended that he asked her that. Lauer was way too aggressive.
I'm not sure exactly how this
Submitted by Reflect on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 2:23pm.
I'm not sure exactly how this interview is an example of liberal bias. So, to flip the concept around, if an interviewer asked Sarah Palin's husband if he thought people hated his wife, that would be an example of conservative bias?
Also, if I understand Dickens correctly, isn't Lauer essentially repeating the same question O'Reilly asked to Obama? Is Dickens implying that O'Reilly has a liberal bias too?
Liberal Bias
Submitted by Gothampc on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 3:06pm.
I'm not sure how O'Reilly phrased the question, but when Lauer asks a question along the lines of "Do you think the Far Right hates your husband" that is indeed liberal bias.
There is no evidence that the Far Right as a group hates Obama any more or any less than other groups of people. The gay community is not too pleased with him at the moment because he hasn't given them gay marriage. Why didn't Lauer phrase the question "Do you think the gay community hates your husband?'
There are a lot more instances of liberal bias because there is a lot more liberal media. Really Conservatives only have some of Fox News and radio people like Rush and Mark Levin and bloggers like NewsBusters, Michelle Malkin, Ann Coulter.
But wouldn't a media system
Submitted by Reflect on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 5:03pm.
But wouldn't a media system with a liberal agenda ask precisely that sort of question? Imagine if they actually asked "why do you think the gay community hates you". Obama would be forced to appeal to that constituency directly.
Instead, he is asked why he thinks the far right hates him, so Obama is left having to explain how he appeals to the right, instead of explaining how he is planning to legalize gay marriage, which would give that issue exposure and make it more politically prominent.
In general, when questions about liberal disappointment are posed to Obama or his administration, they more often react with annoyance, quotes like "stop complaining" etc.
If they phrased the question
Submitted by BobcatConservative on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 5:26pm.
If they phrased the question that way, asking "why does the gay community hate you", they would be admitting Obama's lack of initiative to legislate Liberal principles (in this instance, gay marriage) and betrayal of his own party. By admitting that, it would cast Obama in a negative light, which the media definitely cannot do.
By asking "why does the far right hate you?" it sends the message that conservatives are racist, anti-American 'hostage takers' (remember that nickname?) who want to block all of Obama's 'investments' that are working to 'create jobs.'
Unfortunately, the media calls Republicans racist bigots because we oppose Obama's socialist policies and disastrous foreign policy. The media loves to fight fire with fire, distracting us from the real issues.
Well that is one thing we can
Submitted by Reflect on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 5:40pm.
Well that is one thing we can agree on: the media does like to distract us from real issues.
Semantics
Submitted by Gothampc on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 6:01pm.
I understand your point. It's forcing Obama to answer to a group of people.
But Lauer isn't interested in her answering to that group of people. Lauer is interested in bashing people that don't agree with his ideology.
By linking the word "hate" with "far right" Lauer is hoping to plant a sound byte in viewer's minds. Why didn't he just ask "Why do people hate the policies your husband is trying to put in place?"
Lauer knew exactly what he was doing by using the modifier "far right."
The Question in Question
Submitted by IrateNate on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:10pm.
from transcript of Interview:
O'REILLY: I asked this to President Bush when I talked to him a few weeks ago. Does it disturb you that so many people hate you? No. I mean, it's a serious question.
Am I far right?
Submitted by StarAZ on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 11:05am.
When he first floated out of nowhere and I could not find anything out about him, I pegged him as a big lyin....disingenuous...phony. Nothing in the last two yrs has changed my mind.
I sooo love her last
Submitted by ant on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 2:24pm.
I sooo love her last paragraph. Yeah, honey, alot of jobs that are gone ain't comin' back, so thank you to you and your hubby. I guess we can all just go to college, yeah, that's the ticket, we can learn Chinese and Spanish and maybe we'll get to lead a landscaping crew and work on the houses of the elites who still have jobs. But not for too long because careers are "fluid" now. Is that a nice way of saying expect to get laid off alot or your education will be wasted as you work the Taco Bell drive-thru?
Hey...
Submitted by StarAZ on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 11:08am.
Maybe we could get a $300K job created for us like you did, Michelle...wait, that was pretty unusual...
I dont hate Mr Obama...its
Submitted by bassndude on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 2:24pm.
I dont hate Mr Obama...its that woman! he married I cant stand...
Save a SeAL, club a liberal/troll!!
I would have to agree with
Submitted by mostlymoderate on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 2:58am.
I would have to agree with you. I think Obama might be a nice fella aside from his ridiculous "dreamworld" socialist idealism. If he wasn't a socialist or I didn't know his political positions, I would probably end up liking the guy.
Michelle, on the other hand, reminds me of every "I-am-going-to-make-whitey-pay" superliberal I ever knew at my left-wing university. I know her type and I never liked her type, just like they never liked me.
Translation
Submitted by Gothampc on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 3:11pm.
If you could read lips, here's what you would have really heard:
"Of course people hate my husband. America is a down right mean country."
Unfortunately, the networks have all live interviews on a 10 second delay and so what you heard was "I'm sure there are some people who don't like my husband."
How lhe left creates a narrative
Submitted by metaphorsbwithu on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 3:48pm.
This is how the left creates a narrative that doesn't exist and how their critics fall for the trap by accepting the legitimacy of the premise - as when they declare the members racists without a shred of evidence.
Yes, there may be a small number of people who "hate" Pres. Obama.
However, the passionate opposition to his policies, the way he treats his critics with condescension, and the effect he is having on this country is not based in "hate" dor him personally for the overwhelming majority of people who oppose him.
However, there IS true hate among vast numbers on the left for anyone who effectively opposes them. This becomes even more obvious when the supposed source of their hatred (Gitmo, the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, the Patriot Act and "spying on Americans", lobbyists, "imperial" presidencies, etc. as in the case of GWB) are suddenly downgraded in importance when continued by one of their own.
Yes - people like Sarah Palin, Michele Bachmann, Rush Limbaugh, and Glenn Beck are literally "hated" by people who don't even know what they stand for ... who base their hatred simply on reputation as an emotional reaction.
Of course that's different.
I hear what you're saying
Submitted by Reflect on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 4:09pm.
I hear what you're saying but that doesn't explain exactly why O'Reilly would have asked about Obama hatred first, unless you'd argue that O'Reilly is perpetuating liberal narratives, which I think we can agree he generally does not.
I also disagree with the idea that only a small amount of people hate Obama. Clearly millions of people hate Obama, and there's nothing wrong or unprecedented about that. Yes hate is a strong word but it doesn't imply a willingness to murder or commit a hate crime, it just means hate, which is legal and ok in our democracy. For example, I hate commercials, I really just hate them, big deal. I think a lot of people genuinely hate their rival sports teams. That's okay. Millions of Americans hate every president, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I'd argue it's just PC to say only a few people truly hate the president. It's just not true.
Yes, @The Mirror, I asked the
Submitted by metaphorsbwithu on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 4:27pm.
Yes, @The Mirror, I asked the same question myself when I saw the interview live and, after 30 seconds of pondering, decided the following.
O'Reilly is an egomaniac who loves the exercise of power over people, and identifies with the POTUS whom he obviously admires.
He has a history of going to any limit to appear "fair and balanced" and above the emotional fray. O'Reilly asked "tough" questions but didn't follow up when Obama gave campaign talking point answers and assured him he was on his side - hence the softball empathetic question a Matt Lauer would ask added to the interview.
He himself has been the target of "hate" and can relate. I believe the phenomenon is called "projection" in psychological terms.
O'Reilly has always been a mixed bag which is good and bad but you know what you're getting into - whether as a viewer or an interview.
IMHO
The Aftermath
Submitted by BuffNBone on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 5:06pm.
The worst thing about O'Reilly doing one of these interviews with Obama is the 2-3 weeks it takes his program to return to "normal". I deliberately did not watch the pre-game interview as I fully expected him to bask in its afterglow for a while. So far, predictably, he has not let me down. It is like a 2-3 year old who is moving out of diapers and doesn't want to flush her/his latest BM output. Let it go man. There will be another opportunity.
I enjoyed what his program once was and still do particularly when it is guest hosted by Laura or Megyn. They are two classy ladies who focus on whatever the issue is and don't do the posturing thing. They guide the discussions with informed - precise questioning and let the guests speak for themselves. In short, what journalism should be.
Bill if you read these comments and they cause offense, please PM me with your contact info. I'll get back to you.
BnB
define your perception of extream Bill
Submitted by TerryWest on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 3:53pm.
There are people who "hate" however they are a small minority in general such as is the case re our president imo. I thought Bill's question unnecessary and focusing on the neddle in the hay stack but also wondered just who Bill was referring to when he said later in defending his question that they do hate Obama, especially from the extreme right, perhaps Bill's preception re "extream" includes a much larger base then is my own perception.Her husband is an idiot and
Submitted by LAM SON 719 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 3:57pm.
Her husband is an idiot and she is a moron. She is a bigot who hates America.
It's all rhetoric and
Submitted by mostlymoderate on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:02pm.
It's all rhetoric and misinformation. He had to get "hate Obama" and "far right" in the same sentence. Now a bunch of imbecile's that watch the show are going around thinking "far right" and "hate Obama". Even though it is the farthest thing from the truth.
A more LEGITIMATE question is whether Michelle still hates America and whether Michelle and Barack are racist toward white people.
JakeMo's First Law
Submitted by JakeMo on Mon, 02/14/2011 - 2:25pm.
JakeMo's First Law: Anyone who is known by everyone will be hated by someone.
I didn't understand the point of asking Bush this question. And I don't understand the point of asking the Obamas this question. Nor do I agree with the premise.
I don't expect our leaders, or anyone else for that matter, to modify their principles based on who hates them. I expect them to form their principles based on facts, a willingness to listen, and a desire to do the right thing for the American people.
Your list, JakeMo---
Submitted by matthewdean on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 10:30pm.
despite the fact that LOTUS was elected, details the precise reasons Obama has not been, nor ever will be, the leader of this country as the "United" States.
Just a side note. Michelle
Submitted by mrsimele on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 11:23pm.
Just a side note. Michelle says her husband quit smoking. Does anybody know someone who has tried quitting smoking? They are the most irrational, distressed, annoyed people you will ever know. Isn't it ashamed and irresponsible of this twit to make such a huge personal change on OUR nickel. What incompetence can be atteibuted to the fact thatvthis guy decided to quit while IN the White House and not before actually being in charge of other peoples' well-being? On an ipad so my typing stinks tonight.Michelle's advice to Kitty in Ft. Worth
Submitted by karonbeth09 on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 11:06am.
Michelle may not realize it, but if Kitty is out of work she does not have the money nor the time to go back to school. She probalby doesn't have the money to pay her mortgage or rent. She needs a job NOW! Really, Michelle is even more bubblisitic than her husband. They haven't a clue. He has never had a private sector job and Michelle's jobs have come through political ties.